"if he is a divorcee he has a ton of baggage, if…"
Baller Alert.com
For Women Who Want The Ballerific Life!
Hello You Owe Me $$$ Right?
Does anybody else have certain people in your life who always needs to borrow $$$$$ but can't pay you back? However, they are always traveling, shopping, have the lastest ish
So yesterday im talking to my co-worker and he is telling me how his bestfriend charged a $400 hotel room to his credit card. Basically she tries to check in to the hotel with her debit card, with the tax and sercurity hold included she doesn't have enough money. She calls him and ask him to place the $50 sercurity charge on his credit card, and she will pay him back asap. Her boyfriend and two other people stayed in that room too... Well this was a couple weeks ago and basically he ended up paying for the whole stay,and he has heard nothing from her regarding the $400 charge. He called left a voicemails, texts ect.
Then he goes on and tells me how this always happens. People borrow money and never pay him back yadda yadda. Then im like call her ass from a blocked number or from my phone (im angry). And he tells me that she is not working he doesn't feel like dealing with the drama. He says that she is alway bragging about what clothes she brought and gifts she buys her boyfriend:/
His story really hit close to home:
A few months ago my sister had to have the new Iphone, she called me saying all she needed is $100 and she would pay me back the next day. Then she calls saying that 'her acct is going to overdraft because she spent all her money'. Now she needs and additional $100, so im at work and I dont any cash so I give her one of my debit cards and I tell her just to drop it off the next day. Now by the graces of God i gave her the wrong pin number by mistake. So, she is going to the atm and its not working so eventually the bank puts a hold on my card. So I call my bank the next day, and they tell me that she tried to withdraw $300 the first time, $250 the second, then $150. Then she tried to use it at walmart and 7 eleven. Im like wtf I call her and cuss her ass out and her reason she did it is because she knows i have money and that she would pay me back eventually:/
To this day I never received my $100 plus other money owed which I lost count
But she has been traveling all year, has all new electronics and is planning on getting a new car
Replies to This Discussion
-
Permalink Reply by Chanel on -
Honestly I thought she was better than that, I'm not a naive person she just shocked me with that mess
OLD $PICE PINE NEEDLE said:I always wonder why people give their PIN and credit cards to family and friends??? Those are subject to abuse.
Chanel said:It wasn't the money it was the principle, if you ask for $100 why the hell are you trying to withdraw $300 never again. Im just like you now don't ask me for sh*t
Brii said:Sorry about your money... But hellll naw I don't loan money, you can't drive my car, and you can't stay more than 1 night at my house lol... You should have hit her with if you can't flat out buy it you don't need it
-
Permalink Reply by OLD $PICE PINE NEEDLE on -
People know 'who they can take advantage of' when it comes to money. That's why I'm hard when people ask to 'borrow' $$$. My money is my heart, it breaks when I give it and it's not returned. lol
University of Smitty said:Bottom line.
......and as for your friend, who in the hell loans money out so some broke muthaf**ka can lay up in a hotel room????? If he doesnt get his money back, it's his own fault for being stupid. He must have been trying to layaway some p***y and it backfired. lol
Brii said:Sorry about your money... But hellll naw I don't loan money, you can't drive my car, and you can't stay more than 1 night at my house lol... You should have hit her with if you can't flat out buy it you don't need it
-
Permalink Reply by Brii on -
Lmao
University of Smitty said:Bottom line.
......and as for your friend, who in the hell loans money out so some broke muthaf**ka can lay up in a hotel room????? If he doesnt get his money back, it's his own fault for being stupid. He must have been trying to layaway some p***y and it backfired. lol
Brii said:Sorry about your money... But hellll naw I don't loan money, you can't drive my car, and you can't stay more than 1 night at my house lol... You should have hit her with if you can't flat out buy it you don't need it
-
Permalink Reply by Chanel on
-
Yess!!!! I love this
OLD $PICE PINE NEEDLE said:All the money I've 'loaned' I don't expect it back and I'm good with that and all that is in the past.
Anyone who knows me now will always hear me say 'I don't have it'. People throw hints and I always change the subject. I've learned that if someone asks me for money they don't respect me and how hard I work for it. If they can easily ask me to borrow money that means they think I'm a pushover and they were turned down by someone else. If I don't enable them they will find creative ways to get their own money or live within their means.
I have a friend who recently quit her position 'because she just couldn't go on'. While I applaud her for listening to her gut, she throws hints that she needs this and that and she's not scared but something will come up. I just say 'you'll be ok' and change the subject and I don't 'offer to help'.
-
Permalink Reply by Chanel on
-
I can write a whole post on his weird ass. He is gay but straight i think he is trying to pass me off as his girl to family and friends. He gave a co-worker a couple hundred dollars and the dude never paid him, then he gets the same co-worker a managers position at another company making more $$$ and he still aint get his money. He said he loaned people thousands of dollars
University of Smitty said:Bottom line.
......and as for your friend, who in the hell loans money out so some broke muthaf**ka can lay up in a hotel room????? If he doesnt get his money back, it's his own fault for being stupid. He must have been trying to layaway some p***y and it backfired. lol
Brii said:Sorry about your money... But hellll naw I don't loan money, you can't drive my car, and you can't stay more than 1 night at my house lol... You should have hit her with if you can't flat out buy it you don't need it
-
Permalink Reply by OLD $PICE PINE NEEDLE on
-
Family, friend or foe ~ when it comes to YOUR MONEY, treat them all the same.
Chanel said:
Honestly I thought she was better than that, I'm not a naive person she just shocked me with that mess
OLD $PICE PINE NEEDLE said:I always wonder why people give their PIN and credit cards to family and friends??? Those are subject to abuse.
Chanel said:It wasn't the money it was the principle, if you ask for $100 why the hell are you trying to withdraw $300 never again. Im just like you now don't ask me for sh*t
Brii said:Sorry about your money... But hellll naw I don't loan money, you can't drive my car, and you can't stay more than 1 night at my house lol... You should have hit her with if you can't flat out buy it you don't need it
-
Permalink Reply by Chanel on
-
If I had to borrow money from somebody, I wouldn't be able to sleep until I paid that person back in full. I have to much pride. My thing is do people really forget that they owe people money? I guess they just dont give a damn. Because if somebody lent me $1 im going to remember that forever
-
Permalink Reply by CCD is Workin on a baller 4 she on -
Aw, honey, we all live and learn about lending money to people. I don't care what I am doing, I am broke everyday that ends in Y to anyone who asks. It took me a while to get there. When I took my first cruise, which had been my first real vacation in over 5 years, my sister called me up the day before asking to borrow money. I was like, my trip is paid for so all I have is a couple hundred (lies) for spending. She was like, that'll work. I was shocked. So I am supposed to go on my first cruise with no spending money so you can pay your car payment. Yeah, I guess you'll be walking because I'm not giving you a dime.
SN: The person you described is classic of this woman I know. Her motto use to be: Buy what you want and beg for what you need. She said she use to just buy whatever she wanted because she knew people would always help her with her needs. ie food, rent, other household bills. And she is right. When people tell you their lights are off in the winter you dig in your pocket feeling sorry for them until you see the new clothes they bought instead of paying their light bill. You bytch but you still help them out. I don't anymore.
-
Permalink Reply by University of Smitty on -
BINGO!!!!!
Chanel said:If I had to borrow money from somebody, I wouldn't be able to sleep until I paid that person back in full. I have to much pride. My thing is do people really forget that they owe people money? I guess they just dont give a damn. Because if somebody lent me $1 im going to remember that forever
-
Permalink Reply by OLD $PICE PINE NEEDLE on
-
x2
University of Smitty said:BINGO!!!!!
Chanel said:If I had to borrow money from somebody, I wouldn't be able to sleep until I paid that person back in full. I have to much pride. My thing is do people really forget that they owe people money? I guess they just dont give a damn. Because if somebody lent me $1 im going to remember that forever
-
Permalink Reply by Miss J.D. on -
I AM MY MAMA' S CHILD WITH HER HUGE HEART AND WILL DO WHAT I CAN FOR FAMILY AND ONE (ya'll hear me?) FRIEND, BUT HUBBY THE TOTAL OPPOSITE SHUTTING DOWN SOB STORIES WITH A QUICKNESS, HE DON'T GIVE A DAMN WHO IT IS (except his mama) OR WHAT THEY NEED! Sidenote: YEARS AGO I HAD A BFF WHO ENDED UP HAVING A BABY FROM A FUNCTIONING CRACKHEAD (he worked at the post office!) WHO STOLE HER STAMPS, WIC, ELECTRONICS FROM THE CRIB (and she still would not leave him!) SO EVERY WEEK I WOULD TROOP UPTOP (48th/Lenox) AND BUY ENOUGH SIMILAC ALIMENTUM (the crack messed the baby stomach up!) TO LAST THE WEEK 'TIL WE FELL OUT 'CAUSE SHE TOLD ME SHE WAS ACTUALLY CONSIDERING HIS REQUEST (is ya'll ready for this?) TO GIVE HIM HEAD WHILE HE BEAM UP 'CAUSE THAT IS HOW HE GOT DOWN IN THE SPOT WITH OTHER CHICKS SMOKING AND IT WOULD KEEP HIM AT HOME IF SHE DID IT! YES YA'LL.
-
Permalink Reply by PlaneJaneLane on -
The only person I will "loan" money to is my mother. And then I don't expect it back. My sisters, are on their own. I hate to be shady, but I have too many siblings to be sponsoring. I gotta do me.
- ‹ Previous
- 1
- 2
- 3
- Next ›
ADVERTISEMENT
Ballerific Events
-
MIA - Birdman & Rick Ross Host Story 5/23
May 23, 2013 at 10pm to May 24, 2013 at 5am – Story
0 Comments 0 Likes -
ATL - Erica Mena Hosts Vanquish Thursdays 5/23
May 23, 2013 at 10pm to May 24, 2013 at 3am – Vanquish
0 Comments 0 Likes
-
Scottsdale, AZ - Kevin McCall @ Revolver 5/24
May 24, 2013 at 10pm to May 25, 2013 at 2am – Revolver
0 Comments 0 Likes
-
Miami Memorial Day Weekend - Members Only Yacht Party 5/26
May 26, 2013 at 3:30pm to May 27, 2013 at 10pm – Bayside
0 Comments 1 Like
Connect
 |
 |
 |
 |
 |
 |
BallerBoards
The sexiest 2013 NBA draft prospect
Started by AML in Talk Ish. Last reply by EmpressSoDivine 2 minutes ago. 1 Reply 0 Likes
I think Trey Burke takes the cake.He was the star point guard for the University of Michigan.He's only 21. His instagram is @tr3yburke I noticed he follows back any pretty girl that comments his pic…Continue
why do black people have pathetic web sites like this
Started by kunta kinte in Talk Ish. Last reply by Insatiable Cookie P 28 minutes ago. 19 Replies 0 Likes
Just curious. What do black people have against working for wealth ? Why do they have to marry someone with money, and steal it from them.Continue
So We Aint Gon Say Nothing About This???
Started by Dragon Slayer Puss in Talk Ish. Last reply by Kharysma 33 minutes ago. 8 Replies 0 Likes
LMAO....I just CAN'T! Continue
Oxymoron: Wack Dack
Started by Kharysma in Talk Ish. Last reply by Kharysma 34 minutes ago. 13 Replies 1 Like
Y'all I am livid! My world is upside down! How can what used to be do good feel so bad? Ugh! I am lying next to a fine piece. This ninja got a lick-me allover body that's chiseled to perfection;…Continue
GLAM TV
Latest Activity
- Top News
- Everything
Nat Black Luv commented on Eleven8's blog post Do You Prefer To Date A Man Who's Been Divorced Or One That's Never Been Married?
Eleven8 commented on Eleven8's blog post Is Dallas Cowboys Dez Bryant Creeping With Two Chicks At The Same Time?"Since yall asked here is the first girls instagram http://instagram.com/BHooks89 and her…"
AML posted a discussionThe sexiest 2013 NBA draft prospect
I think Trey Burke takes the cake.He was the star point guard for the University of Michigan.He's…See More
EmpressSoDivine liked Eleven8's event Las Vegas - Memorial Day Wknd - Floyd Mayweather Hosts Rain Nightclub 5/24
Insatiable Cookie P replied to kunta kinte's discussion why do black people have pathetic web sites like this"We don't have any problem with working for wealth , but we do have problem with people who are…"
Kharysma replied to kunta kinte's discussion why do black people have pathetic web sites like this"Seems someone just wanted attention. The site must be something quite special for this individual…"
Kharysma replied to Dragon Slayer Puss's discussion So We Aint Gon Say Nothing About This???"THAT IS HIS PRINCE LOOKING SHOE
!!!
"
Oneandonly commented on Eleven8's blog post Is Dallas Cowboys Dez Bryant Creeping With Two Chicks At The Same Time?"Random:: it's refreshing to see a black girl without weave and her real hair (1st girl)... If…"
Oneandonly commented on Eleven8's blog post Is Dallas Cowboys Dez Bryant Creeping With Two Chicks At The Same Time?"I spy a Coach scarf smh"
© 2013 Created by Baller Alert.
