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Permalink Reply by JustMe on April 3, 2012 at 11:51am

I am deathly afraid of African, Jamaican, and Haitian men... they are all very stalkerish...

I agree though, "other" men indeed love us... and you don't have to be drop dead gorgeous either...

Something I have noticed with families visiting the beach, white boys loooooove CHOCOLATE sisters...

happy hunting girls!!!!!

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Permalink Reply by Honeycoated on April 3, 2012 at 11:54am

i agree! There are some that have the mindset like Tone described and get so much pu$$y and are just about the nightlife lifestyle. Then there are those that have had so much pu$$y, every kind of way they can get it, but they get tired of that. They want a family, they want to wake up and look over and actually WANT the woman that's laying next to them. They want someone that can be a support system with them. There are alot of lonely men out there! There's only so much hanging out with your boys that you can do and then eventually, you have to take yor ass home and they get tired of coming home to an empty house or apartment. Sure, they may have plenty chicks in their phone they can call to keep the bed warm but they can scroll through their phone and not want any of them either because they dont want to be bothered with what comes with that, so then they end up jerking off like f*** it. (LOL)

There are some that may never grow out of the playboy lifestyle and that's them
 
Love is a Losing Game said:

@tone the black men that don't want to get married are the ones that don't want a 'home' or 'family' structure. By the time u reach 30 most of us are not virgins. So it's not because they can get sex. The guys that marry over 30 are seeking a structured life. The ones that aren't don't want the structured life at that time. Men crave stability too. I used to believe that they were happy just going around stickin that deedy weedy around, but I'm finding they appreciate family and structure too

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Permalink Reply by Dragon Slayer Puss on April 3, 2012 at 12:06pm

Lmao @ jerking off, like f*** it! Lol I think that's how it happens! For mw Honey, I can spot a man that is in a relationship. And I can spot a married man without even seeing his ring. Imo, men in relationships and especially married men are 'cleaner' looking. Their clothes are crispy and bright. They smell like laundry detergent. Most bald headed men's heads be SHINING! Lol, not that dull look. They have a different walk and seem less stressed about life. Most of all they not thirsty or giving off that man whore vibe! The black woman can do amazing things with a man. Make em feel like they can take over the world. I can't blame a non black man for wanting to see what its about.

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Permalink Reply by University of Smitty on April 3, 2012 at 1:50pm

Survey says...married men are the happiest of all men and married women are the most miserable of all women.   And now we know why  lol

Love is a Losing Game said:

Lmao @ jerking off, like f*** it! Lol I think that's how it happens! For mw Honey, I can spot a man that is in a relationship. And I can spot a married man without even seeing his ring. Imo, men in relationships and especially married men are 'cleaner' looking. Their clothes are crispy and bright. They smell like laundry detergent. Most bald headed men's heads be SHINING! Lol, not that dull look. They have a different walk and seem less stressed about life. Most of all they not thirsty or giving off that man whore vibe! The black woman can do amazing things with a man. Make em feel like they can take over the world. I can't blame a non black man for wanting to see what its about.

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Permalink Reply by OLD $PICE PINE NEEDLE on April 3, 2012 at 1:54pm

LMAO @ ....

Love is a Losing Game said:

Lmao @ jerking off, like f*** it! Lol I think that's how it happens! For mw Honey, I can spot a man that is in a relationship. And I can spot a married man without even seeing his ring. Imo, men in relationships and especially married men are 'cleaner' looking. Their clothes are crispy and bright. They smell like laundry detergent. Most bald headed men's heads be SHINING! Lol, not that dull look. They have a different walk and seem less stressed about life. Most of all they not thirsty or giving off that man whore vibe! The black woman can do amazing things with a man. Make em feel like they can take over the world. I can't blame a non black man for wanting to see what its about.

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Permalink Reply by Honeycoated on April 3, 2012 at 2:42pm

I agree. every time i see a white man/black woman couple she is dark skined and/or wears her hair natural. when i was wearing my hair natural, my hair started looking a little Macy Grey-ish so i cut it and the white guy at my job said he liked the way it was before I cut it.

JustMe said:

I am deathly afraid of African, Jamaican, and Haitian men... they are all very stalkerish...

I agree though, "other" men indeed love us... and you don't have to be drop dead gorgeous either...

Something I have noticed with families visiting the beach, white boys loooooove CHOCOLATE sisters...

happy hunting girls!!!!!

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Permalink Reply by Tone © on April 3, 2012 at 3:03pm

A lot of men don't reach our prime until we are in our 30's.  And what i mean by prime i mean financially and emotionally we are the most confident. Now due to this we have more options available to us and we don't want to get married at the moment. Now for a black woman that wants a black family she is kinda fuckked when it comes to marriage

Love is a Losing Game said:

@tone the black men that don't want to get married are the ones that don't want a 'home' or 'family' structure. By the time u reach 30 most of us are not virgins. So it's not because they can get sex. The guys that marry over 30 are seeking a structured life. The ones that aren't don't want the structured life at that time. Men crave stability too. I used to believe that they were happy just going around stickin that deedy weedy around, but I'm finding they appreciate family and structure too

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Permalink Reply by Tone © on April 3, 2012 at 3:04pm

White people love our skin tone more then we do.

Honeycoated said:

I agree. every time i see a white man/black woman couple she is dark skined and/or wears her hair natural. when i was wearing my hair natural, my hair started looking a little Macy Grey-ish so i cut it and the white guy at my job said he liked the way it was before I cut it.

JustMe said:

I am deathly afraid of African, Jamaican, and Haitian men... they are all very stalkerish...

I agree though, "other" men indeed love us... and you don't have to be drop dead gorgeous either...

Something I have noticed with families visiting the beach, white boys loooooove CHOCOLATE sisters...

happy hunting girls!!!!!

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Permalink Reply by temptin_destiny on April 3, 2012 at 5:28pm

I so disagree with you on this point. I agree that men gain more stability in their 30s but with this stability comes more of a desire to me settled. A lot of guys get their fill of whoring in the 20s and tire of that life after while. 

Additionally, how r u speaking on the mentality and analyzing males in their 30s when you still in your 20s?
 

Tone said:

A lot of men don't reach our prime until we are in our 30's.  And what i mean by prime i mean financially and emotionally we are the most confident. Now due to this we have more options available to us and we don't want to get married at the moment. Now for a black woman that wants a black family she is kinda fuckked when it comes to marriage

Love is a Losing Game said:

@tone the black men that don't want to get married are the ones that don't want a 'home' or 'family' structure. By the time u reach 30 most of us are not virgins. So it's not because they can get sex. The guys that marry over 30 are seeking a structured life. The ones that aren't don't want the structured life at that time. Men crave stability too. I used to believe that they were happy just going around stickin that deedy weedy around, but I'm finding they appreciate family and structure too

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Permalink Reply by Tone © on April 3, 2012 at 6:42pm

Not if he feels that he did not get the women he wanted in his 20's

temptin_destiny said:

I so disagree with you on this point. I agree that men gain more stability in their 30s but with this stability comes more of a desire to me settled. A lot of guys get their fill of whoring in the 20s and tire of that life after while. 

Additionally, how r u speaking on the mentality and analyzing males in their 30s when you still in your 20s?
 

Tone said:

A lot of men don't reach our prime until we are in our 30's.  And what i mean by prime i mean financially and emotionally we are the most confident. Now due to this we have more options available to us and we don't want to get married at the moment. Now for a black woman that wants a black family she is kinda fuckked when it comes to marriage

Love is a Losing Game said:

@tone the black men that don't want to get married are the ones that don't want a 'home' or 'family' structure. By the time u reach 30 most of us are not virgins. So it's not because they can get sex. The guys that marry over 30 are seeking a structured life. The ones that aren't don't want the structured life at that time. Men crave stability too. I used to believe that they were happy just going around stickin that deedy weedy around, but I'm finding they appreciate family and structure too

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