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Permalink Reply by Bad2theGristle on June 10, 2012 at 2:26pm

I Guess you just gotta take a chance!

MissMidwest said:

 Don't feel put off girl! If any man, regardless of his color, will dismiss a woman solely based on her color, then he is ignorant, biased, and undeserving of her attention in the first place. But, as I said earlier, some men do have their preferences and they definitely can be racial, and physical as well; be it guys who only date big women, skinny women, tall women, or short women, etc. That's funny that you brought up how  you said you fear approaching white men because you think they'd be turned off though-because I was in a similar situation but it was with an athlete who's black (I'm white). He waited 2 years to make a move on me because he was afraid that I would've been turned off by him, which was not the case at all because he was tall, tatted and super fine! Lol it was an interesting situation to say the least; he was the the first guy I dated who wasn't white and I was the first girl he dated who wasn't black. He actually is one of those guys who has a strong preference too, he only dates black women, and to this day says I was the one and only exception lol. 

Bad2theGristle said:

I ask because I do find some white men attractive but always feel put off! And kinda fear approaching them thinking that they'd b completely turned off ... Lol that's just me I guess

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Permalink Reply by Love is a Losing Game on June 10, 2012 at 2:34pm

This is why I fucs wit u black. Coleman, chapter 11 verse 13. I get so tired of black women saying there are no good black men out here. They all in jail or got 99 baby mamas, so they SETTLE for the pookies and ray rays. To each their own,  I just lol, cuz I meet good black men often. Don't believe the hype, there are many good black men out here, and THEY LOVE BLACK WOMEN. There is noting better than a black woman who loves herself. I will say it again, the two of them together can take over the world. Just look at Michelle and Barack. Whether u agree with their politics or not, they made it to the top....TOGETHER.

blackfujones said:

boy i tell ya...the media fools us black folks day after day...they tell yall their are more blk men in prison than in college and you believe it. they tell you blk men on the dl are the cause of many women catching std's and thats false, then the tell you white men have more love for blk women than blk men and we believe it. When will the bs lies stop? maybe when we cut off the damn tv i guess

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Permalink Reply by Savoir Faire on June 10, 2012 at 2:40pm

Thank you brotha and sista!  

Logically the s*** just don't add up.

White people have been fearing/loving people of color throughout antiquity.

Love is a Losing Game said:

This is why I fucs wit u black. Coleman, chapter 11 verse 13. I get so tired of black women saying there are no good black men out here. They all in jail or got 99 baby mamas, so they SETTLE for the pookies and ray rays. To each their own,  I just lol, cuz I meet good black men often. Don't believe the hype, there are many good black men out here, and THEY LOVE BLACK WOMEN. There is noting better than a black woman who loves herself. I will say it again, the two of them together can take over the world. Just look at Michelle and Barack. Whether u agree with their politics or not, they made it to the top....TOGETHER.

blackfujones said:

boy i tell ya...the media fools us black folks day after day...they tell yall their are more blk men in prison than in college and you believe it. they tell you blk men on the dl are the cause of many women catching std's and thats false, then the tell you white men have more love for blk women than blk men and we believe it. When will the bs lies stop? maybe when we cut off the damn tv i guess

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Permalink Reply by Desiree' on June 10, 2012 at 6:00pm

I agree Tone, dont let the media fool you guys. Majority of black men love black women its just a small percent of brain washed coons who dont because of what the media has brain washed them to believe. Anyways yes some white men find black women very attractive ive met a few who worship black women and say that black women are their preference over all races. I guess it all just depends on the man.

Tone said:

That is a smaller % of black men. Most of us love black women. I find it crazy to say black men only love black women when it fashionable

Bonita said:

Tone you missed the point, most races are more consistent in loving their own but some black man will be quick not to like his own when his mother and sisters are black.

Tone said:

Please tell me how white men show black women more love then black men? Black women kill me with this because a few cacs ask you out that means they show more love then the 98% of black man that came before him.

Bonita said:

ditto! Thats why I hopped off the train of having a preference for only black men and now am an equal opportunity employer..lol

Eleven8 said:

I get approached a lot by white guys. Even guys from other countries. White men love black women. Latin men love black women. Black men sorta like us when it's fashionable.

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Permalink Reply by LaMonet on June 10, 2012 at 6:13pm

 AMEN...Amen,

blackfujones said:

boy i tell ya...the media fools us black folks day after day...they tell yall their are more blk men in prison than in college and you believe it. they tell you blk men on the dl are the cause of many women catching std's and thats false, then the tell you white men have more love for blk women than blk men and we believe it. When will the bs lies stop? maybe when we cut off the damn tv i guess

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Permalink Reply by Collete on June 10, 2012 at 7:35pm

@ Love....you are on point...i meet good black men daily that love black women...but we women make a lot of wrong choices..Nothing better than black love

Love is a Losing Game said:

This is why I fucs wit u black. Coleman, chapter 11 verse 13. I get so tired of black women saying there are no good black men out here. They all in jail or got 99 baby mamas, so they SETTLE for the pookies and ray rays. To each their own,  I just lol, cuz I meet good black men often. Don't believe the hype, there are many good black men out here, and THEY LOVE BLACK WOMEN. There is noting better than a black woman who loves herself. I will say it again, the two of them together can take over the world. Just look at Michelle and Barack. Whether u agree with their politics or not, they made it to the top....TOGETHER.

blackfujones said:

boy i tell ya...the media fools us black folks day after day...they tell yall their are more blk men in prison than in college and you believe it. they tell you blk men on the dl are the cause of many women catching std's and thats false, then the tell you white men have more love for blk women than blk men and we believe it. When will the bs lies stop? maybe when we cut off the damn tv i guess

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Permalink Reply by Goldie F***'n Fish on June 11, 2012 at 2:16am

My dating situation has nothing to do with the media. Most of the black men who I come across are all dating white, indian, whatever spanish wavy thing they can get a hold of.  If anything, you can blame the media for showcasing Kim Kardashian as the sexiest woman alive.

But to stay on topic, It's not just white men. I find that I have an even amount of many races approach me. Syrians, Nigerians, Russian, Panamanians, Jamaicans, etc. 

We're loved. But American black men, I feel don't value us as much, especially the more succesfull they become.

blackfujones said:

boy i tell ya...the media fools us black folks day after day...they tell yall their are more blk men in prison than in college and you believe it. they tell you blk men on the dl are the cause of many women catching std's and thats false, then the tell you white men have more love for blk women than blk men and we believe it. When will the bs lies stop? maybe when we cut off the damn tv i guess

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Permalink Reply by l8dy-c on June 11, 2012 at 3:05am

I'm from L.A and on my block all you see is diverse races. Even in the malls I barely see black live. Every friend is either mixed and isn't even with her own race.
All you see is mixed couples. Other than my part of town is all white. I see other races but like I said they are with other races too.Most if my friends that are mixed with black/ Japanese and black/white say they have had bad bad experiences with white men. Smh and the black men have had some serous issues with the shite men. Police and courts involved.

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Permalink Reply by Tone © on June 11, 2012 at 4:42am

I really think black women feel left out sometime and it not because of the lack of love from black men. but men of other races. When you go out your comparing yourself to other women. So if you see an indian woman get hit on by black Asian white and Hispanic men and you're only getting black you're going to feel upset not because you can't get a black man but the fact that an Indian girl is getting more options then you.
Goldie F***'n Fish said:

My dating situation has nothing to do with the media. Most of the black men who I come across are all dating white, indian, whatever spanish wavy thing they can get a hold of.  If anything, you can blame the media for showcasing Kim Kardashian as the sexiest woman alive.

But to stay on topic, It's not just white men. I find that I have an even amount of many races approach me. Syrians, Nigerians, Russian, Panamanians, Jamaicans, etc. 

We're loved. But American black men, I feel don't value us as much, especially the more succesfull they become.

blackfujones said:

boy i tell ya...the media fools us black folks day after day...they tell yall their are more blk men in prison than in college and you believe it. they tell you blk men on the dl are the cause of many women catching std's and thats false, then the tell you white men have more love for blk women than blk men and we believe it. When will the bs lies stop? maybe when we cut off the damn tv i guess

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Permalink Reply by DJ - A.K.A - DON_JUAN on June 11, 2012 at 1:02pm

all of this.....im sorry but i dont fall for that ohh majority of blk men want and lust for wht women s***. im a blk male and i know and hangout with lots of blk males. ( successful and broke lol) most if not all are with blk women. im with tone on this media hype s***. now dont get me wrong, there are certain areas, places, etc. that u may see this more, but its nothing to make me thing all blk men are chasing wht women. i live in the real world, not that bs they showing on t.v.

blackfujones said:

boy i tell ya...the media fools us black folks day after day...they tell yall their are more blk men in prison than in college and you believe it. they tell you blk men on the dl are the cause of many women catching std's and thats false, then the tell you white men have more love for blk women than blk men and we believe it. When will the bs lies stop? maybe when we cut off the damn tv i guess

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Permalink Reply by Siren on June 11, 2012 at 1:21pm

This topic is old & tired.... I know more black men that deal with black women than ones that don't.

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Permalink Reply by Brown Skin Beauty on June 11, 2012 at 2:23pm

Yes this topic has run it's course.

Siren said:

This topic is old & tired.... I know more black men that deal with black women than ones that don't.

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