You're dating someone and it's fairly new. You experience an emergency. let's say your car was in a wreck and you need more money than you expected to get it fixed. You tell your guy about it. Would you expect him to offer his help finacially? Would you pause and wait for the words "how much do you need?" Or since the courtship is new, you wouldnt expect or even ask for his help. OR would you use this as a barometer as to whether or not you're going to give him some or how helpful or non helpful he may be in the future?

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If your just dating....it's not that serious. Personally, I wouldn't come out of my pocket and i'm sure he feeling the same way but if he is a baller it should be a problem. If he plan on taking it to the next level with you he may offer you the money, but if he doesn't know where he want to take the relationship he may not offering a helping hand and if he doesn't get the booty...oh well i'm sure your number isn't the only one in his phone.

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LOL!

Keytolife said:
If your just dating....it's not that serious. Personally, I wouldn't come out of my pocket and i'm sure he feeling the same way but if he is a baller it should be a problem. If he plan on taking it to the next level with you he may offer you the money, but if he doesn't know where he want to take the relationship he may not offering a helping hand and if he doesn't get the booty...oh well i'm sure your number isn't the only one in his phone.

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:) How long have you been dating him?

*shouldn't be a problem

Honeycoated said:
LOL!

Keytolife said:
If your just dating....it's not that serious. Personally, I wouldn't come out of my pocket and i'm sure he feeling the same way but if he is a baller it should be a problem. If he plan on taking it to the next level with you he may offer you the money, but if he doesn't know where he want to take the relationship he may not offering a helping hand and if he doesn't get the booty...oh well i'm sure your number isn't the only one in his phone.

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If he doesn't offer then that is how the whole relationship will stay.

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Couple months.

Keytolife said:
:) How long have you been dating him?

*shouldn't be a problem

Honeycoated said:
LOL!

Keytolife said:
If your just dating....it's not that serious. Personally, I wouldn't come out of my pocket and i'm sure he feeling the same way but if he is a baller it should be a problem. If he plan on taking it to the next level with you he may offer you the money, but if he doesn't know where he want to take the relationship he may not offering a helping hand and if he doesn't get the booty...oh well i'm sure your number isn't the only one in his phone.

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Hmmmmm...

Ms Jackson If You Nasty said:
If he doesn't offer then that is how the whole relationship will stay.

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