If so, did you feel justified in it??? I did and I feel totally ok with it...*shrugs* 

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A woman that hits a man has no respect for that man.

I have in the past.., not my husband. At the time I felt justified. Looking back I was immature but such is life.

what do other men think about a woman who has done this?? 

Tone © said:

A woman that hits a man has no respect for that man.

We look at it more as the guy getting slapped being weak then anything wrong with the woman.

Love is a Losing Game said:

what do other men think about a woman who has done this?? 

Tone © said:

A woman that hits a man has no respect for that man.

Now, I feel that it was an immature response. But at the time, I really didn't feel bad about it. Honestly, at times I feel really powerless against men. It's not like there should really be a battles of wills between the sexes, but I feel that some men try to "stand on" a woman as she is weaker and may even fall for some of your games and lies. I feel that a man that intentionally tries to take advantage of a man deserves whatever response the woman gives. It's crazy cuz if she responds negatively, she is considered "crazy" but they are free to play all kinds of bulls*** games and we should just turn the other cheek to it. I have learned how to walk away from men at the first glimpse of a game. I feel that by just cutting them off then that will remove the possibility of them tryna run some real lame ish. My situation was about two years ago, but the guy wants to paint me as crazy...I just say I was "passionate" lol, but I feel powerless because his sentiments will be the final story....not that he was slick as hell and got caught.   

Siren said:

I have in the past.., not my husband. At the time I felt justified. Looking back I was immature but such is life.

I slapped a guy in his face one time. I don't even remember why. I know he apologized for whatever he said that set me off. I haven't done it since and I don't believe I ever would again. Nowadays, words just don't faze me too much. If what someone is saying is bothering me and we can't come to a compromise I just walk away. I've walked away and left people talking in mid thought. Hey! After I say let's agree to disagree and the person keeps talking then it is time for me to move on because they are probably trying to instigate an altercation. I have better things to do.

i literally "LOL"'ed at the title of this post!

I have.... #theend

 

Girl you have more power than you realize. A man that wants to stand on a  womn is no man that is a boy and you need not be bothered. I am sure the guy I slapped (oh and I more than slapped him I went OFF on that ninja he had scrathes on all exposed skin face arms etc) but I bet you before he pulls the s*** he pulled on me with someone else he will remember the b**** that tried to knock his head off. I came to a point where ihad to check myself and to not let a man get me to that point. My Dad always told me the best way to hurt a man is to cut him off no explanation. You have plenty of power Ma and punk ass men will try and convince you of otherwise screw them  
Love is a Losing Game said:

Now, I feel that it was an immature response. But at the time, I really didn't feel bad about it. Honestly, at times I feel really powerless against men. It's not like there should really be a battles of wills between the sexes, but I feel that some men try to "stand on" a woman as she is weaker and may even fall for some of your games and lies. I feel that a man that intentionally tries to take advantage of a man deserves whatever response the woman gives. It's crazy cuz if she responds negatively, she is considered "crazy" but they are free to play all kinds of bulls*** games and we should just turn the other cheek to it. I have learned how to walk away from men at the first glimpse of a game. I feel that by just cutting them off then that will remove the possibility of them tryna run some real lame ish. My situation was about two years ago, but the guy wants to paint me as crazy...I just say I was "passionate" lol, but I feel powerless because his sentiments will be the final story....not that he was slick as hell and got caught.   
Siren said:

I have in the past.., not my husband. At the time I felt justified. Looking back I was immature but such is life.

I haven't but for the women who have, has any of the men that you smacked ever hit you back?

Nope. I only did it once and he apologized for what he said so even he knew he was wrong.

Ice_Pilot said:

I haven't but for the women who have, has any of the men that you smacked ever hit you back?

Hell yes I did,same man, more than once. I felt (and still feel) more than justified for slapping the hell out of him because he did something selfish that could have endangered my damn life at the time. I was really hurt but I didn't feel the urge to physically hurt him until more lies came out and this dude had zero remorse. A few months later even he had to admit that he understood why I did it. I will never regret it because he's the type of dude that words don't mean s*** to, only actions.

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