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ok ladies..i have to share this with you ladies because I really dont have anyone else to share it with. a few weeks ago a "baller" that i've been dealing with invited me outta town, and at the last minute told me to bring a friend..I only have 2 friends that can just up & travel last minute like that, 1 took too long to respond so I asked a friend that i met thru her to come with..she obliged, we had a good time and started hanging out more after that trip...i hadnt talked to the baller much since the trip because he kind of turned me off, i was on the fence on whether or not i wanted to continue seeing him because he's an a******, im not attracted to him AT ALL and most importantly he's not breaking off enough $$$!!..but I called him last week just to touch base & whatnot..& he's like "i've been trying to call you, wanted to see if you could travel..im out on the west coast, (my friend's name) is out here..." im like oh ok..but then i thought about it..im like "she's out there..YOU flew her out there??" "yeah" he says. now i do not care about this guy at all, he's not breaking me off enough for me to really really snap but i was def kind of pissed!! she didnt even call me to tell me he invited her out there! what type of s*** is that?? she apologized like "yeah im sorry i shouldve called you & told you..but i came out here to make $$ (she has various hustles)..he knows this aint that" & blah blah blah. whether she & him are messing around really isnt my concern. just dont try to make moves on MY moves behind my back! wtf!!!?? i wanna be a bitch & call him & ask for 1 of his friend's numbers so i can hit them up next time I wanna go outta town lol because that wasnt cool on his behalf either. wtf is wrong with people lol smh...
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Permalink Reply by DdoubleD on -
Firsr of all they shouldn’t even have each other contact info. If they have some business going on it should’ve first go through. A man is gonna do him, but that trick should’ve had some damn loyalty. You were kind enough to bring her ass outta town and she had the nerve to go behind her back.
I wouldn’t say s*** to either of them about it. Play it cool and don’t sweat it., act as if it didn’t even bother you Use his ass for money and make sure you never put that trick on AGAIN.
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Permalink Reply by Nicole Royale on -
my phone died on the plane so i had to use her phone when we landed to call him, thats how he got the #..also he kind of "sent us on our way" quite a bit throughout the trip so contacts probably would've been exchanged anyway "just in case"..whatever, him having the # isnt my real concern but i def feel what you're saying! i def played it cool w/ the both of them & will continue to even if i decide to do (or say) something a lil bitchy lol..on her behalf that was sheisty to me, i feel a little used in a sense...so i will now just use her for her industry connects & fun free events she invites me to :)
DdoubleD said:Firsr of all they shouldn’t even have each other contact info. If they have some business going on it should’ve first go through. A man is gonna do him, but that trick should’ve had some damn loyalty. You were kind enough to bring her ass outta town and she had the nerve to go behind her back.
I wouldn’t say s*** to either of them about it. Play it cool and don’t sweat it., act as if it didn’t even bother you Use his ass for money and make sure you never put that trick on AGAIN.
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Permalink Reply by Dragon Slayer Puss on
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Yea, I'd stay cool with them both and use them for what I needed. You can get more bees with honey than vinegar or what ever they say lol
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Permalink Reply by Nicole Royale on
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YES!!!!!!!!
Love is a Losing Game said:Yea, I'd stay cool with them both and use them for what I needed. You can get more bees with honey than vinegar or what ever they say lol
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Permalink Reply by ATown SouthernGal on -
Girl you are tripping off of a friends friend. She was never your friend to begin with so she has no loyalty to you. Better get it how you get it it's a rough world out here.
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Permalink Reply by Brown Skin Beauty on -
I agree with Atown. I would have expected anything less.
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Permalink Reply by CCD is Workin on a baller 4 she on -
+1, yeah she was sheisty as hell but she owes you no loyalty. Just do what you said and keep it sweet and use them BOTH for what you can. It will work out for your betterment in the end. Oh! And your baller is messy. He was trying to start shyt by telling you she was there AFTER THE FACT. That fugger knew how to get in touch with you.
ATown SouthernGal said:Girl you are tripping off of a friends friend. She was never your friend to begin with so she has no loyalty to you. Better get it how you get it it's a rough world out here.
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Permalink Reply by Eleven8 on -
I agree with ATown also, she was just a friend of a friend, she had no loyalty to you to begin with so it's definitely expected she would've saw opportunity and snagged it. Also, while he's asking if you could travel did you ask if he could pay for it like he did her?
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Permalink Reply by DdoubleD on
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Lesson learned don't bring tricks outta town that you can't trust! I feel if we are cool enough to go outta town together then I should be able to trust you to an certain level.
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Permalink Reply by BlackSnakeMoan on -
lol happens all the time. NEVER BRING A FRIEND.
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Permalink Reply by BlkButtafly on -
1. She's not really your friend.
2. He's not just YOUR baller (at least in her eyes)...yet.
3. Lesson learned.
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