For Women Who Want The Ballerific Life!
I just wanted to introduce myself. I've been lurking and reading and find much of the advice here to be very useful. A little about myself...I'm not completely new to the ballerific lifestyle but I have been out of the game for a minute focusing on finishing up my Masters degree. Now that its complete I would like to snag/capture LOL well meet and date a baller. I am only interested in corporate ballers no athletes etc thank you....I am specifically interested in the "senior circuit" men 50+, very established and very wealthy. I am in my late twenties, medium toned, petite African American with above average looks. I live in NYC and would like some advice on specifically targeting this group. I've read charities are a good place to start...but which charities? Also any other suggestions on how to meet this target group in an environment that would be conducive to beginning a relationship? I am also NOW open to international ballers (corporate/business) as well...again any advice?
Now because my mother raised me with manners I don't enter a person's home without bringing a gift so I have one for you ladies...He is a certified baller but unfortunately I cannot or will not pursue him. I met him last year on SA we flirted back and forth and he wanted me to come to Scotland and then spend some time on his yacht basically cruising the mediterranean - honestly I was an idiot, totally unprepared for that level of baller and so I backed out. He's an international baller based in the UK and he has a great sense of humor. He is the CEO of a company in the UK and can be Googled for verification, and likes women of color or exotics...he is also open about having a few girls in different locations. I still have his email info and he may still be on SA not sure though if anyone wants it pm me.
So thats my intro and I would appreciate all the advice I can get on my target group especially in the NYC area.
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Go ahead girl, when you get Aliko can you put me on with one of his sons or nephews?! LBS
Thanks for the suggestions I will look into all of them. Its odd because I worked in investment banking so I know where they usually have lunches and dinners etc... but its kind of hard to get their attention if they are having a business lunch/dinner. The list of watering holes would be good though. The thing is if I wanted to be someone's "other woman or mistress" it would be much easier because pretty much all of these men are already married and the ones that are not are too young and just starting out...not interested in them. I am specifically interested in divorced or widowed wealthy men between 50-70 years of age.
At the moment my number one potential is Aliko Dangote, he is a businessman and the richest black person in the world with a net worth of 11.2 billion and resides in Lagos Nigeria. He is currently married with 3 children but that is not a problem. He is over 50 and assuming his wife is in the same age range and has given birth to three children I'm guessing she's on the decline both physically and sexually. Also there is the real possibility that he might be interested in having another wife. In any event, Aliko is my long term potential as he's very far away and will take lots of work to somehow infiltrate his circle. Runners up are Nicolas Berggruen, Mitchell Goldhar and Mikhail Prokhorov all unmarried with a net worth in excess of a billion dollars. Of course they could be gay I guess I'll have to do more research.
Perhaps if there were a members only section of this site where we could create a dossier of potentials by age, net worth, occupation, region etc...with people adding what they know about certain individuals like their likes and dislikes etc that would be extremely helpful.
************************************************************************************* Now this is completely off topic but has anyone ever considered or had any experience being a "beard" for a wealthy gay man? Perhaps someone in the public eye or just someone that for whatever reason does not want the world to know they are gay. Politicians like McGreevey (sp?) immediately come to mind but honestly it could be any profession where it helps to have a visible wife. I think this could potentially be a win win situation for the right girl. If anyone has done it or is considering it please share your thoughts.
you're welcome! i sent u a friend request :)
Thanks Quiet Storm!
Oh, I can't help you with snagging a billionaire. I'm not Patty Sanger. I can make sure you aren't broke but if you're trying to snag Russell Simmons, you'll need bigger guns than I currently got.
Welcome to the family! :) I am not able to provide an advice yet glad we have ladies here who do. ;)