Over the weekend I attended a very prominent gathering. Make a long story short, I was accosted by at least four young men with very noteworthy jobs: one of Somali decent, three Indian men and a cute little Asian guy. I've decided to pursue something with one of the India guys (who is in his 3rd year of residency where I live).

I say this to say: DON'T BELIEVE THE HYPE! All races of men like educated, well-kept, poised Black women. I remember a White male telling me how he always spotted the prettiest Black girl in the room before spotting any other female. We are wanted. I am not mixed; I am black (and brown at that) and, for the last decade I've been approached by just as many people outside my race as inside. Thus, Black females, don't believe the hype. The world is our oyster and so is EVERY man in it ;)

*continues conversation with my new, hot, Indian doctor*

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Don't even bother. Just ignore him. Enjoyed this post, Baby Cheeks, and I did not notice it until I made the decision to expand my horizons.

Eleven8 said:

shut up tone.

Tone said:

why do you need other races of men to tell you that you look good?

You can't ignore the truth.  

PlaneJaneLane said:

Don't even bother. Just ignore him. Enjoyed this post, Baby Cheeks, and I did not notice it until I made the decision to expand my horizons.

Eleven8 said:

shut up tone.

Tone said:

why do you need other races of men to tell you that you look good?

Lmao!!! Y'all sound like brother and sister lol





Eleven8 said:

shut up tone.

Tone said:

why do you need other races of men to tell you that you look good?

@Tone, you're not a  black female, so you really don't get what we're saying.  Unfortunately quite a few (not ALL, but quite a few) black men have taken on the habit of being attracted to what they THINK they should be attracted to.   For quite a few (again, not ALL) this looks like a chick with a certain complexion, certain hair style, certain body type and what have you.  Many times when you encounter these men, they are kinda rude about what you're NOT.  A simple "no thank you" is fine, but too often these men are out here hollerin' bout the type of chick they want on their arm and being very degrading to any woman who does not fit that.  When you encounter this over and over it gets tiring and it wears on you, and it's refreshing to meet a man who appreciates what you have to offer.  The fact that he's a different race is mentioned because like Ms. Cheeks and others alluded to, there's this idea that men of other races are less attracted to women of color. 

Every time I go out its always jewish, indian and african guys that give me the most play. 

I get a lot of play from white men and latin men.....and african men but they're usually trying to marry me on the spot and i'm not about that life lol

McKenna Hylton said:

Every time I go out its always jewish, indian and african guys that give me the most play. 

;) thanks girl 

Lisa A said:

Although i doubt this matters but I'm a white women and i think black women are insanely attractive. I am guilty of doing that jealous gawk every time i see ya'll. :)

omg Eleven, you just drummed up some BAD and scary memories lol. African men do NOT play- they meet you date 1, you "casually" meet their entire tribe family date 2 and day 3 n*gga has a ring- I'm ALL the way good on that haha.

Eleven8 said:

I get a lot of play from white men and latin men.....and african men but they're usually trying to marry me on the spot and i'm not about that life lol

McKenna Hylton said:

Every time I go out its always jewish, indian and african guys that give me the most play. 

Lmao @Sissy! Girl why this african dude set up a FIRST date for me him AND his daughter?! Girl I was tryna get away from there sooooooo fast! Lol

Thank you for given a real response.  I understand your viewpoint. My issue is with women that make it to easy for these non black men to get them.

livelife25 said:

@Tone, you're not a  black female, so you really don't get what we're saying.  Unfortunately quite a few (not ALL, but quite a few) black men have taken on the habit of being attracted to what they THINK they should be attracted to.   For quite a few (again, not ALL) this looks like a chick with a certain complexion, certain hair style, certain body type and what have you.  Many times when you encounter these men, they are kinda rude about what you're NOT.  A simple "no thank you" is fine, but too often these men are out here hollerin' bout the type of chick they want on their arm and being very degrading to any woman who does not fit that.  When you encounter this over and over it gets tiring and it wears on you, and it's refreshing to meet a man who appreciates what you have to offer.  The fact that he's a different race is mentioned because like Ms. Cheeks and others alluded to, there's this idea that men of other races are less attracted to women of color. 

lmao sooooo you're pretty much just hating/trying to cock block, huh? Cool...

Tone said:

Thank you for given a real response.  I understand your viewpoint. My issue is with women that make it to easy for these non black men to get them.

livelife25 said:

@Tone, you're not a  black female, so you really don't get what we're saying.  Unfortunately quite a few (not ALL, but quite a few) black men have taken on the habit of being attracted to what they THINK they should be attracted to.   For quite a few (again, not ALL) this looks like a chick with a certain complexion, certain hair style, certain body type and what have you.  Many times when you encounter these men, they are kinda rude about what you're NOT.  A simple "no thank you" is fine, but too often these men are out here hollerin' bout the type of chick they want on their arm and being very degrading to any woman who does not fit that.  When you encounter this over and over it gets tiring and it wears on you, and it's refreshing to meet a man who appreciates what you have to offer.  The fact that he's a different race is mentioned because like Ms. Cheeks and others alluded to, there's this idea that men of other races are less attracted to women of color. 

They don't play ANY games and don't waste any time lol

Love is a Losing Game said:

Lmao @Sissy! Girl why this african dude set up a FIRST date for me him AND his daughter?! Girl I was tryna get away from there sooooooo fast! Lol

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