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I am in a situation to where I would like to know your opinions as to what would you do.
I am currently talking to an entrepreneur in Miami (Mr. MIA) that I met online at a sugarbaby/sugardaddy website. Btw, I am in Dallas which he and I are busy with our schedules and have yet to meet in person since we've been talking for almost a month now. It would be texts, phone calls, and skype for us to communicate yet we have yet to meet up. So, at this point, I have slightly become bored with having to "wait" until he is free to meet up since school is almost over for me yet working 5 days a motherlovin' week!
While at startbucks about three weeks ago, I met another guy (Mr. SMU) who was a sweetheart and allowed me to sit with him since we both needed an outlet for our computer to charge. As we talked, we had great conversations and exchange numbers. I just wanted to be friends with him as I was not attractive to him physically but liked how he has an amazing personality. Then, he would flirt with me in text messages that were slightly annoying to me because I felt like he was coming on TOO STRONG. So, I would inform him about it and he would say how he was intrigued by my personality and physical appearance.
Now that I see that he is really interested in dating me (according to him, he wants to be my "boo"), I am not ready to dating him or anything of the sort. If anything, I would rather take them dollars in the pockets without no sex at ALLLLL because I am not feeling the body nor face...=P Mr. SMU claims he is a self made millionaire and has a house in the boondocks (0_0) outside of Dallas where he hunts yet he works a 9-5 type job with GREAT benefits and claims he is only working to put towards his retirement plan besides what he already has in store and to keep him "busy".
Ladies, would you say to make an "investment" with Mr. SMU, give up on Mr.MIA since his ass always be at almost every Heat game since I have talked to him and also seen him on tv(he sits behind the team with his daughter), keep both dudes, or what?
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Permalink Reply by Still Pretty V on -
Keep both.... if u looking for money not a relationship get ur money!! Mr. Mia gon cash out anyway cuz that's what them sites r about... have fun!!
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Permalink Reply by l8dy-c on -
You have nothing to worry about. Don't panic.Doesn't it usually almost always turnout this.Look into your heart and try to discover your true feelings before making such a big decision. It make take sometime. So in the meantime, have fun with both of them.
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Permalink Reply by mavsbabe41 on -
Thank you ladies for your opinions. I do plan to keep both and see how things go from here.
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Permalink Reply by mavsbabe41 on
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When I say "keep", I am saying "deal with" or "willingto put up with". It is bad wording on my end, I admit. Perhaps, that is what the ladies mean too.
FT said:How does one keep someone they never actually met?
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Permalink Reply by Nene2 on -
~it's all fun and for long term return either way "of course depending"... keep both!
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Permalink Reply by FT on -
Oh ok. Well I guess I'm in the minority because I say you should make a choice.
mavsbabe41 said:When I say "keep", I am saying "deal with" or "willingto put up with". It is bad wording on my end, I admit. Perhaps, that is what the ladies mean too.
FT said:How does one keep someone they never actually met?
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Permalink Reply by Phoenix on -
You're single. No need to make a choice. I'm sure you're neither one of their ONLY GIRL. So you don't choose either. Split your time evenly and hell, grab a third for your collection. You're single. As long as there's no stress. Do you boo boo!
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Permalink Reply by ATown SouthernGal on -
Girl- he's probably at the game with his other sugar baby not his daughter but a baller should/would have been flew you out. Are you the one saying you can't when he offers? If you are not getting anything out of it but Skype (which I personally wouldn't do more than once) then move on to the next. Old men know they have to pay to play, hell even young men know.
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Permalink Reply by Siren on -
My great Auntie told me to keep a spare and a pair until iw as committed... so keep these two and go get one more to throw into the equation. You are young you should be dating for fun.
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