DREAM KILLERS......DO U KNOW WHO THEY ARE.....

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Permalink Reply by L0vie D0vie on February 8, 2009 at 3:45pm

I've encountered a few "dream killers". im very selective about that I allow in my personal space. I have no problem with cutting someone off or keeping my dreams to myself! I refuse to let these ppl control my happiness or destiny.

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Permalink Reply by Sugar on February 8, 2009 at 4:21pm

@ Gia true I've seen people's family member hate on them, but you have the power to do anything your heart desires. You can't tell everyone everything. There is a plan for each of us. I keep it pumping I don't dwell on it anymore. The Key is knowing who's real and having a support system.

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Permalink Reply by Sugar on February 8, 2009 at 4:31pm

I agree great way to put it ....Hey like Carrie the girls were her family.

Gia said:

I've stopped worrying about them and their negative comments. I live my own life. If I have something to give...I give. If I don't then, I don't. Oh, and none of them (except my mother) called or gave a damn when I moved 1300 miles away to a big city alone at my young age...yet, when I started sending money back to them, they wanted to act like they cared...

I hate to say it but, family or not...I don't need users in my life. I don't need their negativity. I surround myself with people that uplift and inspire...we keep one another sane:) They are my support system...I wish that I could have found that in my own family though... All things happen for a reason...I have no hard feelings where they're concerned.

Sugar said:

@ Gia true I've seen people's family member hate on them, but you have the power to do anything your heart desires. You can't tell everyone everything. There is a plan for each of us. I keep it pumping I don't dwell on it anymore. The Key is knowing who's real and having a support system.

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Permalink Reply by mendo on February 9, 2009 at 3:28pm

Dream killers start to appear and multiply when u waste too much time dilly-dallying. My solution is to be like Nike ..."just do it"!

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Permalink Reply by Stephbaby on February 9, 2009 at 4:33pm

Yes I know ,many... they are what most people call HATERS. And some of them we call them are friends & family, the ones who love to see u going through hard times. All u can do is live ur life, keep it moving & focus on whats important, U. ;-)

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Permalink Reply by tHeOfFiCialLuRKeR on February 9, 2009 at 4:36pm

Everybody's doesn't share your vision, so I no longer ask them to look through the same lens as me.

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Permalink Reply by big spender on February 11, 2009 at 9:26pm

hmmmm....i have a cousin like this and since i've taken notice to her negativity towards my happiness i haven't spoken to her since....

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Permalink Reply by brownbombshell on February 11, 2009 at 9:43pm

my "best friend" was my biggest undercover hater. With her around my life was a toxic shell. She always looked for ways to create chaos where there was none. Tried her best to make my life a mess, real slick-like. Removing her from my life has been the best move I've made in quite some time.

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Permalink Reply by PrettyThinker on February 12, 2009 at 8:18pm

U have to get Quiet.....still your mind......Focus and LISTEN......WHEN U REVEAL YOUR DREAMS.....YOUR ENEMIES/DREAM KILLERS ARE FORCED TO REVEAL THEMSELVES.....WIL SMITH SAID LOOK AT YOUR 5 CLOSEST FRIENDS AND THAT TELLS WHO U R......Watch the company u keep......THAT IS WHY BEYONCE SAYS IN DIVA....."GOING TO ANOTHER LEVEL W/NO PASSENGERS ON MY PLANE.......WATCH LOUD TALKING AGGRESSIVE....TRUE CONFIDENCE IS QUIET AND SIMPLE......I LOVE WISDOM.....

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