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Permalink Reply by McKenna Hylton on April 2, 2012 at 11:44pm

 Phahahahahaha....You just made my night. That reminded me of a steve harvey joke. 

AllyNWonderland said:

I couldn't even finish reading the comments. I don't understand how you newbies come on here asking for advice but then get mad when real advice is given!! Are you upset that we aint saying " go head and throw your snatch to whoevers open to catch it?" You asked and the family said "don't do it" hell even Tones ass said "karmas a b-tch". Chile, ima tell you what u want to hear so look, girl take him! Hell they aint married. Get that money!!!

I whole heartily hopes she "Loranna Bobbits" his ass and "Tanya Hardings" your dumb ass

Good luck,
Your sista in Christ
Ally

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Permalink Reply by Crazy But Almost Famous on April 3, 2012 at 12:51am

@honeycoated i know because i knew him for years before he was really trying to make something happen between us but i had a man and i was actually being faithful to the wrong person obviously cuz now its over. now i ran into him again last month after we lost contact but now he has a girl now...i guess its bad timing

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Permalink Reply by Dragon Slayer Puss on April 3, 2012 at 5:31am

Nope, she tryna move in on him. And that is the f'ed up part. It's all fine and dandy to play games with a man like this because he is entertaining foolishness while he is in a relationship, BUT to begin to take him seriously as if he could ever be anything meaningful for you is where the bull s*** comes in. She prob knows he spending time with chicks, cuz he spending less time wit her, and she may agree that BOTH of yall should hit his pockets as a lesson to him. But to "try to steal him" is low to me. And I mainly think this because he aint s*** to have in the first place. It's a waste of time for a lady that has an agenda. No where in the agenda should trying to be his "woman" be. As DB said, you can try to upstage his girl in every way, but that too is a losing strategy. Men tell you that they girl aint this or that. But no matter how she looks, how she dresses, what she used to be, what kind of car she has, how many kids, if her chose her, then he wanted her. He made her think that he is with her, and made it clear to you that he is with somebody. You can't move a man's choice around. You can try, but that is a waste of time, and imo, it signals a low self esteem. You can find and you deserve an man that is for you and about you. Life is crazy, and you will see him again. Maybe next time, both of yall will be single.  

Honeycoated said:

How do you know its only been a couple months? Did he tell you (because they will make it seem like the girl they're with aint s***)

 

and how are the other chicks that posted being rude? How would you like them to tell you not to deal with a man who has a girl?

 

You say you're just trying to get what you can get, so, in that case, you can do what you want and do what babyballercheeks suggested. You're not necessarily looking for him to leave her, you just want to have your way with him and his money and send him back to her, right?

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Permalink Reply by Honeycoated on April 3, 2012 at 12:05pm

Bolded for emphasis. Not just to Crazy But Almost Famous, but just to anybody reading this.
Love is a Losing Game said:

Nope, she tryna move in on him. And that is the f'ed up part. It's all fine and dandy to play games with a man like this because he is entertaining foolishness while he is in a relationship, BUT to begin to take him seriously as if he could ever be anything meaningful for you is where the bull s*** comes in. She prob knows he spending time with chicks, cuz he spending less time wit her, and she may agree that BOTH of yall should hit his pockets as a lesson to him. But to "try to steal him" is low to me. And I mainly think this because he aint s*** to have in the first place. It's a waste of time for a lady that has an agenda. No where in the agenda should trying to be his "woman" be. As DB said, you can try to upstage his girl in every way, but that too is a losing strategy. Men tell you that they girl aint this or that. But no matter how she looks, how she dresses, what she used to be, what kind of car she has, how many kids, if her chose her, then he wanted her. He made her think that he is with her, and made it clear to you that he is with somebody. You can't move a man's choice around. You can try, but that is a waste of time, and imo, it signals a low self esteem. You can find and you deserve an man that is for you and about you. Life is crazy, and you will see him again. Maybe next time, both of yall will be single.  

Honeycoated said:

How do you know its only been a couple months? Did he tell you (because they will make it seem like the girl they're with aint s***)

 

and how are the other chicks that posted being rude? How would you like them to tell you not to deal with a man who has a girl?

 

You say you're just trying to get what you can get, so, in that case, you can do what you want and do what babyballercheeks suggested. You're not necessarily looking for him to leave her, you just want to have your way with him and his money and send him back to her, right?

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Permalink Reply by JustMe on April 3, 2012 at 12:15pm

as long as you have no problem with someone else stealing him from you, you should be good with whatever you choose... Just keep in mind though, just because he is willing to f*** you does not mean he is willing to leave her...

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