Don't think being "Wifey" really means anything!!!
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Ok so this came from a blog that I read from time to time. She shared what her guy friend had to say about females proudly proclaiming to be "wifey" & thinking that is something to aspire to. I kind of knew this stuff already but it just made it concrete for ME to hear it coming from a man.
Read & Discuss Ladies....
I thought this was very interesting, So I'm posting this to my blog to get feedback. I sometimes have very deep conversations with ShattaStar-- Even though sometimes I don't agree with his topics he keeps my mind rolling even more than what it does. Read Below his definitions of "Wife" and "Wifey"
A young lady on twitter asked me whats the difference between being a wife and being a "wifey". I started to laugh but I had to realize that many women today honestly dont know what seperates the two, let alone the true definition of being a wife anymore. Most sistas just wanna get married, but not many wanna be a wife. I see so many women bragging about how shes some guys "wifey" which in my opinion is a low standard for any woman. So I will compare and contrast the difference between wife and "wifey".
A WIFE...
• never has to compete with other women because she is the only woman her man is seeing, "talking to", and interested in. She knows this from his actions. Not just his words.
• The wife knows her mans family and friends. She usually has her mans parents or guardians blessings. Along with his friends. If her lifelong partner's friends and family dont approve of her chances are she isnt going to be his wife.
• A man treats his wife with the utmost respect. Never cheats on her, or lies to her, or treat her like a jumpoff, a "main" or his "wifey".
• The wife usually sees a side of her partner that no one else sees. She knows her man inside and out. His darkest thoughts, secrets, etc. There are no mysteries. No cloudy areas. Everything is in the open.
• The wife is the woman who a man chooses to spend the rest of his life with. She gets the marriage proposal, the ring, and everything that man has to offer her for a lifetime.
A "WIFEY"...
• Is the woman who a man spends all of his time with. Usually been with for a long time. Maybe even live with. But isnt married or engaged. Ever thought why? Keep reading...
• Men know whether he is going to marry a woman in the early stages of the relationship. It takes us men no time to see if a woman is going to be around for a while...or a lifetime.
• The "wifey" also has met SOME of his family, and SOME of his friends. Sometimes the "wifey" may receive the mans family and friends blessings, but its usually over ruled by him...in the end.
• The "wifey" is equivalent to the "main". Meaning the one who he likes or cares about the most out of the women he deals with. The "wifey" is rarely the only one. Just in HER mind she is. But she dont know the TRUTH. Men are NEVER 100% faithful to a "wifey".
Heres why...
• The "wifey" is the woman who he may spend years with. In his heart he knows he wont marry her though. He'll keep her around until the woman who he feels in his heart he WILL marry comes into his vision, then its curtains for the "wifey". A man is going to be faithful or dedicated to the "wifey" for so long before he starts roaming. He will eventually break up with the "wifey" and go be with the woman who he will make his WIFE. So ladies...please stop bragging about how your his "wifey", all that means is your his TEMPORARY wife until the PERMANENT wife comes along. Then its back to the drawing board for you. Don't be stupid. If you dont have a ring on your finger then your just his girlfriend. "Wifey" is a very low standard to claim.
Read & Discuss Ladies....
I thought this was very interesting, So I'm posting this to my blog to get feedback. I sometimes have very deep conversations with ShattaStar-- Even though sometimes I don't agree with his topics he keeps my mind rolling even more than what it does. Read Below his definitions of "Wife" and "Wifey"
A young lady on twitter asked me whats the difference between being a wife and being a "wifey". I started to laugh but I had to realize that many women today honestly dont know what seperates the two, let alone the true definition of being a wife anymore. Most sistas just wanna get married, but not many wanna be a wife. I see so many women bragging about how shes some guys "wifey" which in my opinion is a low standard for any woman. So I will compare and contrast the difference between wife and "wifey".
A WIFE...
• never has to compete with other women because she is the only woman her man is seeing, "talking to", and interested in. She knows this from his actions. Not just his words.
• The wife knows her mans family and friends. She usually has her mans parents or guardians blessings. Along with his friends. If her lifelong partner's friends and family dont approve of her chances are she isnt going to be his wife.
• A man treats his wife with the utmost respect. Never cheats on her, or lies to her, or treat her like a jumpoff, a "main" or his "wifey".
• The wife usually sees a side of her partner that no one else sees. She knows her man inside and out. His darkest thoughts, secrets, etc. There are no mysteries. No cloudy areas. Everything is in the open.
• The wife is the woman who a man chooses to spend the rest of his life with. She gets the marriage proposal, the ring, and everything that man has to offer her for a lifetime.
A "WIFEY"...
• Is the woman who a man spends all of his time with. Usually been with for a long time. Maybe even live with. But isnt married or engaged. Ever thought why? Keep reading...
• Men know whether he is going to marry a woman in the early stages of the relationship. It takes us men no time to see if a woman is going to be around for a while...or a lifetime.
• The "wifey" also has met SOME of his family, and SOME of his friends. Sometimes the "wifey" may receive the mans family and friends blessings, but its usually over ruled by him...in the end.
• The "wifey" is equivalent to the "main". Meaning the one who he likes or cares about the most out of the women he deals with. The "wifey" is rarely the only one. Just in HER mind she is. But she dont know the TRUTH. Men are NEVER 100% faithful to a "wifey".
Heres why...
• The "wifey" is the woman who he may spend years with. In his heart he knows he wont marry her though. He'll keep her around until the woman who he feels in his heart he WILL marry comes into his vision, then its curtains for the "wifey". A man is going to be faithful or dedicated to the "wifey" for so long before he starts roaming. He will eventually break up with the "wifey" and go be with the woman who he will make his WIFE. So ladies...please stop bragging about how your his "wifey", all that means is your his TEMPORARY wife until the PERMANENT wife comes along. Then its back to the drawing board for you. Don't be stupid. If you dont have a ring on your finger then your just his girlfriend. "Wifey" is a very low standard to claim.
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Permalink Reply by Black_Diamond on -
Wow!!! This is deep!!!
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Permalink Reply by Jade on -
Thank you and preach sheila! See the problem with his little whatever you want to call it (script) is its coming from a man, and one man alone. Obviously he is full of shit and don't know wtf he is talking about. All I can say is you know more about men then he does with that bull crap about a man don't cheat on his wife. lol! That's why the divorce rate is so high, right! He is just mad cause he is considered a husby instaed of a husband
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Permalink Reply by Jade on
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And another thing for you females that are agreeing with this bs consider urself a retarded. He is probably doing an experiment to see how many dumb ass B**** will agree with him. Congratulation! You passed his experiment retards. Agreeing with men don't cheat on there wife's. That should have triggered something in your heads ladies that would make you think that his blog is full of s****. Let me get off this for i get more pissed off then what i already am. An women wonder why men treat them like shit. CAUSE YOU ALLOW IT!
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Permalink Reply by CHLOE' CUPCAKES on -
CHUUUURCH!
Sheli said:While this is imformative, I have to ask....why do men assume that all women enter relationships with the intentions of being a WIFE, some just want a life long partner they love, trust, and can grow old with (ex: Oprah and Steadman) if that means being ASSIGNED the title of 'wifey' then oh well. He said "men are never 100% faithful to a 'wifey'," men aren't 100% faithful to the 'WIFE' either so what's the difference? I'll tell you the difference if WIFE is lucky she walks away with alimony, other than that there's no difference. Usually husband is freaking, spending on, cruising with, and cheating on WIFE, with 'wifey' so you tell me who has it better? WIFE because she shares his last name....BOY PLEASE, $50 and a few forms and 'wifey' can change her last name too (without worrying about him divorcing her and ruining her credit i might add). WIFE can be with a man 30 years and have him wake up and realize he wants something better just like he can decide he wants something deeper than 'wifey'. Men should stop trying to assign and define the roles of a woman until they can fully understand and implement the definition and roles of a MAN! That is all....
Wait, that wasn't all....Wifey probably left his ass (boy) to be with a MAN!! I'm with Fantasia'sGhostReader I hate when men try to classify women into some bogus ass group to try to lower their self-worth, so their worthless asses can swoop in like Captin Kirk and save the damn day!!! NINJA please...We got some categories we can classify men in too, if you wanna take it there.
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Permalink Reply by Ms. KissyFace on -
Great post. Next post should be about men that treat their wives like "wifey".
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Permalink Reply by Gucci Ma on -
Some rapper made that shit up
Hotter said:Where di the term "wifey even come from? wasnt it in a song or somethin? Either way I have never liked that term.
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