So I check my email today and I see a email from my daughters father we have not been in contact in years and no financial support from him at all.....He is asking to see her and if I hate him and blah blah blah....I'm thinking why the sudden concern I haven't been in contact with you I don't bother you I haven't attempted to put you on child support I don't email or call you. I don't know what to tell him. Part of me says curse him out and let him know what a loser he is and another parts is like let go. Any suggestions?

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Yeah.....I felt like you were having some type of flashback so I left it alone. 
 
CCD is Workin on a baller 4 she said:

Ok, I reread my comment lol and I may have gotten a tad heated. I do apologize if I offended anyone. I just hate a deadbeat parent. There's a man and a woman that if I ever meet them, we are going to have a misunderstanding of epic proportion because of the ill way they have treated and are treating their children. And the children ain't even my blood kin. One of these kids is so messed up in the head behind his mother's s*** he's a teenager and scared all the time someone is going to abandon him and leave him hungry and alone like...woooosah! Let me stop.

Sorry y'all. Sore subject. I've seen it too many times before.

You need to read back through some of my post just because someone gives you money doesn't mean they are there for you. My dad was abusive to everyone emotionally,physically,and mentally in that house and controlled us by his financial means. The only reason you'd deal with him is for financial reasons... Parent or not what other reason would I continue on a relationship with someone who demeans me. I said I had 700$ weave a few weeks ago not a year ago when I asked him for money financially I was in. Different place then. I haven't asked my dad for a cent since that day... I am grown I am under no obligation to him I wil. Respect him cause he's my parent but he is disrespectful on more levels than one.

University of Smitty said:

You need to grow up.  When people who've always been there for you refuse to do something, it's because they KNOW that you're capable of doing it yourself........even emergencies.  If you can find a way to rock $700 worth of HAIR, you should be able find a way to take care of whatever your daughter needs without begging and selling sh*t.  
 
PrettyPretty said:

Well basically I stopped talking to him because a medical emergency occurred with my daughter I asked for his help and he basically blew me off and it pissed me off I don't think he owes me anything so he had the right to say no but he claims he loves her and she had a serious medical condition but I sold some stuff and took care of the situation. He called me recently but he basically just wanted to be nosey and see if I was doing bad and talk junk and see a pic of us to see how terrible we looked since he isn't footing my bills anymore. Of course no comments on the pic because we didn't look crazy as expected.


University of Smitty said:

DEAD@ CC  lol

 

I have a question for Pretty.  Why hasnt your daughter seen or spoken to her grandfather??????  I remember you falling out with him because he was right and you were WRONG.  I hope your not keeping her away from him because of that.

 

 

That's my point, nobody's parents are perfect.  As far as your father is concerned, he who pays the cost is the boss in every household in the land.  Anytime you stick your hand out to somebody, they're going to talk sh*t and you have to listen to it or dont stick your hand out.  I feel like you went through alot because of some misplaced pride you have.  If you daughter's father was ballin during a time when yall were struggling, you should have gone to child support but instead you ran to your father.  Whatever is going on with you and your child is not your father's responsibilty.  That move just created something else for you to be mad about and now she doesnt have her grandfather anymore......that's crazy to me. 

 

 

PrettyPretty said:

You need to read back through some of my post just because someone gives you money doesn't mean they are there for you. My dad was abusive to everyone emotionally,physically,and mentally in that house and controlled us by his financial means. The only reason you'd deal with him is for financial reasons... Parent or not what other reason would I continue on a relationship with someone who demeans me. I said I had 700$ weave a few weeks ago not a year ago when I asked him for money financially I was in. Different place then. I haven't asked my dad for a cent since that day... I am grown I am under no obligation to him I wil. Respect him cause he's my parent but he is disrespectful on more levels than one.

University of Smitty said:

You need to grow up.  When people who've always been there for you refuse to do something, it's because they KNOW that you're capable of doing it yourself........even emergencies.  If you can find a way to rock $700 worth of HAIR, you should be able find a way to take care of whatever your daughter needs without begging and selling sh*t.  
 
PrettyPretty said:

Well basically I stopped talking to him because a medical emergency occurred with my daughter I asked for his help and he basically blew me off and it pissed me off I don't think he owes me anything so he had the right to say no but he claims he loves her and she had a serious medical condition but I sold some stuff and took care of the situation. He called me recently but he basically just wanted to be nosey and see if I was doing bad and talk junk and see a pic of us to see how terrible we looked since he isn't footing my bills anymore. Of course no comments on the pic because we didn't look crazy as expected.


University of Smitty said:

DEAD@ CC  lol

 

I have a question for Pretty.  Why hasnt your daughter seen or spoken to her grandfather??????  I remember you falling out with him because he was right and you were WRONG.  I hope your not keeping her away from him because of that.

 

 

So after I mentioned the financial end of it he never contacted me back....I gave him my number and all and he didn't even call to speak to her.So in the event he contacts me again I am simply going to ignore him.Am I wrong?

Its so crazy cause yesterday she said she was writing a letter to her dad to tell him to come see her because she misses him very much. I never even told her he contacted me. Its just sad

In this case, it is definitely HIM not you. 

PrettyPretty said:

So after I mentioned the financial end of it he never contacted me back....I gave him my number and all and he didn't even call to speak to her.So in the event he contacts me again I am simply going to ignore him.Am I wrong?

Its so crazy cause yesterday she said she was writing a letter to her dad to tell him to come see her because she misses him very much. I never even told her he contacted me. Its just sad

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