Having a Baby Is the New Marriage

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Permalink Reply by a_BilLi on July 13, 2009 at 10:31pm

You right about that....fuck around and get married again ===>There goes your check bitch...

JustMe said:

you just hit the nail on the head, a lot of women are given a ring to shut them up... At some point we should decide on a venue, colors, attendants, etc... Tameka did get Ursh to the altar, & she did pop out 2 kids, but the marriage is over... Another misconception is that if a dude has $ you are set for life, thats not necessarily so... you have to actually end up with the kids to get child support & depending on the state you may not be entitled to half of everything... and alimony is not guaranteed for the rest of your life...

Bri83 said:

See my thing with Usher is, why did he marry her knowing she was no good, she already had a husband, and other kids, but she ditched them to be with him, and he got to experience firsthand how evil she is. And, I just feel like it does depend on the woman, if a man feels like giving you a ring is gonna keep you quiet, and make you happy, then why should he marry you. Once you have a baby, and an engagement ring, why should there be a wedding, ya'll already living as a family???

JustMe said:

cause Tameka was an old ass trick that used her position as his stylist to get in good, she turned him against his mother & plenty of people that had his back... remember she was married... Lala for the most part seems to support Melo unconditionally & still does her own thing as far as earning $ with her VH1... I don't think its marriage vs. babymama as much as its some of the women involved...

Bri83 said:

I just feel that lately, the role of being a "baby mama" is much more accepted, and much more glorified then being a wife. It seems that being a "baby mama" is much more respected, since the woman is bonded with the man for life through the child, and being a wife is temporary. Example, everyone loves LaLa and Carmelo together, but hated Usher and Tameka, why is that?

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