For Women Who Want The Ballerific Life!
This morning on FB I had friend write something to the effect that her man was complaining about her wearing her headscarf. Her defense to it was that that scarf keeps her hair looking right. My response to her was ‘As a married women, heres my advice. Put it on at the last minute at night. When you wake up brush your teeth, take it off and unwrap/ do your hair for the day. No man wants to see you in that head scarf. Trust, if that relationship is what you want step your game up. Headscarves are not acceptable except when I’m sleeping, going to gym, or getting ready to go out. I don’t even have sex with a headscarf on. I will take off if I had it on before it’s about to go down.’ Her response to me was ‘Ha! ! Oh no, i love my head scarf in da house! Hell i dont like seeing him in gym shorts everyday, but i accept that-that is his comfort zone! Why cant i be comfortable? Ill try that ****, its gone take some work! Lol’
How do you feel about headscarf etiquette? Is it ok to wear in the house because he is in his comfort zone? Do men care? Do you care that he sees you in it or is it all about comfort and looking right when you step out? Personal, I try to make sure my man does not see me in it all the time.
IDK. Now if we dont live together I can respect the 'never let him see the scarf' thing but if you live together that's just ridiculous IMO