HAS ANYONE EVER HURT YOU TO YOUR SOUL?

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Permalink Reply by Goldie Fish on September 28, 2009 at 10:12pm

the first time my heart really broke. I was young and dumb. thought my world was over. I dont really know how I recovered. I just got over it. Looking back it wasn't that serious but I decided to fill that void with other things.

The stuff I got into wasn't healthy or safe and I know it wasn't the best way to cope but I felt free as a bird. It was a hell of a lot better than feeling like I was dying.

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Permalink Reply by Boss/MadamBA on September 28, 2009 at 10:23pm

I was dating a guy..and he told me he was getting married a day before his wedding (there was absolutely no signs of this). He called me at his bachelor party trying to come see me. (bastard) He even invited me to his wedding..and I went because I couldn't believe it. To this day I still think about that shit...

Later in life..he told me he was facing 25 years in jail for some dirt he did..he said he told his BM that he would marry her when he got out. He went to court and beat the charge...so the wedding got pushed up 25 years...LMAO He was so full of shit..

To add insult to injury..he had a tattoo on him of a females name. Told me it was his dead grandmother...when I went to the his wedding..the girl name tattooed on him was his wife. LOL

Niggas ain't shit...haaaaaaaaaaaa

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Permalink Reply by Ishtar on September 28, 2009 at 10:43pm

Damn, he was just full of tricks...

Boss/MadamBA said:

I was dating a guy..and he told me he was getting married a day before his wedding (there was absolutely no signs of this). He called me at his bachelor party trying to come see me. (bastard) He even invited me to his wedding..and I went because I couldn't believe it. To this day I still think about that shit...

Later in life..he told me he was facing 25 years in jail for some dirt he did..he said he told his BM that he would marry her when he got out. He went to court and beat the charge...so the wedding got pushed up 25 years...LMAO He was so full of shit..

To add insult to injury..he had a tattoo on him of a females name. Told me it was his dead grandmother...when I went to the his wedding..the girl name tattooed on him was his wife. LOL

Niggas ain't shit...haaaaaaaaaaaa

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Permalink Reply by Goldie Fish on September 28, 2009 at 10:46pm

what an ass.

but on a side note, If a man I know was going for 25 years... I wouldnt want to marry him...

Boss/MadamBA said:

I was dating a guy..and he told me he was getting married a day before his wedding (there was absolutely no signs of this). He called me at his bachelor party trying to come see me. (bastard) He even invited me to his wedding..and I went because I couldn't believe it. To this day I still think about that shit...

Later in life..he told me he was facing 25 years in jail for some dirt he did..he said he told his BM that he would marry her when he got out. He went to court and beat the charge...so the wedding got pushed up 25 years...LMAO He was so full of shit..

To add insult to injury..he had a tattoo on him of a females name. Told me it was his dead grandmother...when I went to the his wedding..the girl name tattooed on him was his wife. LOL

Niggas ain't shit...haaaaaaaaaaaa

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Permalink Reply by Devyn AKA Dominique Devereaux on September 28, 2009 at 11:11pm

College boyfriend had sex with my roommate in the apt we had off-campus. She was such a dirty bitch that she kept hinting @ it. He never confessed, but I overheard her telling someone else about their encounter...needless to say, I moved - stuck her with rent and lease and him I never spoke to again...thought about getting back @ him by screwing his cousin, but I couldn't go there - he wasn't cute and I wasn't THAT desperate...lol!

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Permalink Reply by Boss/MadamBA on September 28, 2009 at 11:12pm

I just thought I would share that shit..but he didn't hurt me to my soul. LOL

I can't even talk about the nigga that did that.

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Permalink Reply by LMS on September 28, 2009 at 11:21pm

Raped as a kid, told on him & said I was "imagining" things! What fuckin' child imagines such things?!

How I got over, well he died 4 years.later. Went thru a lot of shit afterwards,but keep on grinding. And for those that didn't believe I sat back & watch their ratchet lives fall apart! And yes apart of me LMAO!

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Permalink Reply by Goldie Fish on September 28, 2009 at 11:21pm

lmao. You should have cut a big ass hole in the carpet so her ass couldnt get her deposit back. LMAO!!!!

Devyn AKA Dominique Devereaux said:

College boyfriend had sex with my roommate in the apt we had off-campus. She was such a dirty bitch that she kept hinting @ it. He never confessed, but I overheard her telling someone else about their encounter...needless to say, I moved - stuck her with rent and lease and him I never spoke to again...thought about getting back @ him by screwing his cousin, but I couldn't go there - he wasn't cute and I wasn't THAT desperate...lol!

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Permalink Reply by Cougar $pice on September 28, 2009 at 11:23pm

Not to me but, this man cheated on his wife and was on his death bed. The mistress was at his bedside but he kept calling for the wife. The wife went, but the mistress hung her head in shame because she was telling everyone she was the wife.

I guess even though she was hurt, she still found it in her to visit him.

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Permalink Reply by Seductress on September 28, 2009 at 11:50pm

Yea my situation is similar to goldie just being young and dumb making dumb decisions. I will never let that happen again. In a way I'm glad it did because now I will never allow myself to make those same mistakes, or go through a situation like that again. Better to get it over with while you're young.

I got over it by taking it one day at a time, days turn into weeks, weeks into months and eventually I met a MUCH better man who I got into a long term relationship with. I quickly got over that fool after that.

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Permalink Reply by Madison on September 29, 2009 at 12:18am

I am so sorry OH MY GOD!

LMS said:

Raped as a kid, told on him & said I was "imagining" things! What fuckin' child imagines such things?!

How I got over, well he died 4 years.later. Went thru a lot of shit afterwards,but keep on grinding. And for those that didn't believe I sat back & watch their ratchet lives fall apart! And yes apart of me LMAO!

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Permalink Reply by Sheli on September 30, 2009 at 4:57pm

YESSSS!!! My soul hurts NOW!! (Sad Face, Sad Face, Sad Face)!!! I don't even know how to explain....

I'm still in recovery....I have IVs hooked up to my heart & head. "Goodbye Love" and "Can U Help Me" are on repeat, the lights are off in my house and office, I've been wearing black since Monday. I look like Angela Basset in Waiting to Exhale before she torched the car!

****lays back down and pulls cover over head****

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