HAS ANYONE EVER HURT YOU TO YOUR SOUL?

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Permalink Reply by Shay Sugah on October 4, 2009 at 12:20pm

Amen to that!!

Tab said:

Yes, last year. But I was able to see his side, my side and the whole story. Some days I felt like I was falling and couldn't stop, but when I really thought about it,I would feel better. This went on for over a year. I stayed on BA,worked out,took a trip,started going out,joined several meet up groups and prayed. I've finally lost that feeling this past July. And I closed that chapter the first week of September. I have no feelings what so ever. It's feels great to be in control.

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Permalink Reply by Shay Sugah on October 4, 2009 at 12:36pm

Yea I have and to make matters worst I'm still trying to hold on to the situation. My dude of 4yrs he wasn't coming home for a few days and I started questioning the shit he was telling me. So one day when I was at work, I had to handle a situation with GA Power, and his name was on the account, so as we are on three way with them he rides pass me in a car with another female. I couldn't believe my eyes!! I just started calling hiim every name there is to call somebody. Luckily he hurry and drove away, cause I think I would have went to jail that day for murder. And this is not the only thing his ass did. So stupid of me though, I forgave him when he got locked up for a year and call himself trying to change his ways. Till this day ladies, I'm still talking to him and we still trying to work things out and I'm silly for keeping it going or should I stay around to make things work?? It just so hard cause I'm 26 and I hate meeting new people and going thru tryin to learn someone else. Sometimes I feel like I really don't know what Love really is, so yes it is safe to say my soul is not with me.

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Permalink Reply by Trini Princessa on October 5, 2009 at 7:27pm

After my husband told me it wasn't working anymore I found out he was with another woman for years. I had no idea. She was a friend and I trusted him completely. No signs of cheating nothing. She played her role in the background and waited until he was ready to break up our marriage. They had a child and everything before divorce papers were even filed.

I was a total wreck. I gave up many things to hold him down, and I had to start from scratch. I made it through by knowing the two of them deserved each other, and deserved something better. My heart was broken, but living through the pain, depression (Seriously I lost weight because I would not eat), anger, etc brought me to a better place.
Some days I didn't have the strength to move on, I really believed he was my life. It was essential for me to learn I could not live for someone else. I had to live and love myself above anyone else.

My friends and family helped me in other ways also, and while I am not where I want to be in life, I am getting there and better things await.

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Permalink Reply by CartTart on October 7, 2009 at 10:18pm

My heart/soul hasn't been broken or crushed like some you ladies--I applaud you for your strength--but it's been kicked around some this past year. A guy I thought I had a good friendship/relationship with apparently only thought of me as a side piece and he tried to date my ex-roommate, twice. Now he has cut off all communication and acts like he doesn't even know me when he sees me, and he is now dating one of my coworkers. They go out, go on trips and etc. After all that, I realized that I am too good for him, but it still hurts to be treated that way, especially when he acts like I did something to him.

And now I'm worried the guy I'm seeing now is trying to use me. I would like to think I am being paranoid, but after being hurt so much I feel like I need to stay on my guard because there are some people who don't mean you any good, and sometimes you don't know it until it is too late.

Good luck ladies and take care of yourselves!

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