For Women Who Want The Ballerific Life!
I have messed with an attached man before, a long time ago as well. But I never thought I could steal him though, and if I did get him, why would I want him? I had an agenda, and that is what I stuck to. Chicks don't know how to get they money and get out. They wanna try to move somebody around, instead of sticking to the plan. And to get what?? Now, I play for keeps. And you can never keep anything that is fleeting.
MS. UCAN NEVA GET ENUFF!! said:
LOL @ judgementmental ppl. most here act like they've never messed with an attached dude. Im not down with that, although I have done it a looong timwe ago, Im just saying. Anyways, Im going to go with who said depends on what you want from him - If you dont want a real relationship and he's pursuing you then go for it. buut karma is real.
Women meet men all the time they like ... and sometimes they do have a girl ... but u have to understand sweety .... it was very dangerous to act on those feelings ... what the girls are saying are right ... A relationship started on grounds like this... never works out ... ends ugly ... that girl is like u ... u play for the same team ... and when someone is on the same team as u ... u cannot hurt them ... as women we have to respect each other ...he could be lying to her about his feelings ... yet the same could apply to you ... with a man like this u are never sure ... its like women that date married men ... don't go in it expecting them to leave there wife ... if they haven't left.. they ain't leaving and u can sit there years to come and that man will tell u everyday he is leaving his wife and it never happens ... because something is holding him there ....likewise in your case... if he still with his girl odds are he loves her ... i am firm believer that unhappy man will walk ...unless there are other motives ... but we will save that for a next day lol ... i say wait until he is single ... if he is feeling u like u feeling him the realtionship will end eventually ...and if it does wait a couple of months before jumping in another with him ...I think that is the only respectable way of going about it .hopefully that helps u out
@losing game its been quiet for u...@ alley like u said i asked for advice not be disrespected yall acting like a bunch of uptight b****** and as far as the "newbie" thing b**** this aint high school and u aint the hbic so fall back ma..im done arguing with ya hoes..and for the people that wasn't judgmental thanks for the advice.
If are refering to me as the newbie ... then please dont start .... because i dont have time to deal with high level ignorance ... i believe if u ask a question and people answer based on the opinion then it is what it is...i never responded ignorant to u ... so that s*** wasn't necessary ...If you hate peoples opinion why the F*** is you posting... i cant give anyone advice on how to f*** men that is with someone else .... my men always came single ... and if they wasn't ... i would show no love till they rectify they situation ... because a real bad b**** never has to and never wants play jumpoff .... if u got money in mind ... then it might be different ... but u never wrote your intent ... some women on here. .. are here to find a baller to play wifey and some are here to play ballers hoe ...u choose what u want ...B**** please you ain't never gonna find me on here posting about how to get a man ... or get anyone else 's man ... because if u still trying figure that out ... u still havent graduated to baller status and u need not be addressed ....I was trying to enlighten u on real s*** ...as a woman to woman ... but u showing ignorant face ... but if u feel like acting like a hoe ... knock ya self the f*** out ... p.s dont come posting when homegirl catches u and beat ya ass . I am done ... u just trying let me hate my baller alert experience ... u have displayed the most ignorance thus far ....
oh ya and as love is losing game says.... lets us know how u gonna steal him ... haha
@marissa b**** i wasn't even talking to u ...fall back its not even that serious if i was talking to i would've addressed u by your name like everybody else..how u gonna write whole essay n s*** when its not even about u..u looking extra stupid right now
newbie - thought it was me .. i posted last ... newbie u didnt say who... i am new here ... so i dont look stupid ... but i thought u was coming at me harsh while i was being nice ... it wasnt an essay more like a paragraph ... but i dont do this back forth cussing online ....and before u tell people they looking stupid ... look at who posted and who look who cussing people for there opinions ... anyways peace ... i dont do this back and forth ghetto non-sense .
Hahahaaa! I'm not here to judge but this is the fact: "If he is not chasing you then you have already lost". I've "stolen" other women's men before (unknowingly; I would have never done it had I known) and it happened because HE CHOSE ME. You can't steal a man via sex, dirty talk, money...etc. The only thing you can do is, possibly, find out who his girl is, try to upstage her in every category (looks, education, poise, clothes...etc.) and hope he chooses you. It's his choice and, if you are asking for advice on how to do this, it's sounding like you are losing. Has he been with his girl for 3+ years? Usually men like that say they will leave but never do. I don't really care what happens to you after you take my advice; it's not business. Just know, that most girls with your plan end up as glorified side hoes.
Student Beauty said:
This is ballet alert. We are her to find ballers in all walks of life. I say focus your attention on ways to find a Baller that is playing the field like yourself. If he is not chasing you then you have already lost. You are worried about taking this lady's man because he is feeling and you are feeling him, nah. See, rule #1 you don't have feelings for a lick. Move on and move up. Plus you don't know what he can do for you because you have yet to see it.
Not a good look. Just find a nice lounge or walk around in the men's department of Macy, etc. that way you don't have to be creeping on the low with the hopes of him making it rain on you. Read Cassandra's blog about the power of pu$$y. Good luck and find a Baller.
@ student beauty i aint mad at nobody opinions honestly i just didn't appreciate people being mad rude to me thats all. @babyballer im not chasing him i just see he feeling me and going out his way for me.im just taking this in stride u know he's only been with her for a couple of months that why i aint really see it a big deal. im not in love or anything im just tryna get what i can get at the end of the day.
How do you know its only been a couple months? Did he tell you (because they will make it seem like the girl they're with aint s***)
and how are the other chicks that posted being rude? How would you like them to tell you not to deal with a man who has a girl?
You say you're just trying to get what you can get, so, in that case, you can do what you want and do what babyballercheeks suggested. You're not necessarily looking for him to leave her, you just want to have your way with him and his money and send him back to her, right?