For Women Who Want The Ballerific Life!
How old are you? Do you have any female friends? I'm really not too good at explaining but I'll do my best, but I need more info.
Girl keep strolling the ballerboards. That's how I started picking up stuff. You can sort the boards by newest discussion etc. I mean there is no one way to meet a man. It depends on 1. The type of man you want to meet whether athlete, corp baller, d-boy, etc. 2. the type of woman YOU are (groupie, gold digger, or just a real women that wants a successful man) 3. where you live (major city, small town, can you travel?)
I mean if you really want to do this, get books like how to marry rich, vixen manuals etc. Search engines with key words like how to get a rich man. My best advice is to always be about yourself. Get your own first. Cause it's 2010. and dudes out here are hip to gold diggers. There is nothing wrong with being a woman who wants a successful man, but think about this successful man. Does he want a girl like you? D boys, and dudes like that are temporary set ups. You might get some money out of it for little shopping @ Bebe and food, and bills money, and ish like that, but if you want real money, s*** that appraises, and money that you can invest, and business start ups and s*** like that, that's a whole-nother ball game, and you gona have to do your research. It's work! Don't forget that. It literally is a job. Ever seen Paula Patton in Just wright? You have to devote time and energy into it if this is you MAIN Goal. You are going to have to become the man you want to get. You gota know all the s*** he know. Cause a man with real money wants a woman that is smart next to him. Someone who will be an assest, not a liability.
1. You gota be a hottie. Like a real hottie. Keep your nails, toes, hair done. No hair on your body. Smell good all the time (no cheap smells either)
2. Dress like you got money. You may need to invest in a quality handbag and shoes. You can't attract money if you don't smell like it. It requires and initial investment
3. Upgrade the types of places you hang out. Upscale Hotels and hotel bars, upscale restaurants and steakhouses, VIP section in the clubs, stadiums, Upscale malls (during the week during the day not on busy sat/sun)
4. Have your own thing going on. This should probably be number one. B/c dudes run away from girls that seem needy and dependent. If you already have a designer bag, he won't think you NEED him to get another one when you ask. If you already shop all the time, he won't think you NEED his credit card when you ready to hit the mall. The key is getting him to WANT to give you things. Not feel sorry for you. You don't want his pity. You want his HEART. Don't ever be shy about the fact you don't have what he has. This is great! if you seem content and happy driving your honda, he will delight in bringing a smile to your face when he gives you the keys to the range. Always take care of yourself and be a kept woman. Remember, men fall in love with their eyes. He needs to see that you always look right. Even in your sweats (which should be juicy btw...or Victoria's secret sweats are a good start up.)
5. patience...sometimes it takes a while with this strategy. But i'm in it for the long run. This is just my tactic. My game. Everybody has their own way of doing things. And in time you will find yours. I tend to deal with professional types and corp. ballers so this works for me. I mean you can always do the quick fix schemes and try escorting, stripping, etc. Stripping is not all that bad. I know alot of girls who meet ballers this way. However, none of them married to one, or got their heart.
Good Luck on your search for the riches!!