Having a Baby Is the New Marriage

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Permalink Reply by Tab on July 9, 2009 at 2:30pm

This isn't new. There is just more media coverage. In some cultures, marriage isn't stressed like it is in others.

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Permalink Reply by Tee on July 9, 2009 at 2:33pm

I personally feel ppl have babies out of wedlock ALL THE DAMN time they just happen to be Famous. And to be an engaged i would be engaged for years cause marriage SCARES the SHIT OUT OF ME!!! As for these guys you have to remember they are young. And honestly i wouldnt be suprised if Bron & Vannah were already married. He truly loves her. I have meet them together n truly sweet couple. As for Lala's ass she hit the jackpot with Melo's yung ass. & he is still playing around and his jumpoff has a NICE condo in Denver so. If they are happy and i am happy.

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Permalink Reply by S0 F L Y Y on July 9, 2009 at 2:34pm

Nah homie... eff all that, I want the ring too (with the papers behind it). I'm not just gon be ur BM and u think that's it.

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Permalink Reply by a_BilLi on July 9, 2009 at 2:39pm

I couldn't stand for it. I'm scared as hell of children so I'm not having a baby with a baller without having everything. @Tab...I know it's not "new" but the wording was directed more towards the brand new attitude ppl had a bout LaLa and Melo....

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Permalink Reply by Tab on July 9, 2009 at 2:45pm

I know what you are saying. That's why I said it's just that the media is covering their moves. Now days it seems like a lot of fuckery, but the same fuckery has been going on for decades. It's just we have more access to people business. Go to a news paper achieve dated 1975 and you would swear you were reading a Daily News from 2009. Same headlines and stories. Nothing much has changed except how things are covered. We didn't have a voice 10 yrs ago, now with the internet,Myspace,Facebook and Twitter it's in your face all the time. Farrah and David Letterman are perfect examples this isn't new. I don't know why people are so hard on LaLa, and Tiny when they clearly are not the only ones not married with kids. You don't hear this much grief about Halle and Gab. I wonder is it a color thing? Or just the type of men Tiny and LaLa have.

a_BilLi said:

I couldn't stand for it. I'm scared as hell of children so I'm not having a baby with a baller without having everything. @Tab...I know it's not "new" but the wording was directed more towards the brand new attitude ppl had a bout LaLa and Melo....

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Permalink Reply by LMS on July 9, 2009 at 3:30pm

They have been engaged since 2004, not 1996. And guess what Brad & Angelina aren't married either! And they have like 7 kids!

Brad is baby daddy & angelina is baby momma!

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Permalink Reply by Ashley Banks on July 9, 2009 at 3:31pm

Children out of wedlock go back to Biblical times, as well as shacking. You can flip through the Bible, the Torah, the Quran, and so on and so on, the protection of a family and a woman through marriage has been covered. I can't see myself doing it. I hate the negative press that is given to black celebrities, because plenty of white folks have been doing it. My favorite example, Isla Fischer and Sascha Baron Cohen, I will knock that b!tch down to get next to SBC, but she had the baby first (and converted to Judaism). I would have been on Torah reading, gelfite fish eatin' Negro to marry that man... In that case, having a baby and CONVERTING to his religion got her foot in the door, let's see if he actually wifes her.....

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Permalink Reply by Boss/MadamBA on July 9, 2009 at 4:15pm

These pre-nuptial agreements are so damn air tight. Dropping the baby seals the deal basically. Sad but true..lol

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Permalink Reply by a_BilLi on July 9, 2009 at 5:48pm

Good point about Halle and Gab! No one says shit about them!

Tab said:

I know what you are saying. That's why I said it's just that the media is covering their moves. Now days it seems like a lot of fuckery, but the same fuckery has been going on for decades. It's just we have more access to people business. Go to a news paper achieve dated 1975 and you would swear you were reading a Daily News from 2009. Same headlines and stories. Nothing much has changed except how things are covered. We didn't have a voice 10 yrs ago, now with the internet,Myspace,Facebook and Twitter it's in your face all the time. Farrah and David Letterman are perfect examples this isn't new. I don't know why people are so hard on LaLa, and Tiny when they clearly are not the only ones not married with kids. You don't hear this much grief about Halle and Gab. I wonder is it a color thing? Or just the type of men Tiny and LaLa have.

a_BilLi said:

I couldn't stand for it. I'm scared as hell of children so I'm not having a baby with a baller without having everything. @Tab...I know it's not "new" but the wording was directed more towards the brand new attitude ppl had a bout LaLa and Melo....

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Permalink Reply by a_BilLi on July 9, 2009 at 5:48pm

1996 was a joke...

LMS said:

They have been engaged since 2004, not 1996. And guess what Brad & Angelina aren't married either! And they have like 7 kids!

Brad is baby daddy & angelina is baby momma!

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Permalink Reply by Tab on July 9, 2009 at 6:04pm

LMAO!!

a_BilLi said:

1996 was a joke...

LMS said:

They have been engaged since 2004, not 1996. And guess what Brad & Angelina aren't married either! And they have like 7 kids!

Brad is baby daddy & angelina is baby momma!

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Permalink Reply by Goldie Fish on July 9, 2009 at 6:19pm

It's no skin off of my back.
These women are taken care of and thats more than I can say that others. I see it as a cup half full. lol

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