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Permalink Reply by CCD is Workin on a baller 4 she on May 16, 2011 at 12:56pm

$picey, I could have sworn he said he was going to fall back on these subjects. *rolls eyes* I guess I was being naive. lol

SPICE said:

This is what you got from this??? Young buck, keep working on yourself :)
Tone said:

I just feel if you want a lifestyle you go out and work for it. Plus she is making it seem like women are above men and we are suppose to do everything and a woman just gets the world simply based on the fact that she is a woman.
SPICE said:

lmao @ Tone. You about to start a war up in here.

 

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Permalink Reply by MissBling on May 16, 2011 at 1:05pm

You know his ass isn't gonna post the thread, but that mofo still gonna comment...smh

CCDreamer aka Eve Davis said:

$picey, I could have sworn he said he was going to fall back on these subjects. *rolls eyes* I guess I was being naive. lol

SPICE said:

This is what you got from this??? Young buck, keep working on yourself :)
Tone said:

I just feel if you want a lifestyle you go out and work for it. Plus she is making it seem like women are above men and we are suppose to do everything and a woman just gets the world simply based on the fact that she is a woman.
SPICE said:

lmao @ Tone. You about to start a war up in here.

 

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Permalink Reply by MissBling on May 16, 2011 at 1:17pm

No, you didn't nigga... and we still waiting on who the hell is ray ray and pookie!

Tone said:

I said on the ray ray and Pookie argument.
CCDreamer aka Eve Davis said:

$picey, I could have sworn he said he was going to fall back on these subjects. *rolls eyes* I guess I was being naive. lol

SPICE said:

This is what you got from this??? Young buck, keep working on yourself :)
Tone said:

I just feel if you want a lifestyle you go out and work for it. Plus she is making it seem like women are above men and we are suppose to do everything and a woman just gets the world simply based on the fact that she is a woman.
SPICE said:

lmao @ Tone. You about to start a war up in here.

 

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Permalink Reply by Creative Bee on May 16, 2011 at 2:09pm

Love It!

Fly Chickadee said:

Just, I agree with you but it seems as though she is in school...you have to think long term. I dont think her intention is to LIVE OFF these dudes for the rest of her life and NOT have her own, just until she finishes school next year..

Young chick, LISTEN TO THE FLY ONE! Graduate baby! While u r in school, get what you can from ur ballers! YOUR P**** AND TIME ARE NOT FREE! Dont sacrifice your spiritual, physical, emotional, and PARENTAL WELL BEING FOR A BALLER THOUGH! What I mean is: have rules young one! Right AFFIRMATIONS TO YOURSELF AND REMIND YOURSELF EVERYDAY WHY YOU ARE DOING THINGS THIS WAY AND THINK OF YOUR DAUGHTER AT ALL TIMES! Dont let ANY MAN that you are NOT in a long term relationship be around her PERIOD! Get what you can from them while you are in school!, GRADUATE!, after graduation GET A GOOD JOB OR BETTER YET, GET A TRADE! It is hard finding a job paying what YOU are WORTH! NO EMPLOYER WILL EVER PAY YOU YOUR TRUE VALUE! Get a trade like cosmetology, interior design, wedding planner, or sell Real Estate! BECOME SELF EMPLOYED BUT WORK FOR SOMEONE UNTIL YOU CAN GET TO THAT POINT! You and YOUR DAUGHTER NEED HEALTH INSURANCE AND LIFE INSURANCE! So know matter how much a baller gives you,it he wont give you that! LOL!

Now ALWAYS GET YOUR OWN! STACK YOURS! Spend HIS! MAKE A MAN SUPPLY YOUR WANTS and YOU supply you and your daughters needs! UNTIL you meet THE ONE! The right baller knows that it is HIS responsibility to help you be the BEST YOU you can be! A true baller, real man understands he is responsible for giving you and your daughter the BEST OF EVERYTHING and alwayss remember YOUR BODY, YOUR MIND, YOUR TIME, YOUR SKILLS, YOUR LOVE, AND YOUR LIFE LESSONS ARE NOT FREE: THEY COST! Make yourself an ASSET! GRADUATE AND LEARN TO PROVIDE FOR YOURSELF, WHILE YOU HAVE BALLERS STACK CHIPS! BUT ALWAYS DO SOMETHING FOR YOURSELF!

ANY WOMAN that lays with a man for FREE! is a foolish woman and has NOTHING TO GIVE! I am not just talking monetarily either! As you get older, you learn that everytime you are with a man you leave a little of yourself with him! IF YOU DONT UNDERSTAND THAT THEN YOU JUST DONT KNOW! So, remember life is PUSH AND PULL! Like attracts like! Get YOURS, SAVE AS MUCH AS YOU CAN! Work AND PROVIDE! Teach your daughter how to get what she is worth from a man, from her employer, from life, and teach her her value! Remember be that PROVERBS 31 WOMAN! She is the woman desired by men AND admired by other women! She is industrious but also her man cherishes her, her children value and admire her, and she gets the BEST OUT OF LIFE FOR HERSELF AND HER FAMILY!!!

Good Luck Young Chick! If the FLY ONE and LULU did it, you can too!

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Permalink Reply by Miss Double Kiss on May 16, 2011 at 2:28pm

Just Me & Tone...I agree with you both.

 

Fly you can't go around in one breath telling this girl to go whore herself out for a man and then turn around and "try to" back that shyt up with scripture references. I mean.......come on. 

You just told this girl to use what she has (ex: her brain p****) to lockdown a man while she still can but then say that she is wise because the bible says so.....Completely twisting the scriptures ma'am for a personal (and I'd say rather selfish) agenda. You probably mean well, but it's not a real viable long term plan.

 

Now don't get me wrong, IF A MAN wants to treat HIS WOMAN (ideally being a woman he claims in PUBLIC) to the finer things in life, so be it. But what you have here is a chick who is scamming up a plan to get into the pockets of baller a and if he don't work out baller b, c and so on. Do you Hunny but you are NOT TAKING INTO CONSIDERATION -- HOW MEN THINK....

 

Us women on here can school you all day long on lessons learned from the school of hard knocks but if you fail to operate from the position of how a man THINKS you will FAIL every time.....

 

No guy, baller or regular is going to go for this, long term. This game you are trying to do is so transparent you have no idea. If you can't or don't want to get your own job well you need to find a way to get grant money through you school to fund your lifestyle because this plan right here (that about 90% of the ladies are cosigning to) is a short term hustle. PERIOD. It has been played and remixed about a hundred thousand times over by other nameless women in your same situation...the reason why so many are quiet now (years later) is because they realized this game is wack.  And at the end of the day, if this is a business thing and not love (as in "In love"), you will regret it....and ok your child hasn't "met" the men you say, but that doesn't mean they still aren't taking "cues" from you. And in all honesty, can you imagine you child juggling 3 boys in the school yard for some "cookie" (not the kind you think....ha) I mean, it's the same thing.

 

By all means, graduate from school. Yes..please do and try to get some honors or something while you are at it. But while you are walking from class to class start to think, what will me and MY CHILD do in another year, 2 years and so on....You and that baby are the team. Not you, your child and some random dude who "may wanna upgrade you"... 

 

Get your own and you won't have to worry about dumb shyt like this....even if you start small you can become your OWN MILLIONAIRE....happens all the time. The amount of time you put into coming up with these plans to be "sponsored" is the same energy that you can put into a REAL business plan so that your money can make more money while you sleep. You become the BALLER. I just want you to see that your time is more valuable than how you "look" and the more time you waste away not thinking of a long term plan MINUS A DUDE to sponsor, the more likely you will realize that you wasted your youth and LOOKS on something that isn't worth it's weight in gold. I think you should go back and read over Irresitable, Tone and Just Me's advice....when it comes to guys the saying is true..."act like a lady.....THINK LIKE A MAN"

JustMe said:

I agree with this, and I pray she listens... 

Tone said:

sorry but this is b*******

Fly Chickadee said:

Just, I agree with you but it seems as though she is in school...you have to think long term. I dont think her intention is to LIVE OFF these dudes for the rest of her life and NOT have her own, just until she finishes school next year..

Young chick, LISTEN TO THE FLY ONE! Graduate baby! While u r in school, get what you can from ur ballers! YOUR P**** AND TIME ARE NOT FREE! Dont sacrifice your spiritual, physical, emotional, and PARENTAL WELL BEING FOR A BALLER THOUGH! What I mean is: have rules young one! Right AFFIRMATIONS TO YOURSELF AND REMIND YOURSELF EVERYDAY WHY YOU ARE DOING THINGS THIS WAY AND THINK OF YOUR DAUGHTER AT ALL TIMES! Dont let ANY MAN that you are NOT in a long term relationship be around her PERIOD! Get what you can from them while you are in school!, GRADUATE!, after graduation GET A GOOD JOB OR BETTER YET, GET A TRADE! It is hard finding a job paying what YOU are WORTH! NO EMPLOYER WILL EVER PAY YOU YOUR TRUE VALUE! Get a trade like cosmetology, interior design, wedding planner, or sell Real Estate! BECOME SELF EMPLOYED BUT WORK FOR SOMEONE UNTIL YOU CAN GET TO THAT POINT! You and YOUR DAUGHTER NEED HEALTH INSURANCE AND LIFE INSURANCE! So know matter how much a baller gives you,it he wont give you that! LOL!

Now ALWAYS GET YOUR OWN! STACK YOURS! Spend HIS! MAKE A MAN SUPPLY YOUR WANTS and YOU supply you and your daughters needs! UNTIL you meet THE ONE! The right baller knows that it is HIS responsibility to help you be the BEST YOU you can be! A true baller, real man understands he is responsible for giving you and your daughter the BEST OF EVERYTHING and alwayss remember YOUR BODY, YOUR MIND, YOUR TIME, YOUR SKILLS, YOUR LOVE, AND YOUR LIFE LESSONS ARE NOT FREE: THEY COST! Make yourself an ASSET! GRADUATE AND LEARN TO PROVIDE FOR YOURSELF, WHILE YOU HAVE BALLERS STACK CHIPS! BUT ALWAYS DO SOMETHING FOR YOURSELF!

ANY WOMAN that lays with a man for FREE! is a foolish woman and has NOTHING TO GIVE! I am not just talking monetarily either! As you get older, you learn that everytime you are with a man you leave a little of yourself with him! IF YOU DONT UNDERSTAND THAT THEN YOU JUST DONT KNOW! So, remember life is PUSH AND PULL! Like attracts like! Get YOURS, SAVE AS MUCH AS YOU CAN! Work AND PROVIDE! Teach your daughter how to get what she is worth from a man, from her employer, from life, and teach her her value! Remember be that PROVERBS 31 WOMAN! She is the woman desired by men AND admired by other women! She is industrious but also her man cherishes her, her children value and admire her, and she gets the BEST OUT OF LIFE FOR HERSELF AND HER FAMILY!!!

Good Luck Young Chick! If the FLY ONE and LULU did it, you can too!

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Permalink Reply by OLD $PICE PINE NEEDLE on May 16, 2011 at 4:09pm

@Flychickadee, unless my comprehension skills are lacking, where in this post did you suggest to JC to whore herself out?

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Permalink Reply by SACK CHASER on May 16, 2011 at 4:39pm

lmao.. Flychick pass me a glass and scooch over on that chaise lounge you are sitting on!! 

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Permalink Reply by Creative Bee on May 16, 2011 at 5:23pm

Nothing wrong with being appreciated. Why would you want to waste your time for free? Working at McDonalds or Walmart is more whoring ( you get used and abused for minimum wage) than getting paid for making one or two men happy. When you on a come up it's hard out there and working for minimum wage not going to make you a millionaire, and lets face it not everyone is capable of being one. Some girls just don't have a skill to become super rich but they make great companions and wifes and mothers to these men.

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Permalink Reply by Desiree' on May 16, 2011 at 5:38pm

agreed

Creative Bee said:

Nothing wrong with being appreciated. Why would you want to waste your time for free? Working at McDonalds or Walmart is more whoring ( you get used and abused for minimum wage) than getting paid for making one or two men happy. When you on a come up it's hard out there and working for minimum wage not going to make you a millionaire, and lets face it not everyone is capable of being one. Some girls just don't have a skill to become super rich but they make great companions and wifes and mothers to these men.

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Permalink Reply by Miss Double Kiss on May 16, 2011 at 6:27pm

damn girl....are you this girl's best friend because you are going HARD on the defense....shyt...got damn.

 

I mentioned you the first paragraph...the rest was meant for her. You sure sound like you need to vent. I wasn't trying to attack you just can't understand why one would cosign to an obviously impressionable YOUNG GIRL/SINGLE MOTHER to continue sleeping with up to 3 men, just to make ends meet. Do you Flyy...but throwing scripture to "support" a woman "doing what she has to do to make ends meet" (ie: f****** for dollas) is not a credible way to encourage success or a LONG TERM LIFE PLAN. Use scripture, fine....but not to smooth over dirty motives...if she wants to have sex just to get her tuition paid...ok, but how is she any different from a chick who does it on the street or uses an escort service. The difference is that she is coming on her and asking for you and others to support her. There are just much better ways to put "food on the table" but that would mean she take a bite of some humble pie and reevaluate her life plan.

 

Damn. If she had her own she wouldn't have to break out the knee pads sweetie anytime something came up. Of course these aren't the "best of times for most" but if some people would manage their money in the same way they manage other people's business, they would be rolling in dough....In saying that, the same amount of time she puts into all of this she could be the next Mark Zuckerburg with a Billion dollar idea with the scratch borrowed from a friend (he did it with 1000 bucks). If she has less than that I'm sure she can set it off but she would need to tap into the other 90% of her brain power to make it dynamic.

 

Women....have sex....whatever. Do you. Just don't be surprised when these guys turn around and drop you like a bad habit for screwing them over, they have become wise too...and I agree with Irresistable....that this girl needs to offer and bring more to the table than most other chicks out there struggling over school tuition with a child to feed. Be smart is all....but that doesn't mean racking up men like you do money....cause she runs the risk of cutting her life prematurely from something she caught and then what will her child have?

 

I'm just saying that Tone, Just Me and Irresistable have A POINT and I agree with THEM....

Nothing wrong with wanting to be pampered or spoiled (or dating and f*cking) but shyt, let it be your $$ to claim FIRST. And can a guy claim you and you do it that way instead of plotting down ways to trick off a dude from a blog? That's all. And I'm sure any GUY ON HERE would agree....the game is just that "played out" so women like her simply need to come up with some new rules because the dudes have caught on....Tone was just one to say it...and dammit I agree.

 

What the hell is so wrong with encouraging her to be a female baller?

Fly Chickadee said:

And you say "quoting the bible for selfish reasons" if you truly now what you are saying, you would know that not only should your name be DoubleKiss but also Doubletalk...I didnt "quote" the bible merely told her to try to become that industrious woman that is referenced in Proverbs 31!
"quoting" the bible is not a selfish act but a selfless one....I directed uher unselfishly to be a woman of MEANS, INDUSTRIOUS, loved by her family, admired by her peers! You know what let me stop because you dont know any better either...you just misread my post but my advice for you is to read ALL of them and then maybe you will know that of which you speak....enuf said..

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Permalink Reply by Miss Double Kiss on May 16, 2011 at 6:41pm

well I know I never suggested she work at either one of those establishments, however they are honest work. Don't pay shyt but at least she can say she didn't compromise her morals either.

 

And yes, not everyone has the "entreprenuer" bug but EVERYONE does have the skills to become RICH otherwise half of us wouldn't work or be bosses at all. If you can read, type, see smell, breath you can be as rich as you want. The only thing that is LACKING is opportuinity in most cases. So that is when you CREATE YOUR OWN.

 

The reason why simply being a wife or "wifey" is not a long term plan is because the MEN have caught on to that game plan too LADIES.....and they are taking their time more and more and being cautious. One bad "thirsty" chick has now become like 5 million all after the same thing: money and security. And it's hard enough to find an ideal mate but guys know the game now and a smart woman would take that into considerration. Men aren't as "free" with it as you think...Sure some may trick you off here and there but if you don't bring nothing to the table, thinking you are going to be someone's wife for longer than 3-8 years is wishful thinking. THE GUYS AIN'T FALLING FOR THIS no more, so that is why it's important for ladies to not have to result to having knee pads in the overnight bags anytime the rent is due...you may suck him, but he ain't gonna let you suck him dry...please can the guys chime in.

 

If a woman (who has kids) chooses to f*** for tuition or rent that is her choice at the end of the day. She should just realize that these kids are smarter than you think and notice a lot...

Women have the right to find a "baller" but there is nothing wrong with becoming one yourself.

Creative Bee said:

Nothing wrong with being appreciated. Why would you want to waste your time for free? Working at McDonalds or Walmart is more whoring ( you get used and abused for minimum wage) than getting paid for making one or two men happy. When you on a come up it's hard out there and working for minimum wage not going to make you a millionaire, and lets face it not everyone is capable of being one. Some girls just don't have a skill to become super rich but they make great companions and wifes and mothers to these men.

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Permalink Reply by Justyn Case on May 16, 2011 at 6:49pm

wow this got way more heated than i thought.  Right now i dont have any bills that are behind.  I have no student loans and my daughter has a great savings account. I do have a scholarship and grants.  I do work i have a freelance business all that money goes to my daughter.  The men i am sleeping with have never been around my daughter they have only seen her in pics on my icons.  I am a year away from finishing school and i have a plan of opening up a business seperate from the freelance.  I dont just want to live off these ballers for the rest of my life i want to start a business and have something that my daughter can take over when she is older. 

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