HE ACTS AS IF HE'S TURNED OFF BECAUSE SHE WON'T LET HIM HIT THE BUTT
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My friend has been in a relationship for 11 years. Lately her man has been really trying to have anal sex with her. She said it felt uncomfortable and she couldn't get in to it so she told him that it wasnt for her.Since then he hasn't touched her in weeks and he's starting to spend alotta time with the fellas. They are a high profiled couple and I told my girl that I don't think she is ready to give up her fab lifestyle because he is being disrespectful towards her and the home front like staying out a few nites a week. One of our tranny friends said she should try anal ease and get it over with but im thinking that he should respect the fact that that's not her thing. What do yall think? How would handle this situation in your house?
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Permalink Reply by Boss/MadamBA on -
11 years? She should be doing everything with her man...
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Permalink Reply by Fantasia'sGhostReader on -
after 11 years they should have been married, because it sounds like they're about to break up, and if he has money, she's not about to walk away with half, and that's too much like 11 years wasted to me. As far as doing anal, I don't do stuff I don't want to do, and if she doesn't want to, she shouldn't. I don't care if the next woman (or man) will, if she doesn't want to, she shouldn't. I think anal is mostly mental anyway: the men want to because of the taboo thought of it, and women don't want to because of the taboo thought of it (and it hurts).
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Permalink Reply by PrettyThinker on -
Touchy Touchy subject.....Personally I Like Anal....Me and My Boyfriend have been together off and On for 8 years.....At First it Hurt.....But I am kinda Hot and like sex.....He is a Scorpio and is very Sexual......I just tell him to talk dirty and It doesn't hurt.....
Some men are into different things and You have to keep the SPICE In the Relationship......what you won't do Another Woman Will......Look at KOBE AND VANESSA......
YOUR FRIEND HAD to do An INTROSPECTION ON HERSELF AND THE RELATIONSHIP.......She doesn't have to do it........But if that is what he wants......he may go ELSEWHERE......if she wants to give him his UHHHH ummmm Freedom and let him do what he wants and come back home.....that is up to her.......
We all know Men are very SEXUAL......YOU DAMN NEAR HAVE TO DO ACROBATS IN THE BEDROOM AND DON'T DARE GET FAT (another subject).........
I wish her luck in her Decisions and Relationship.......
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Permalink Reply by PrettyThinker on
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Maybe he wants the Tight feeling.......I hope she is doing Kegels.......
I have Broken Up w/him a Couple of Times and Have been Abstinent....so this last time I was Tight and he was Loving It......
Relationships/marriages are a Damn job.....that you have to do Exceptionally well and Work Overtime......
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Permalink Reply by PrettyThinker on
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U Damn Near Have to Be like the Girl in Boss Picture when He Walks through the Damn Dooor.......LOL (*choke Laughing*)......LOL
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Permalink Reply by Cookie Pie on -
It is a well known fact that some women don't like anal at all , many don't even like the idea of it ! If they have been together for 11 years and he just recently started asking her to do it then he has probably already been getting it somewhere else AND LIKES IT ! If she is that worried about pleasing him and keeping her relationship tight then I suggest she either get with the program or try to have an open relationship so she can at least watch who he's getting it on with ( hopefully not a man ) !!!! Believe me .... there are plenty women who do it and if he has money then he wont have any trouble finding a replacement !
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Permalink Reply by Devyn AKA Dominique Devereaux on -
If she won't another chick will...tell her to try again, get some lube and RELAX!
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Permalink Reply by Goldie Fish on -
i think that nigga is gay.... but I'm just saying.
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Permalink Reply by Goldie Fish on
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@PrettyThinker....
does god know you're fornicating
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Permalink Reply by Tab on -
Why is it, when a man isn't into something, that's it, end of story. But if it's the woman, she better get with it or someone else will. GTFOH!
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Permalink Reply by Seductress on -
Lmaooo @ goldie, girl you kill me. @ Tab cuz that's just the way it is girl. Just like if a chick wants to screw a bunch of diff dudes she's a slut and if a guy does it he's the man.
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Permalink Reply by The real vixxen on -
Well if its the money thats keeping her she better spread them cheeks becuz sounds to me that hes donna leave her for someone who will and then shell be stuck w nothing
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