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This was posted by JR (he posted it in the wrong section):
Riddle me this, so I'm out with a mixed group of friends. And one girl meets this guy( who you can tell she is obviously interested in) and when she gets back to the group she begins to say ish like the "dude is sweating her" and he's not her type, he's ugly, etc basically things that are contrary to whats happening. But she likes him. I see this all the time, you ask a girl if she is into a dude then she acts like she can't be bothered with him or he is a lame, the whole time she has already f***** him or is sweating him.
Now the question is WHY? I have my hunches, but it seems rather childish/immature but I see woman do it all the time in all age brackets. Seems counterproductive, and then you end up sporting the guy in the end so WTF?
Hopefully since its mostly women on this board I can get some real answers without being politcally correct.
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Permalink Reply by Ken Nicole on June 1, 2011 at 9:37am
Permalink Reply by RayRay&Pookie'sWIFEY on June 1, 2011 at 9:46am The only time I've ever seen this happen is when the dude has a whole lotta money and she's interested in the $$$, not the dude. She probably does think he's ugly and lame. And she may have already fcked him or may end up with him. All she sees is $$$$, gifts, paid bills, etc. Who knows, maybe after spending a little time with him, she may end up actually liking him a bit.
Other than that, I haven't noticed this happening.
Permalink Reply by Skytz0100 on June 1, 2011 at 9:53am I have a friend who saw this ugly ass dude and was never interested in him, talked about him like a dog, etc. But, someone told her he had a lot of girls/women and we all were wondering how that was. Come to find out, monkey man(that's his nickname) had a lot of money! So of course, she went for him for this reason only and she got him in the end. Now, he did beat the shyt out of her, although I can't say that he didn't have a reason since she was a straight up cheater, which doesn't make it ok but due to the way they found each other it was totally expected.
This is the only reason I can think of aside from the fact that he may just be a cool azz dude. Just cause you are ugly doesn't mean you don't have anything to offer, LMAO!
Permalink Reply by Skytz0100 on June 1, 2011 at 10:01am Well if she is going back and telling her girlfriends those things its so that them heffas won't have any intrest in him either! If she went back to her girls and was like he has this, he has that, the sex was like this or that, one of them hoes is going to get intrigued and start to wonder about everything that her friend is talking about and then possible start to pursue her friends man. #hoesbewinning So to answer your question, a women may talk ish about a man shes interested in so that her girlfrends will think less of him and not even think to try to go after him. She knows what she has she just dont want them hoes knowing! lol
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Permalink Reply by CCD is Workin on a baller 4 she on June 1, 2011 at 11:09am Well if she is going back and telling her girlfriends those things its so that them heffas won't have any intrest in him either! If she went back to her girls and was like he has this, he has that, the sex was like this or that, one of them hoes is going to get intrigued and start to wonder about everything that her friend is talking about and then possible start to pursue her friends man. #hoesbewinning So to answer your question, a women may talk ish about a man shes interested in so that her girlfrends will think less of him and not even think to try to go after him. She knows what she has she just dont want them hoes knowing! lol
Permalink Reply by JustMe on June 1, 2011 at 5:10pm The only time I've ever seen this happen is when the dude has a whole lotta money and she's interested in the $$$, not the dude. She probably does think he's ugly and lame. And she may have already fcked him or may end up with him. All she sees is $$$$, gifts, paid bills, etc. Who knows, maybe after spending a little time with him, she may end up actually liking him a bit.
Other than that, I haven't noticed this happening.
Permalink Reply by TaylorMade on June 1, 2011 at 5:37pm I actually agree with you Tone. Some women get stuck in that grade school mindset. If their homegirls don't approve, she won't either. I have seen that a lot. She may find the guy attractive, but if one of her friends says, "he's ugly as hell", she won't have the guts to disagree because she doesn't want to be the subject of ridicule. That usually only happens with that friend who has low self-esteem and doesn't get a lot of attention from the opposite sex. If she has confidence she won't let other people change her opinion of someone she is genuinely attracted to, causing her to miss out on her man!
Tone said:
Because women have to have the approval of thier friends. A lot of times girls will like a guy but if she thinks her girls wont then she won't like him in front of them. I remember I was have a good convo with a Girl then her home girl came and she started to act funny.
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