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Permalink Reply by Sheli on September 29, 2011 at 4:07pm

Recently on FB a friend did a post about our elementary school b/c its being shut down, so everyone was posting memories from elementary school and this one chick comes on and says she hated elementary school because all she remembers is being picked on and beat up by (x, y, z) she named every girl from our neighborhood (there were like 9 of us, including me) and for the life of us, none of us remember this girl. Yeah we were some she-devils, but I was the "nice one" so I actually felt bad.

 

But personally... Middle school was hell, I always got picked on and all through hs I was the "sister" to all the popular dudes, basically none of them were trying to holla, I never got picked on (b/c I knew ALL their business & I'd tell it if I had to) but sill I wasn't first choice for dating options either, and it's funny b/c I look exactly the same as I did in hs. I was 100lbs and now I'm probably 120lbs. So now I get the whole "I had a crush on you" line from a LOT of dudes, but I ain't trying to hear that s***, LOL I'm still cool with most of them though.

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Permalink Reply by CCD is Workin on a baller 4 she on September 29, 2011 at 4:20pm

Yeah. There was this dude in HS I let my friends talk me out of seeing. He was a nice guy. I think they just didn't want me to hook up with anyone before they did. lol Heffas!

 

Oh and there was another dude but he did have issues. We were clowning him one day and didn't realize he was close by and hear us. Again, a nice dude but he had issues that he needed to handle that were in his control.

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Permalink Reply by Monica Amazing on September 29, 2011 at 4:25pm

I was awkward and kinda funny looking most of my life.  I had little boyfriends that always dumped for the prettier more popular girl.  As I grew older, I grew into my looks and now those same boys who turned me down for the dances, called me ugly and would overlook me are stunned when they see me now.  Like "WOW" stunned..

 

I've gotten all of the I liked you so much in hs, i always thought you were cute, memba when I tried to kiss (i didn't)..lol  i'm like..whatever now...

 

 

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Permalink Reply by Siren on September 29, 2011 at 4:31pm

I was a late bloomer and younger than most people in my class because i skipped a grade in elementary. I was super skinny and didn't get much play in the beginning of high school...Can I just say my 10 year high school reunion was sweet revenge... the "thixck girls were all FAT and the guys that I used to crush on had their mouths hanging open. The first guy i ever liked and told that i liked them told me I was "cute" but he liked his girls P-H-A- T to def... BASTARD... he hit me on FB a while ago copping pleas... the ugly duckling often grows into  the swan

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Permalink Reply by Sissy on September 29, 2011 at 5:26pm

I was a jock so I didn't get teased but once in junior high school, I talked about a girl behind her back and when she found out, she started crying hysterically (she really thought I was her friend).  I felt like real s*** that day and for a while after that. That still hurts my feelings to this day!

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Permalink Reply by Stacy Lacey on September 29, 2011 at 6:10pm

I have to share this.In high school riding the school bus there was this boy who used to clown on the disabled kids.He'd clown and try to get people to clown with him damn near every day!Anytime you saw him he was clowning disabled kids.Walking like them and trying to talk like them and was just horrible.He was so bad that kids used to tell him "enough already"

 

Fast forward about 3 years I heard he got in an car accident and is now in a wheelchair for the rest of his life! He's about 23.I saw him one day at the hood fleamarket being pushed by one of his friends and I went up to say hi and he was BITTER and ignored me.I walked away thinking "Damn! Karma is real!"

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Permalink Reply by Desiree' on September 29, 2011 at 7:13pm

WOW karma is real! As for me i was always nice to people and they were always nice to me. I did have a few people who were mean to me gave me funny looks for no reason but i ignored those b****** and kept it movin. One of the chicks who would always roll her eyes at me actually became a friend of mine after high school she said that she thought i was conceited but once she got to know me she realized i was the total opposite and she was sorry for judging me without knowing me.
As for guys i always got the popular guys in high school. Most of the dudes i had a crush on i ended up dealing with but as i've gotten older the popular guys seem to have nothing else to offer besides looks while the less attractive and less popular men seem to have it all together. If i knew then what i know now i woulda kept the book worms around instead of chasing the jocks.
Stacy Lacey said:

I have to share this.In high school riding the school bus there was this boy who used to clown on the disabled kids.He'd clown and try to get people to clown with him damn near every day!Anytime you saw him he was clowning disabled kids.Walking like them and trying to talk like them and was just horrible.He was so bad that kids used to tell him "enough already"

 

Fast forward about 3 years I heard he got in an car accident and is now in a wheelchair for the rest of his life! He's about 23.I saw him one day at the hood fleamarket being pushed by one of his friends and I went up to say hi and he was BITTER and ignored me.I walked away thinking "Damn! Karma is real!"

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Permalink Reply by MissBling on September 29, 2011 at 8:04pm

Nope....I was always part of the "in" crowd. We never picked on people. I was h8ed because of the dudes I dated and that's about it lol!

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Permalink Reply by blackfujones on September 29, 2011 at 8:51pm

ive always befriended everyone..for instance a great friend of mine was a nerd/weirdo but one of those people who were extremely gifted and lucky.  In grade school he could draw his ass off and loved video games.  He ended up getting a summer gig testing video games (cool s*** for a dude from the projects in chicago)..well all during that following school yr he said he was developing a video game.  Everyone laughed at him said he was crazy etc...so a few yr later he shows me the specs/blueprints for the video game. I smile said yo thas dope now lets go hoop..do you know our sophmore yr in hs this fool comes to school smiling with a video game in hand that said "war gods" dude was a designer for the game for like 4yrs and got payed a 7figure deal......and let me not talk about the two times he picked winning lotto numbers for his mother UGH LOL

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Permalink Reply by blackfujones on September 29, 2011 at 8:54pm

aint is funny...like all the extra extra cool people all have a gang of kids/been in jail/fat as hell etc

Siren said:

I was a late bloomer and younger than most people in my class because i skipped a grade in elementary. I was super skinny and didn't get much play in the beginning of high school...Can I just say my 10 year high school reunion was sweet revenge... the "thixck girls were all FAT and the guys that I used to crush on had their mouths hanging open. The first guy i ever liked and told that i liked them told me I was "cute" but he liked his girls P-H-A- T to def... BASTARD... he hit me on FB a while ago copping pleas... the ugly duckling often grows into  the swan

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Permalink Reply by blackfujones on September 29, 2011 at 8:59pm

yeah i had that happen on fb like 3 mos ago actually around caribana. my moms best friends daughter used to be sooooooooooo fine n thick to me in middle school but i never got any play.  like i said I was a jock didnt care about clothes appearance etc..fast forward to caribana at the end of july.  I guess she found out I was divorced and shorty was at my DAMN THROAT trying to get me to roll with her to caribana.  Later on I found out from a good friend that she was definitely tryin to test my peen out if i woulda came.turns out she saw me one day and been on me every since

Sheli's Publicist said:

Recently on FB a friend did a post about our elementary school b/c its being shut down, so everyone was posting memories from elementary school and this one chick comes on and says she hated elementary school because all she remembers is being picked on and beat up by (x, y, z) she named every girl from our neighborhood (there were like 9 of us, including me) and for the life of us, none of us remember this girl. Yeah we were some she-devils, but I was the "nice one" so I actually felt bad.

 

But personally... Middle school was hell, I always got picked on and all through hs I was the "sister" to all the popular dudes, basically none of them were trying to holla, I never got picked on (b/c I knew ALL their business & I'd tell it if I had to) but sill I wasn't first choice for dating options either, and it's funny b/c I look exactly the same as I did in hs. I was 100lbs and now I'm probably 120lbs. So now I get the whole "I had a crush on you" line from a LOT of dudes, but I ain't trying to hear that s***, LOL I'm still cool with most of them though.

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Permalink Reply by tru2this on September 30, 2011 at 1:14am

My brother was the neighborhood dope man so I never got any play from the guys in high school, I was a tom boy by default lol I would try and date but the guys. Turns out they would rather date the popular cheerleader with no crazy ass brother. I only had 1bf in 10th grade and he was a lot older. Now when I see guys I grew up with they are shocked I turned into a lady DD's and all lol

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