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I am 28, and I feel I am a pretty decent guy. Although almost every relationship I've had, the woman seems to get bored or find some drunk to beat her up. Should I be the Bad Guy? Is that what women want? Do any women want a good guy who is forever faithful and would do anything for you? It seems like these woman wants a good man, but are at the same time infatuated or excited with guys who drag them thru the mudd. Is that what makes relationships exciting, the fact that you dont know if a dude is being faithful?
I havent always been a saint, but I noticed when I wasn't being too honest with women it seemed as tho I had more women. The more confidenct I have become in being A GOOD DUDE, the less woman tend to like me! Now it seems like my current girlfriend only wants me because she knows im a good dude! She is very aggressive and is always pulling at my zipper, so i dont believe by far that sex is a issue. She knows that my potential is worth of her sticking around, but I believe she just dont wanna miss this boat!
Can you give your thoughts about this ladies! This guy in letter is really a Good Baller with SWAG and all, but why do Good Guys really finish last in your book?!?
I am 28, and I feel I am a pretty decent guy. Although almost every relationship I've had, the woman seems to get bored or find some drunk to beat her up. Should I be the Bad Guy? Is that what women want? Do any women want a good guy who is forever faithful and would do anything for you? It seems like these woman wants a good man, but are at the same time infatuated or excited with guys who drag them thru the mudd. Is that what makes relationships exciting, the fact that you dont know if a dude is being faithful?
I havent always been a saint, but I noticed when I wasn't being too honest with women it seemed as tho I had more women. The more confidenct I have become in being A GOOD DUDE, the less woman tend to like me! Now it seems like my current girlfriend only wants me because she knows im a good dude! She is very aggressive and is always pulling at my zipper, so i dont believe by far that sex is a issue. She knows that my potential is worth of her sticking around, but I believe she just dont wanna miss this boat!
Can you give your thoughts about this ladies! This guy in letter is really a Good Baller with SWAG and all, but why do Good Guys really finish last in your book?!?
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Permalink Reply by Siren on -
When i was in my early 20's I seemed to have a thing for bad boys but with age and maturity what is important to me has changed. He needs to look at the women he is choosing as well... what are his criteria in selecting these women?
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Permalink Reply by OUT OF CONTROL on -
Good question Siren! To that I am not sure, but I personally know that he is definitely a CATCH! He has goals, great hustle mentality, entrepenuer, and so damn FINE! lol!!!
But, it just seems like we as women do feel some need for that Bad guy side more than a good guy side!?! Me personally, I do like Bad guys to a certain point, but prefer a good guy ANYDAY! It's the SWAG that gets me everytime :) But, I can see the good in them, I really can! LOL
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Permalink Reply by OUT OF CONTROL on
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GREAT RESPONSE CALI! I'm forwarding him this NOW! :)
california said:first off, if you have been out here dogging, you are going to have to pay for that buddy...why should your princess come to you immediately because you have changed your ways....doesn't work like that my friend...you have stepped on a few hearts, and it is now your turn to be on the receiving end....i would suggest that if you are a good dude, still play a little bit of the chase game, you don't neccesarily have to be out cheating, but continue to create a little mystery, i like nice guys, but nice guys that are bad boys(a little), but nice to me- forever faithful to me-would do anything for me. Be nice but don't turn to a gump, that is boring, there is no excitement in the church boy....i think jada pinkett my have said it best, you want a guy who you can take to a presidential dinner, as well as to an ice-cube concert.
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Permalink Reply by Siren on
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I don't like them as Bad a s I used to....Swag is a must some good guys have SWAG some chicks just get blinded by the material and and look for the ones standing out and forget to see the stars shining in the background.
OUT OF CONTROL said:Good question Siren! To that I am not sure, but I personally know that he is definitely a CATCH! He has goals, great hustle mentality, entrepenuer, and so damn FINE! lol!!!
But, it just seems like we as women do feel some need for that Bad guy side more than a good guy side!?! Me personally, I do like Bad guys to a certain point, but prefer a good guy ANYDAY! It's the SWAG that gets me everytime :) But, I can see the good in them, I really can! LOL
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Permalink Reply by Charlie/Daddy's Girl on -
Give him my number please, thank you.
Girls who want 'bad' boys are just that, girls...they're turned on by the drama...they feed off of the B.S.
A real woman wants something stable, not boring, but stable...there is no need for drama to make a relationship exciting...
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