Elegance, Style and Grace should be the new fashion Accessories

Hello Ladies,

For quite sometime I have noticed that there is a key element missing from the game arena lately

Earlier in a discussion I mentioned  that it is not what you do but how you do it, I grew with my grandmother

who really could have been my great grandma but I digress, She always said honey a woman can do anything and be a lady. Here are somethings she would say to me. She was a very down to earth woman

and understood that life is not a bunch of roses, She also worked at the famous Cotton club

 

1.If you are the Mistress, Play your postion with class and style, Never disrepect the wife.

2. Have a the man chase you not the other way around, even you are doing the chasing you make it seem as though he is chasing you

3. Having impeccable table etiquette, Many ballers especially some athletes do not know what spoon is for what course of the meal

4. Being elegant a classy does not mean being a prude, I think about Josephine Baker and Dorthy Danridge.

5.Grooming must be the top of the line, Meaning not just hair and nails and eyebrow waxing. What about a facial and investing in a good dermatologist . To me the nail chop shop is done!!! I  now go to the spa

 

6.For the love of god please know how to dress for evening, Even if you are in shape the proper undergarments can make world of difference and make you look polished and refined. Which in turn makes you stand out in good way. Oh and ladies you can find pretty ones if you look.

7. Treat your fellow sisters with respect even if they may act otherwise. Here is a sitiuon that happen to me

 I was at an event where A corporate baller and I were having a conversation, when a fellow sister in the arena approaches us I knew she was going in for the kill,I must admit she was prettier and more in shape than myself,so many thoughts start to run through my head.

But I stayed clam and held my ground as a lady. Well it paid of because the gentlemen saw through her rouse and turned is attentions back to me. He did buy her a drink, after she left he said to me I admire the fact you remained a lady

8. All fashions are not for every body so find what works for you and roll with it.

9. Make- up should be an enhancement not look like spackle.

 

Ladies please ad to the list.

"If its not in the marrow it can't come out in the bone"

Tags: Class, Elelgance, Style

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My great grandmother always said "A man should love you more than you love him"...
My granny said this too and guess what they were right, Back in the day she said men would atl east show up to your door with flowers in hand.They knew how to woo you, Women expected more back then 

MissBling said:
My great grandmother always said "A man should love you more than you love him"...

You are very right, in light of recent hoe-topics we really need to raise perceptions of women.

 

my grandma used to say : never let a man to see you are upset or mad at him, in fact never get mad or cry over him. If needed fake the tears but don't be feeling sad. If he did something wrong make sure to stay busy and make yourself happy, ignore and don't let him back until he figures out and fixes what he did, but ignore not in a rude way and get off at him later, but kind of like you are so busy to be happy on your own that you totally forgot about him. Always stay sweet and nice even if you want to chop off his head. 

I feel that we need to stick together too, There is no need for jealously or to step on each other toes.

that is how men get us to hate each other, It was another female one time that got me into an exclusive event

 because I was nice and polite to her in the ladies room. Others had snub their noses at her. Yes another woman maybe thinner or prettier but that woman could be a serious aly for you..

 

I know one thing some of these wigs I see are just out of control, How can you be original if you look like everyone else.

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