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First Time Sugar Daddy/Baby Relationship?? HELP!
TRYING TO KEEP IT SHORT AND SWEET BUT...LOL
I met a guy in Buckhead, Ga who told me up front to get a prepaid card because he is very discreet. I bought it...he asked for the account info so he can just direct deposit it from his company and so his wife won't know(disguise it as an employee)...now he says that I will be paid biweekly. But he wants to start "seeing" me soon....(the day that I met him I left for Europe for a week and it has been maybe 2.5 weeks since we met, have been keeping up with emails, texts, calls. )
Tis is my first time having anyone set up like this...he was very straight forward saying he wants a physical relationship and is willing to pay for it.
Should i trust this and begin a relationship with him and wait on payment like an employee? I mean if it works out it sounds very lucrative...but how do I know he isn't just saying this to every woman he meets and hits and moves on to the next...am i too paranoid? He was not trying to give me cash at all.
Is it normal for a guy who is upfront like this to actually come through on promises like this later and regularly?
Has anyone met a guy like this and pursued it? Good Outcome?
Or should I just use my third eye?
Thanks for the help.... I am just leery, lol.
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Permalink Reply by Student Beauty on -
+1
SACK CHASER said:True, but she can transfer or withdraw it from the card as soon as he puts it on there.
Desiree' said:Make sure you have the money in hand first before you go any further. I would be hesitant even if he put it on a card because he could easily just take money from the card as well being that he has the account info.
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Permalink Reply by blackback on -
Wow thanks so much your advise is just what I need...I will follow it an d there will be an update next week!
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Permalink Reply by CCD is Workin on a baller 4 she on -
Exactly! This is my thing, if he is a real baller he will drop the dough in your account without any excuses. A true baller with class knows this and would have done so without all this bartering. Even if you didn't go through with it, a true baller knows he can trash talk you so bad that you would have a difficult time securing another baller. So he knows that if he drops the cash in your account then it will be sexy time. He's trying to get his sexy on without paying.
Student Beauty said:You beat half of the battle, he is willing to kick the dough! So, now all you have to do is, ask when will he be dropping the money on the card! Just make sure you make him laugh find something that you have in common out of the bedroom. Umm, this is your starrring role!
You can have dinner and he could make sure the money is on the card before anything happens. Read up on your currents events so you will have something to talk about. Try to keep the conversation about other things except you. You want to create some type of fantasy for him If he is paying make that dough work for you. Let him talk about himself and laugh at his horrible jokes.
Never allow him to say, "I can pay you next week, you know I am good for it" umm, Pu*sy is not to be laid away!
Make a list of thing you NEED and have it cross it out. Know his favorite color so you can have it on when you meet him. Dont get played!
Like Sack chaser said "Purse first asz last!"
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Permalink Reply by FrostBiteMe on -
Wow..I'm so glad I found this site! I had this same situation months earlier and my gut feeling told me he needed to show funds first because he could up and leave at any time.
I didn't quite know how to make that clear without sounding business-like so I took a loss on that one. Hopefully you ladies will teach me how to maneuver better lol!
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Permalink Reply by OLD $PICE PINE NEEDLE on -
Don't catch feelings.
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Permalink Reply by Student Beauty on
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Sounding business like would have been a great way... Never be ashamed to talk about money!! Men are not ashamed to ask you for some!
FrostBiteMe said:Wow..I'm so glad I found this site! I had this same situation months earlier and my gut feeling told me he needed to show funds first because he could up and leave at any time.
I didn't quite know how to make that clear without sounding business-like so I took a loss on that one. Hopefully you ladies will teach me how to maneuver better lol!
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Permalink Reply by Student Beauty on
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+1 She is right that is the number one rule!!
OLD $PICE PINE NEEDLE said:Don't catch feelings.
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Permalink Reply by MS. UCAN NEVA GET ENUFF!! on -
why did it have to be a pre-paid card...I mean he couldnt just deposit the money in your account you already have?? sounds a lil fishy to me...cantt be business, cuz you cant track business xpenses on a prepaid either *shrugs* purse first..
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Permalink Reply by Dragon Slayer Puss on
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I say do it too. He might trust you more and break mo bread cuz he see u trusted him. Demanding money like this upfront might make him comply but its just a one time thing. With him trusting you he might make u his regular boo and take u to Europe with him. lol
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Permalink Reply by Creative Bee on -
Wait for the money on the account. He can transfer to your paypal accnt as well and write it off as anything. Wonder why wouldn't he use paypal instead. Make sure he is not bluffing, in my Kevin Harts voice "The way my account is set up..." lol
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Permalink Reply by MissBling on -
His ass is trying to hustle your ass out of your draws. He definitely needs to drop a payment. Matter of fact, tell his ass you not talking anymore until some form of cash pops up on that card.
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