FIRST DATES

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Permalink Reply by Sugar Dick on December 2, 2008 at 8:36pm

ALL MEN ARENT PHYSCO. SHE OFFERED HIM FOOD, SO HE COMING TO EAT. THATS WHY SHE KEEPS A STEADY MAN. SHE KNOWS HOW TO KEEP THEM SATISFIED WITH A MEAL. IF HE ASKED HER TO COOK THEN I WOULD AGREE WITH CHARLIE HE WANT THEM DRAWS (OLD SCHOOL MOVE I USED TO USE IT. HER BED IS IN THE NEXT ROOM LOL) I DONT SEE NOTHING WRONG WITH IT. YALL HOES ARE JUST PARANOID FROM WATCHING LIFETIME CHANNEL MOVIES AND SHELL SCHOKED FROM DATING TO MANY THUG NIGGAS.

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Permalink Reply by lady lynxx- ladylynxx.ning.com on December 2, 2008 at 9:29pm

Umm no....that is waaaayyyyyy too much pressure for the 1st date! I just came out of lurk mode to say that...

*goes back to lurking*

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Permalink Reply by Madisonnocyberbully on December 2, 2008 at 9:37pm

this sounds like ish that I'd fall for - hell no-I agree with Caviiar old fashioned tricking ..

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Permalink Reply by Devyn AKA Dominique Devereaux on December 2, 2008 at 9:44pm

LMAO @ Sugar Dick!

As long as she understands she's setting a tone with the first date home-cooked meal,tell her to pull out her best recipe and put it on him! He may never leave...

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Permalink Reply by Goldie Fish on December 3, 2008 at 2:39am

nooo maddi(slaps u for the umpteenth time)
Lol@ sugardick

Madisonnocyberbully said:

this sounds like ish that I'd fall for - hell no-I agree with Caviiar old fashioned tricking ..

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Permalink Reply by Sugar on December 3, 2008 at 8:49am

I wouldn't only because that set's the tone for the relationship then he is only going to want to stay in etc..etc.. And men get spoiled way faster than women smh...He might never want to take her out. Personally I only cook for my man. I love to cook and will do it in a heart beat but food is my thing and that's for my man only!!! Somethings can't be shared with everyone. Then he will think she brings everyone to her house. Men needs to feel safe where they lay their head (the ones I've messed with). I mean it is the first date...Shyt don't listen to me idk...

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Permalink Reply by LaLa_Mz_LA on December 3, 2008 at 9:20am

I wouldnt recommed it...I'm not entertaining a stranger at my home next thing ya know he's stalking you. Folks are crazy!

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Permalink Reply by Le Coquette on December 3, 2008 at 9:39am

If she cooks for him on the first date he will always expect that. Start saying "your food tastes better than any restaurant" Next thing you know she'll be rushing home from work cuz this ninja wants a Thanksgiving meal on a Tuesday night.

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Permalink Reply by Boss/MadamBA on December 3, 2008 at 10:04am

So the only person that sees nothing wrong with it is Sugar Dick...LOL

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Permalink Reply by Denise on December 3, 2008 at 10:08am

Number one he should not be coming to her home on a 1st date...he should'nt even know were she lives.....cooking for someone is an earned treat, not a given. I think she should go out a while...and I mean go out....not to his house or hers before she is cooking up meals

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Permalink Reply by babydoll on December 3, 2008 at 10:15am

Nope... I don't let anyone I'm not serious about know where the "Honeycomb Hideout" is... You never know how wrong this thing could go. What happens if he's expecting "open legs" for dessert, and she made key lime pie? How akward is that? What if the mofo thinks he's going to make a night of it?

IF she's feeling him like that, then make sure SOMEBODY knows exactly what's going on ... and most importantly, tell her to keep the house alarm key fob close-by... if he gets outta line - HIT THE PANIC BUTTON! Also, call, call, call since you know he's there!

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Permalink Reply by hottestbitch on December 3, 2008 at 11:00am

she can cook the food and take it somewhere... i dont know mayb a picnic at the park? but its not such a good idea having a man she knows for a week to come over to her place...

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