HE ACTS AS IF HE'S TURNED OFF BECAUSE SHE WON'T LET HIM HIT THE BUTT

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Permalink Reply by SexyJay on May 27, 2009 at 9:17pm

AMEN to that, my sista, AMEN to that!!!

Sheli said:

I know I may sound prudish but that's not where it goes, lol...that's her booty-hole and if she don't want anything going in it then NO means NO damnit. Man, ninjas always want a chick to do some extra shit to keep them. She should tell him she'll do it only if he lets her stick a dildo or some butt plugs up his ass and if he objects then there you go...I tell my dudes don't ask me to do anything you wouldn't do and don't try to stick your ding-a-ling where it don't belong.

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Permalink Reply by Sheli on May 27, 2009 at 9:26pm

And that right there is the reason why ninjas feel like they can suck and f**k anything that moves, then come home and ask their chick to do some extra shit because some women are so willing to give in and do some trick shit that goes totally against their morals and then you got the "someone-elses" that are down for whatever because...hell just because... SCREW that if I ain't with it, i ain't with it. He can leave if he want to, I'll find someone new just like he did or just kick it Solo. U can't give or comprise your everything until the point that you're left with nothing.
Not coming at you personally but...whew just had to get that out. :-)

hollywood said:

Ok, well like they say, if you won't do it 4 your man, someone else will...I must be that "someone"!

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Permalink Reply by Cougar $pice on May 27, 2009 at 9:45pm

Sounds like dude has done it before with someone else and was 'surprised' when she told him it wasn't for her. After 11 yrs (do I get a ring if I give you anal) or is that not part of the plan?
Just like giving head it's become the norm, for the fab lifestyle it's 'bottoms up now'.
Here is a post to help her out because I don't think she's going anywhere:http://balleralert.ning.com/forum/topics/2015113:Topic:220833?page=...

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Permalink Reply by SexyindaCity on May 27, 2009 at 10:47pm

lmfao
hollywood said:

Ok, well like they say, if you won't do it 4 your man, someone else will...I must be that "someone"!

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Permalink Reply by Chincheta on May 27, 2009 at 11:03pm

If her man won't touch her because she refuses anal this is not about sex. Its seams like he no longer cares about her & is trying to find an excuse to dump her, u would think after 11 years their relationship will be more than jets a sex act.

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Permalink Reply by C*u*t*e* on May 28, 2009 at 12:40am

11 years is a long time. After all that time she should be comfortable doing anything with him. Not that this is the main reason but it looks like this relationship is about to end because 1.they aren't even married after all that time and 2.not that she should have to do that but they've been together to long for her not to do that.

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Permalink Reply by california on May 28, 2009 at 9:06am

are they married.....because if not, as he is pushing to have anal, she needs to be pushing to get married.

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Permalink Reply by Stephbaby on May 28, 2009 at 9:32am

He just now figuring out after 11years that she's not into it? Wow, I take it this couple doesnt communicate AT ALL. WTF?? And that saying "what you wont do another chick will" that saying is gettin old! It should be updated to " what you wont do another ni&&a will". If he cant respect her decision than whatever will happen, let it be! Cause just as quick he can replace her, Im sure she can do the same.

SIDE NOTE: Ladies stop giving up ur worth. If ur n a relationship, make him understand ur bounderies & ur limitations of what u will & will not do. Stop selling ur self short just in hopes of gettin some of that money. Its 2009 Bishes, time to GET UR OWN. Cant be a fly itchbay & a parasite @ the same time.

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Permalink Reply by lady lynxx- ladylynxx.ning.com on May 28, 2009 at 9:51am

DEAD AT THE UNDERLINED!

Stephbaby said:

He just now figuring out after 11years that she's not into it? Wow, I take it this couple doesnt communicate AT ALL. WTF?? And that saying "what you wont do another chick will" that saying is gettin old! It should be updated to " what you wont do another ni&&a will". If he cant respect her decision than whatever will happen, let it be! Cause just as quick he can replace her, Im sure she can do the same.

SIDE NOTE: Ladies stop giving up ur worth. If ur n a relationship, make him understand ur bounderies & ur limitations of what u will & will not do. Stop selling ur self short just in hopes of gettin some of that money. Its 2009 Bishes, time to GET UR OWN. Cant be a fly itchbay & a parasite @ the same time.

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Permalink Reply by Sheli on May 28, 2009 at 10:06am

I 100% agree with all of that and co-sign with the Underlined/Bold part!!!

Stephbaby said:

He just now figuring out after 11years that she's not into it? Wow, I take it this couple doesnt communicate AT ALL. WTF?? And that saying "what you wont do another chick will" that saying is gettin old! It should be updated to " what you wont do another ni&&a will". If he cant respect her decision than whatever will happen, let it be! Cause just as quick he can replace her, Im sure she can do the same.

SIDE NOTE: Ladies stop giving up ur worth. If ur n a relationship, make him understand ur bounderies & ur limitations of what u will & will not do. Stop selling ur self short just in hopes of gettin some of that money. Its 2009 Bishes, time to GET UR OWN. Cant be a fly itchbay & a parasite @ the same time.

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Permalink Reply by WorkingBlue2 on May 28, 2009 at 10:23am

Tab said:

Why is it, when a man isn't into something, that's it, end of story. But if it's the woman, she better get with it or someone else will. GTFOH!

Well for me it goes both ways. My bf didn't eat cooch when I met him and I dealt with that for about 2 months before I let him know that oral is something I'm used to and basically I expect it. I don't get down with that "I don't do that" mess. I also let him know that a lot of women only give head to get head and don't really like it, I actually do and he needs to get over it. He did.

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Permalink Reply by Damnstraight on May 28, 2009 at 6:47pm

Look, I don't care what a man tells you or what the next chick is doing, ain't no man got any business in your ASSHOLE...ASS is for waste to exit...

Now if you're down to do it, then fine, that's your choice...but please don't allow anyone to pressure you into taking a dick up your butt...That's one of the main reasons why HIV is spreading like wildfire...The tissue in the ass is a lot thinner and can easily bleed...Also beware of men who love anal sex all the time...That just doesn't even sit right with me...

I have never had a man to ask me for anal sex...and I've dated athletic ballers, corporate ballers, just to regular Joes...What man would even want to stick his dick in shit anyway? Condom or not, it's just gross...Sorry but it is...I've never smelled shit that smelled good...

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