Having a Baby Is the New Marriage
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I was just reading the comments about LaLa and Carmelo and everyone has something to say about them not being married yet. I can't lie, I gave it the SSE too since they been engaged since 1996 ;) Anyway, I think that more women these days are accepting being the baby mama's of these ballers. Y'all see Tiny didn't get no paper til TI was one foot in jail. LeBron's BM not gettin a paper either. I'm just saying....thoughts?
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You right about that....fuck around and get married again ===>There goes your check bitch...
JustMe said:you just hit the nail on the head, a lot of women are given a ring to shut them up... At some point we should decide on a venue, colors, attendants, etc... Tameka did get Ursh to the altar, & she did pop out 2 kids, but the marriage is over... Another misconception is that if a dude has $ you are set for life, thats not necessarily so... you have to actually end up with the kids to get child support & depending on the state you may not be entitled to half of everything... and alimony is not guaranteed for the rest of your life...
Bri83 said:See my thing with Usher is, why did he marry her knowing she was no good, she already had a husband, and other kids, but she ditched them to be with him, and he got to experience firsthand how evil she is. And, I just feel like it does depend on the woman, if a man feels like giving you a ring is gonna keep you quiet, and make you happy, then why should he marry you. Once you have a baby, and an engagement ring, why should there be a wedding, ya'll already living as a family???
JustMe said:cause Tameka was an old ass trick that used her position as his stylist to get in good, she turned him against his mother & plenty of people that had his back... remember she was married... Lala for the most part seems to support Melo unconditionally & still does her own thing as far as earning $ with her VH1... I don't think its marriage vs. babymama as much as its some of the women involved...
Bri83 said:I just feel that lately, the role of being a "baby mama" is much more accepted, and much more glorified then being a wife. It seems that being a "baby mama" is much more respected, since the woman is bonded with the man for life through the child, and being a wife is temporary. Example, everyone loves LaLa and Carmelo together, but hated Usher and Tameka, why is that?
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