Getting rid of the married man and starting anew?!?!?!?!?!?

So, I have been trying to shake the married man for a few weeks now...Standing him up not responding to his text or answering his calls and entertaining other men and telling him about them.Its like he doesnt get it or something he is still hitting me up and asking me on dates.How do I get rid of him once and for all and let him think its his choice?

 

The guy I said I have known for a year and had sex with we have been seeing each and talking even more...I really like him a lot and it is a plus that he is single and when we are around each other he is attentive and he tries to help me prepare myself for life beyond him helping me. I dont want to become a serial dater and go from guy to guy.Should I ask his intentions or just see how it plays out?

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He's a man who is cheating on his GF of 7 years, Pretty.  We're not taking sh*t he says to the bank....

PrettyPretty said:

He said she doesnt work she's in school

University of Smitty said:

....or "Good morning" as she comes in from work.  I'm willing to bet she works 11 to 7

blackfujones said:

lol...he goes home to take the kids to school, or he gets home to say bye to his chick as she goes to work..a little amateurish but i see him lol

PrettyPretty said:

So me and the new dude went out to eat last night and we had a nice time....So he asked me if I wanted to do something else and I was like no cause it was already kind of late. So we ended up getting a room and we did absolutely NOTHING no touching strictly talking. So he says he has a curfew of being home before the sunrises.So we fell asleep and he leaves about 6am and he comes back around 9am and we just talked and watched the news. What do you guys think is his story his...He gets in the house at 6am and is back with me at 9am? Eating dinner with me the whole nine like why isnt she blowing up his phone I dont get it. Do you think he is lying about having a gf to keep me at bay?

I don't know what it is about me I always end up attracting and being attracted to taken men. I don't dress overly provocative, i'm educated, i am capable of sitting down and holding a conversation. I even asked him what about me attracts taken men he was like to be honest I couldn't tell you but the type of guys you like and attracted are well put together guys that are slightly older and have already established relationships. This guy in particular I like him more than married man cause its just a different vibe I get from him he's a real sweetheart and gentleman and just wants to see you smile and enjoy yourself. The guys that are single and available aren't really established like how I would want them to be and the older ones that are they are to old....I don't want to keep this cycle going always taken

blackfujones said:

I didnt wanna throw any grease on the fire but it really seems like pretty attracts cats that are taken or has some sort of fetish for guys in relationships. (plz correct me if im wrong)

MissBling said:

Do you prefer to be the side chick?

University of Smitty said:

What's up with all these 'taken' men, Pretty???  Sounds like you're jumping out of the pot and into the fire

PrettyPretty said:

So me and the new dude went out to eat last night and we had a nice time....So he asked me if I wanted to do something else and I was like no cause it was already kind of late. So we ended up getting a room and we did absolutely NOTHING no touching strictly talking. So he says he has a curfew of being home before the sunrises.So we fell asleep and he leaves about 6am and he comes back around 9am and we just talked and watched the news. What do you guys think is his story his...He gets in the house at 6am and is back with me at 9am? Eating dinner with me the whole nine like why isnt she blowing up his phone I dont get it. Do you think he is lying about having a gf to keep me at bay?

not at all its not like i see them out with a girl and then plot on them i just always end up being attracted to and then when they tell me its kind of like ummmm:-(

MissBling said:

Do you prefer to be the side chick?

University of Smitty said:

What's up with all these 'taken' men, Pretty???  Sounds like you're jumping out of the pot and into the fire

PrettyPretty said:

So me and the new dude went out to eat last night and we had a nice time....So he asked me if I wanted to do something else and I was like no cause it was already kind of late. So we ended up getting a room and we did absolutely NOTHING no touching strictly talking. So he says he has a curfew of being home before the sunrises.So we fell asleep and he leaves about 6am and he comes back around 9am and we just talked and watched the news. What do you guys think is his story his...He gets in the house at 6am and is back with me at 9am? Eating dinner with me the whole nine like why isnt she blowing up his phone I dont get it. Do you think he is lying about having a gf to keep me at bay?

DING DING DING DING DING....

University of Smitty said:

....or "Good morning" as she comes in from work.  I'm willing to bet she works 11 to 7

blackfujones said:

lol...he goes home to take the kids to school, or he gets home to say bye to his chick as she goes to work..a little amateurish but i see him lol

PrettyPretty said:

So me and the new dude went out to eat last night and we had a nice time....So he asked me if I wanted to do something else and I was like no cause it was already kind of late. So we ended up getting a room and we did absolutely NOTHING no touching strictly talking. So he says he has a curfew of being home before the sunrises.So we fell asleep and he leaves about 6am and he comes back around 9am and we just talked and watched the news. What do you guys think is his story his...He gets in the house at 6am and is back with me at 9am? Eating dinner with me the whole nine like why isnt she blowing up his phone I dont get it. Do you think he is lying about having a gf to keep me at bay?

Look at the insecuritites you keep to yourself and do not want to admit are there. I have a girlfriend who is older than me who I just had this conversation with. she has never had "her own boyfriend"  she has always been the mistress, side piece, jumpoff etc... She is at a point now where she wants more but does not know how to be anything more she is 40 now and if you only knew the ish she was putting up with. her issues stem from her daddy issues which she is just now willing to admit. You need to take an honest hard look at yourself and address whatever it is that keeps getting you into these less than ideal situations.

PrettyPretty said:

I don't know what it is about me I always end up attracting and being attracted to taken men. I don't dress overly provocative, i'm educated, i am capable of sitting down and holding a conversation. I even asked him what about me attracts taken men he was like to be honest I couldn't tell you but the type of guys you like and attracted are well put together guys that are slightly older and have already established relationships. This guy in particular I like him more than married man cause its just a different vibe I get from him he's a real sweetheart and gentleman and just wants to see you smile and enjoy yourself. The guys that are single and available aren't really established like how I would want them to be and the older ones that are they are to old....I don't want to keep this cycle going always taken
blackfujones said:

I didnt wanna throw any grease on the fire but it really seems like pretty attracts cats that are taken or has some sort of fetish for guys in relationships. (plz correct me if im wrong)
MissBling said:

Do you prefer to be the side chick?
University of Smitty said:

What's up with all these 'taken' men, Pretty???  Sounds like you're jumping out of the pot and into the fire
PrettyPretty said:

So me and the new dude went out to eat last night and we had a nice time....So he asked me if I wanted to do something else and I was like no cause it was already kind of late. So we ended up getting a room and we did absolutely NOTHING no touching strictly talking. So he says he has a curfew of being home before the sunrises.So we fell asleep and he leaves about 6am and he comes back around 9am and we just talked and watched the news. What do you guys think is his story his...He gets in the house at 6am and is back with me at 9am? Eating dinner with me the whole nine like why isnt she blowing up his phone I dont get it. Do you think he is lying about having a gf to keep me at bay?

I grew up in a two parent household and my dad has always cheated on my mom for as long as i can remember. When I read what you put and I really sat back and thought about it I rather be the cheater than the cheated on being in the home with a man and knowing he is finding comfort with another woman and him doing more for her than the people in his home. My dads sidepiece he bought her a condo, car, trips, and expensive gifts and I saw my mom have to endure the at home drama. I guess I just want the perks without the at home drama

Siren said:

Look at the insecuritites you keep to yourself and do not want to admit are there. I have a girlfriend who is older than me who I just had this conversation with. she has never had "her own boyfriend"  she has always been the mistress, side piece, jumpoff etc... She is at a point now where she wants more but does not know how to be anything more she is 40 now and if you only knew the ish she was putting up with. her issues stem from her daddy issues which she is just now willing to admit. You need to take an honest hard look at yourself and address whatever it is that keeps getting you into these less than ideal situations.

PrettyPretty said:

I don't know what it is about me I always end up attracting and being attracted to taken men. I don't dress overly provocative, i'm educated, i am capable of sitting down and holding a conversation. I even asked him what about me attracts taken men he was like to be honest I couldn't tell you but the type of guys you like and attracted are well put together guys that are slightly older and have already established relationships. This guy in particular I like him more than married man cause its just a different vibe I get from him he's a real sweetheart and gentleman and just wants to see you smile and enjoy yourself. The guys that are single and available aren't really established like how I would want them to be and the older ones that are they are to old....I don't want to keep this cycle going always taken
blackfujones said:

I didnt wanna throw any grease on the fire but it really seems like pretty attracts cats that are taken or has some sort of fetish for guys in relationships. (plz correct me if im wrong)
MissBling said:

Do you prefer to be the side chick?
University of Smitty said:

What's up with all these 'taken' men, Pretty???  Sounds like you're jumping out of the pot and into the fire
PrettyPretty said:

So me and the new dude went out to eat last night and we had a nice time....So he asked me if I wanted to do something else and I was like no cause it was already kind of late. So we ended up getting a room and we did absolutely NOTHING no touching strictly talking. So he says he has a curfew of being home before the sunrises.So we fell asleep and he leaves about 6am and he comes back around 9am and we just talked and watched the news. What do you guys think is his story his...He gets in the house at 6am and is back with me at 9am? Eating dinner with me the whole nine like why isnt she blowing up his phone I dont get it. Do you think he is lying about having a gf to keep me at bay?

BINGO!

PrettyPretty said:

I grew up in a two parent household and my dad has always cheated on my mom for as long as i can remember. When I read what you put and I really sat back and thought about it I rather be the cheater than the cheated on being in the home with a man and knowing he is finding comfort with another woman and him doing more for her than the people in his home. My dads sidepiece he bought her a condo, car, trips, and expensive gifts and I saw my mom have to endure the at home drama. I guess I just want the perks without the at home drama

Siren said:

Look at the insecuritites you keep to yourself and do not want to admit are there. I have a girlfriend who is older than me who I just had this conversation with. she has never had "her own boyfriend"  she has always been the mistress, side piece, jumpoff etc... She is at a point now where she wants more but does not know how to be anything more she is 40 now and if you only knew the ish she was putting up with. her issues stem from her daddy issues which she is just now willing to admit. You need to take an honest hard look at yourself and address whatever it is that keeps getting you into these less than ideal situations.

PrettyPretty said:

I don't know what it is about me I always end up attracting and being attracted to taken men. I don't dress overly provocative, i'm educated, i am capable of sitting down and holding a conversation. I even asked him what about me attracts taken men he was like to be honest I couldn't tell you but the type of guys you like and attracted are well put together guys that are slightly older and have already established relationships. This guy in particular I like him more than married man cause its just a different vibe I get from him he's a real sweetheart and gentleman and just wants to see you smile and enjoy yourself. The guys that are single and available aren't really established like how I would want them to be and the older ones that are they are to old....I don't want to keep this cycle going always taken
blackfujones said:

I didnt wanna throw any grease on the fire but it really seems like pretty attracts cats that are taken or has some sort of fetish for guys in relationships. (plz correct me if im wrong)
MissBling said:

Do you prefer to be the side chick?
University of Smitty said:

What's up with all these 'taken' men, Pretty???  Sounds like you're jumping out of the pot and into the fire
PrettyPretty said:

So me and the new dude went out to eat last night and we had a nice time....So he asked me if I wanted to do something else and I was like no cause it was already kind of late. So we ended up getting a room and we did absolutely NOTHING no touching strictly talking. So he says he has a curfew of being home before the sunrises.So we fell asleep and he leaves about 6am and he comes back around 9am and we just talked and watched the news. What do you guys think is his story his...He gets in the house at 6am and is back with me at 9am? Eating dinner with me the whole nine like why isnt she blowing up his phone I dont get it. Do you think he is lying about having a gf to keep me at bay?

This is an interesting discussion....

Do you really know what you want? Just know that there are more options in relationships than what your mother father and the mistress had going on. You do not have to repeat the role of your mother or the mistress.you just have to heal from the pain and let go and do things differently and with a different perspective. You have your own life to make of it what you want. Whatever you choose to do be true and good to yourself first and things will fall into place.

PrettyPretty said:

I grew up in a two parent household and my dad has always cheated on my mom for as long as i can remember. When I read what you put and I really sat back and thought about it I rather be the cheater than the cheated on being in the home with a man and knowing he is finding comfort with another woman and him doing more for her than the people in his home. My dads sidepiece he bought her a condo, car, trips, and expensive gifts and I saw my mom have to endure the at home drama. I guess I just want the perks without the at home drama

Siren said:

Look at the insecuritites you keep to yourself and do not want to admit are there. I have a girlfriend who is older than me who I just had this conversation with. she has never had "her own boyfriend"  she has always been the mistress, side piece, jumpoff etc... She is at a point now where she wants more but does not know how to be anything more she is 40 now and if you only knew the ish she was putting up with. her issues stem from her daddy issues which she is just now willing to admit. You need to take an honest hard look at yourself and address whatever it is that keeps getting you into these less than ideal situations.

PrettyPretty said:

I don't know what it is about me I always end up attracting and being attracted to taken men. I don't dress overly provocative, i'm educated, i am capable of sitting down and holding a conversation. I even asked him what about me attracts taken men he was like to be honest I couldn't tell you but the type of guys you like and attracted are well put together guys that are slightly older and have already established relationships. This guy in particular I like him more than married man cause its just a different vibe I get from him he's a real sweetheart and gentleman and just wants to see you smile and enjoy yourself. The guys that are single and available aren't really established like how I would want them to be and the older ones that are they are to old....I don't want to keep this cycle going always taken
blackfujones said:

I didnt wanna throw any grease on the fire but it really seems like pretty attracts cats that are taken or has some sort of fetish for guys in relationships. (plz correct me if im wrong)
MissBling said:

Do you prefer to be the side chick?
University of Smitty said:

What's up with all these 'taken' men, Pretty???  Sounds like you're jumping out of the pot and into the fire
PrettyPretty said:

So me and the new dude went out to eat last night and we had a nice time....So he asked me if I wanted to do something else and I was like no cause it was already kind of late. So we ended up getting a room and we did absolutely NOTHING no touching strictly talking. So he says he has a curfew of being home before the sunrises.So we fell asleep and he leaves about 6am and he comes back around 9am and we just talked and watched the news. What do you guys think is his story his...He gets in the house at 6am and is back with me at 9am? Eating dinner with me the whole nine like why isnt she blowing up his phone I dont get it. Do you think he is lying about having a gf to keep me at bay?

Lets face it, whether women want to admit it or not you all sometimes get envious of women in so-called "healthy"" relationships.  Some of you actually want that, so when you see chics who may give off the look that they arent hittin on s***. You all sometimes get sucked into liking taken men.

PrettyPretty said:

I don't know what it is about me I always end up attracting and being attracted to taken men. I don't dress overly provocative, i'm educated, i am capable of sitting down and holding a conversation. I even asked him what about me attracts taken men he was like to be honest I couldn't tell you but the type of guys you like and attracted are well put together guys that are slightly older and have already established relationships. This guy in particular I like him more than married man cause its just a different vibe I get from him he's a real sweetheart and gentleman and just wants to see you smile and enjoy yourself. The guys that are single and available aren't really established like how I would want them to be and the older ones that are they are to old....I don't want to keep this cycle going always taken

blackfujones said:

I didnt wanna throw any grease on the fire but it really seems like pretty attracts cats that are taken or has some sort of fetish for guys in relationships. (plz correct me if im wrong)

MissBling said:

Do you prefer to be the side chick?

University of Smitty said:

What's up with all these 'taken' men, Pretty???  Sounds like you're jumping out of the pot and into the fire

PrettyPretty said:

So me and the new dude went out to eat last night and we had a nice time....So he asked me if I wanted to do something else and I was like no cause it was already kind of late. So we ended up getting a room and we did absolutely NOTHING no touching strictly talking. So he says he has a curfew of being home before the sunrises.So we fell asleep and he leaves about 6am and he comes back around 9am and we just talked and watched the news. What do you guys think is his story his...He gets in the house at 6am and is back with me at 9am? Eating dinner with me the whole nine like why isnt she blowing up his phone I dont get it. Do you think he is lying about having a gf to keep me at bay?

I kind of agree with blackfujones, there are some chickenheads out there who will purposely go after another chick's man and she knows just what she is doing. I use to have a buddy who if me or any of the other girls in our group showed an interest in a guy she would immediately go f** him and then come back and tell us about it. Then she didn't understand why she got dropped from the group.

OLD $PICE PINE NEEDLE said:

I disagree. Only the ones who don't know any better think and act this way.
blackfujones said:

Lets face it, whether women want to admit it or not you all sometimes get envious of women in so-called "healthy"" relationships.  Some of you actually want that, so when you see chics who may give off the look that they arent hittin on s***. You all sometimes get sucked into liking taken men.
PrettyPretty said:

I don't know what it is about me I always end up attracting and being attracted to taken men. I don't dress overly provocative, i'm educated, i am capable of sitting down and holding a conversation. I even asked him what about me attracts taken men he was like to be honest I couldn't tell you but the type of guys you like and attracted are well put together guys that are slightly older and have already established relationships. This guy in particular I like him more than married man cause its just a different vibe I get from him he's a real sweetheart and gentleman and just wants to see you smile and enjoy yourself. The guys that are single and available aren't really established like how I would want them to be and the older ones that are they are to old....I don't want to keep this cycle going always taken
blackfujones said:

I didnt wanna throw any grease on the fire but it really seems like pretty attracts cats that are taken or has some sort of fetish for guys in relationships. (plz correct me if im wrong)
MissBling said:

Do you prefer to be the side chick?
University of Smitty said:

What's up with all these 'taken' men, Pretty???  Sounds like you're jumping out of the pot and into the fire
PrettyPretty said:

So me and the new dude went out to eat last night and we had a nice time....So he asked me if I wanted to do something else and I was like no cause it was already kind of late. So we ended up getting a room and we did absolutely NOTHING no touching strictly talking. So he says he has a curfew of being home before the sunrises.So we fell asleep and he leaves about 6am and he comes back around 9am and we just talked and watched the news. What do you guys think is his story his...He gets in the house at 6am and is back with me at 9am? Eating dinner with me the whole nine like why isnt she blowing up his phone I dont get it. Do you think he is lying about having a gf to keep me at bay?

Amen, $picey, amen! lol

OLD $PICE PINE NEEDLE said:

He should have same SOME women. That's why I said only the ones who don't know any better and I'll add the trifling ones.
CCDreamer aka Eve Davis said:

I kind of agree with blackfujones, there are some chickenheads out there who will purposely go after another chick's man and she knows just what she is doing. I use to have a buddy who if me or any of the other girls in our group showed an interest in a guy she would immediately go f** him and then come back and tell us about it. Then she didn't understand why she got dropped from the group.
OLD $PICE PINE NEEDLE said:

I disagree. Only the ones who don't know any better think and act this way. blackfujones said:

Lets face it, whether women want to admit it or not you all sometimes get envious of women in so-called "healthy"" relationships.  Some of you actually want that, so when you see chics who may give off the look that they arent hittin on s***. You all sometimes get sucked into liking taken men. PrettyPretty said:

I don't know what it is about me I always end up attracting and being attracted to taken men. I don't dress overly provocative, i'm educated, i am capable of sitting down and holding a conversation. I even asked him what about me attracts taken men he was like to be honest I couldn't tell you but the type of guys you like and attracted are well put together guys that are slightly older and have already established relationships. This guy in particular I like him more than married man cause its just a different vibe I get from him he's a real sweetheart and gentleman and just wants to see you smile and enjoy yourself. The guys that are single and available aren't really established like how I would want them to be and the older ones that are they are to old....I don't want to keep this cycle going always taken blackfujones said:

I didnt wanna throw any grease on the fire but it really seems like pretty attracts cats that are taken or has some sort of fetish for guys in relationships. (plz correct me if im wrong) MissBling said:

Do you prefer to be the side chick? University of Smitty said:

What's up with all these 'taken' men, Pretty???  Sounds like you're jumping out of the pot and into the fire PrettyPretty said:

So me and the new dude went out to eat last night and we had a nice time....So he asked me if I wanted to do something else and I was like no cause it was already kind of late. So we ended up getting a room and we did absolutely NOTHING no touching strictly talking. So he says he has a curfew of being home before the sunrises.So we fell asleep and he leaves about 6am and he comes back around 9am and we just talked and watched the news. What do you guys think is his story his...He gets in the house at 6am and is back with me at 9am? Eating dinner with me the whole nine like why isnt she blowing up his phone I dont get it. Do you think he is lying about having a gf to keep me at bay?

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