"FRENEMIES" HOW TO DEAL WITH DAT HATIN AZZ BFF

Have u ever had that friend that loves to hate u? I mean seriously to the point where u just want to cut dat biatch off completly! How can a female be so jealous. She wants to know your every move, who, wat, where, why, when and most of all why not her??? Its bad when u can see the signs but just cant seen to cut the person off! It can sometimes be amusing 2 watch a female copy your everymove and fail! B c i luv my haters but DAMN! The type of chica who is mad when you are out and a guy approaches you and she is mad bc he offered you a drink and she is thirsty and lonely as hell! She'll say something like "dont talk to him girl he is ugly, or he just asked me for my number when i went to the ladies room". The whole time 2gether u catch her looking u up and down and instead of telling u how nice u look she finds something to say negative like "why did u get your toes that color"?! Or "i was going to buy those shoes but when they went on sale i decided not to buy them bc i knew everygirl @ the party would have them on" Uuuh! The type that calls u 2 ask"Girl wat u wearing tonite" just so she can try to out do u! But on top of it all u may say she doesnt sound like a real friend to me, but She will give you her last dollar, the clothes off her back and bring the vaseline to a fight! But maybe she just does all of that to brag about what she does for you behind your back! wit friends like these who needs enemies!

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i feel where youre coming from. i knew a chick somewhat like this. we would be out and i would say that im interested in a guy. i know he digging me cause he been checking me out all night. then the next thing i know, this heffa is eye f****** him and s***. if he comes over to holla...at me, she would immediately step in the way and introduce herself and start talking to him. i would be like wtf?!?!

she started to wear her long like mine, use my slang, dress like me, etc. if i did something, she had to do it too. she would tell everyone that we were bff. she didn't say too much negative stuff but she would say that she was jealous of me. (WHICH BY TE WAY IS A RED FLAG!!!) so i had to let the b**** go. s*** was getting outta hand.
Girl, give me a high five on that one.

Cookie Pie said:
I have had a few " friends like that , you described it so accurately ! It just took them to do something extra horrible for me to come out of denial and say I want this person out of my life . One in particular I think about all the time because she was my best friend and I still love her ... but ..... since she's been gone I realize that I was more of a friend to her than she was to me and my life is better without her , as much as it hurts , it's the truth !
People always say you need friends, which you do...However your friends ain't gotta be your road dog...Most of my friends are friends from a distance...I don't want anyone going everywhere with me, doing everything with me. I have walked up in some big events solo...And it ain't nothing for me to go to the movies or somewhere by myself. Don't get me wrong, every now and then, I'll do things with them, but most definitely not most of the time or even half of the time...Besides, sometimes when you're by yourself, it makes it easier for a man, especially one that's balling, to approach you.
Cookie I told you I Spring Clean hoes! I don't have room for extra dram in my life, NOT right NOW!

Plus, when wil ppl realize the difference between friends and associates! A true friend should never truly hate you!
The way I feel about my friends right now, I'm ready to put out a classified looking for new friends. Either one is a hater, one is always negative, always complaining (usually about males) it always something. Females are starting to work my nerves or should I say the females I know are starting to work my nerves. Either way something gotta change!! Smooches & Blessings!
@ damnstraight I feel EVERYTHING you just said chick : D go girl!
I can definitely relate to this. My mother has been telling me these same things about a BFF I have had since middle school, but I just started to see all of these tendencies. The whole give her last, fighting, down for you; but when it comes to guys and materials things, DEGREES (two) upset because of what she doesn't have. I haven't yet cut her loose but I can feel it coming soon.
I've got them in spades! You are preaching to the choir...I just SSE them and keep it moving...

I prefer the devil I know, rather than the one I don't.
Haaa you are too funny!

Dominique P. Smith said:
The way I feel about my friends right now, I'm ready to put out a classified looking for new friends. Either one is a hater, one is always negative, always complaining (usually about males) it always something. Females are starting to work my nerves or should I say the females I know are starting to work my nerves. Either way something gotta change!! Smooches & Blessings!
You just broke it down to perfection...I can so relate..and I hate to say that...I have had the single black female copy cat, the I hate that you know more then me, but want your opinion and hang on you every word..but "F" u...Im like hun???OH and every guy that talks to you ..I have to have..even if they dont like my ass. They try and stick to me like glue and I have had to cut every one of them off like lose my number, and they allllll come back..these type of women are sick and have deep dark issues... walk away walk away..waste of energy..
Chile...Girl... Wheeew! One thing that is so real about me is that If I'm hating I know it and I will admit that I am hating. By the way the only females I ever caught myself hating on were celebrities... No BS! This issue is crazy and at times I have a hard time understanding females and I'm one of them. However, people have different make up's; therefore, no two people are identical in styles, theories, thought patterns, attitudes, and appearance. I say all that to say be happy with who you are your style, theories, thought patterns, etc. Why try to compete or mimic someone else? If your confident about yourself people will notice that an approach you if interested if not you are just not their type... that's life! So why are you jealous cuz this person can finish themselves nicely and is attractive? That question is a million dollar question the only logic is that, that person suffers some extreme insecurities... Personally, I would avoid this person to an extent and inform them that I am aware of the situation by responding to their jealous remarks with a smile that says your a jealous b**** and I know it. In addition, this person could not be a friend of mine she would be labeled as an associate. How can this person be your friend when she envy's you? A yo! Miss Stress that sounds familiar I just peeped something and your funny as s***! LMAO...A man it is what it is...Tootles!
True Story!!!

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