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I'm in a sticky situation... and I wanna know what would yall do.
So about a week ago a random NFL player followed me on twitter so I was like alright.. lemme see what he's working with and I followed him back. I really wasn't feeling him at first .. his pictures weren't too appealing lol and I asked him to send a picture to my phone and he sends me one of those pictures with his chest all greased up with open button shirt.. like one of them old usher CD covers. I don't like that if I ask you to send me a picture of yourself send me one of yourself fully clothed! but anyway back to the point.. So we're gonna call this baller Billy Joe lol .. so basically yesterday I was running late for work and Billy Joe offered to pick me up after practice to take me to work ...and afterwards he picked me up again and I spent the night because he had practice in the morning and it was just too late to take me back to my campus.
One of the valuable lessons I learned on BA is DON'T GIVE UP THE COOKIES easily .. hold out as long as possible.. get as much I can out of him & blah blah blah .. besides the fact that I wasn't sexually attracted to him.. I told him straight up I'm not trying to have sex, i feel like if you want this you're gonna have to EARN IT! He said it's not a big deal but he kept doing little things like pushing up on me on the bed and stuff.. but I ain't let it get far because I was very serious about the whole earning thing and he was really surprised.
So the next day ( today ) when he came back from practice while we were in bed he was like oh you should get a friend for my teammate ( yall I'm thinking we're talking about a teammate who prob ain't s*** and blah ) So I was like alright what is he looking for blah blah blah...and he was like he's just looking for companionship so I was like well who is he and he goes ( thinks of a name ) Simon then shows me a picture...
thats when my face got so still... cause LAST WEEK at my job Champs had an event and they had some athletes come in to talk to the kids about football, chasing their dreams & what not. I noticed Simon from the jump and I thought he was so cute and we made eye contact a couple of times but I wasn't able to get to talk to him after the event because unfortunately I had to go to work lol...
So I'm just like quiet.. Now back to Billy Joe ..When we were leaving his condo i go Idk if your roommate is still here but tell him I said bye .. I don't want him to think I'm disrespectful by leaving w/o saying bye ..yall tell me how Billy Joe goes You don't talk to anyone here but me.. so I instantly got like turned off again. Now while we were riding back to my university he starts talking about Simon and how the car we're riding in is his car and he got it for free ...and how he got this ..that .. this ..and that too. and i'm just ..-___-
My thing is I wanted to talk to Simon since i saw him but I got sidetrack because of school & work...I find it crazy how Billy Joe brought him up and wants me to hook my friend up..and I kinda sorta don't want to because I feel like Simon is a better baller than Billy Joe.. IDK i'm just .. puzzled - idk what to do..
What would you do?
**UPDATE** I finally figured out how he "found me" .. He claimed he doesn't remember but... it was recently .. when he followed me so I wasn't hearing that BS... but anyway.. I found the connection.. apparently I was tweeting his friend... ( flirtatiously too )he saw me on his timeline and followed me .. esp because i'm in his area....he wanted something near him..something he can smash... that slick muthafucka .. now i don't feel bad about simon.
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Permalink Reply by Nala on -
Yes, I figured to keep it a 100% honest and real with him... I hope everything works out for both of us.
michele A said:oh wow...man now that is a story..i think you should go for who you are interested in, no need in bullshitting when you really do not like the person ya know..just be careful
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Permalink Reply by Dragon Slayer Puss on
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IMO I guess it depends on what u want from either baller. what do u want?
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Permalink Reply by Nala on
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LOL what does IMO mean? lol .. and honestly girl.. I want simon ... I want Simon to myself.. I'm not really feeling billy joe ...I just don't know how to do it.
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Permalink Reply by Bonita on -
Forget about trying to get with Simon now.. coz Billy Joe will def do everything he can to spoil it for you. Billy Joe does sound ugly and has a complex..hahah
Something just came to mind can you get one of your friends to pursue Billy instead of Simon pull a switcharu it may work.
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Permalink Reply by Tone © on -
Stick with the guy you don't like you will get more from him then a guy you like.
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Permalink Reply by Nala on
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THATS WHAT I WAS PLANNING TO DO!! lol
Bonita said:Forget about trying to get with Simon now.. coz Billy Joe will def do everything he can to spoil it for you. Billy Joe does sound ugly and has a complex..hahah
Something just came to mind can you get one of your friends to pursue Billy instead of Simon pull a switcharu it may work.
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Permalink Reply by Nala on
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I'm gonna use him to get to simon... So I get to learn about him better and see if he remembers me...I gotta play it smart... Hopefully Simon connects with me.. and Billy Joe connects with my friend...I just gotta be patient with this one
Tone said:Stick with the guy you don't like you will get more from him then a guy you like.
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Permalink Reply by Tone © on
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good luck
Nala said:I'm gonna use him to get to simon... So I get to learn about him better and see if he remembers me...I gotta play it smart... Hopefully Simon connects with me.. and Billy Joe connects with my friend...I just gotta be patient with this one
Tone said:Stick with the guy you don't like you will get more from him then a guy you like.
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Permalink Reply by Bonita on
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Gurl that maybe risky coz u can be pegged as Billy's gurl (off-limits)or chick who gets passed around (groupie).
Tone said:
good luck
Nala said:I'm gonna use him to get to simon... So I get to learn about him better and see if he remembers me...I gotta play it smart... Hopefully Simon connects with me.. and Billy Joe connects with my friend...I just gotta be patient with this one
Tone said:Stick with the guy you don't like you will get more from him then a guy you like.
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Permalink Reply by Nala on
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Well I just got of the phone with Billy Joe... and I told him about how i felt about things... so prevent that off limits s***. lol but i did tell him my girlfriend is interested in your homie so dont set her up for failure now.. so ima see what type of nigga he is... and see if he's still gonna do this hook up lol
Bonita said:Gurl that maybe risky coz u can be pegged as Billy's gurl (off-limits)or chick who gets passed around (groupie).
Tone said:
good luck
Nala said:I'm gonna use him to get to simon... So I get to learn about him better and see if he remembers me...I gotta play it smart... Hopefully Simon connects with me.. and Billy Joe connects with my friend...I just gotta be patient with this one
Tone said:Stick with the guy you don't like you will get more from him then a guy you like.
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Permalink Reply by MS. UCAN NEVA GET ENUFF!! on -
Girl, you just kilt that....you should've at least hung out with him a few more times, to develop some type of "friendship" with Simon. He ain't going to hook your friend up cuz he knws how you feel about him - its best (for them) to have 2 friends that roll together. But you can always let your girl knw whats up, if she's ur girl, tell Billy yall can all go out together just so she will feel comfortable, then take it from there. Go somewhere like a bar/club -go to the bathroom, tell your girl to dance up on him while ur gone , then you can talk with Simon and it want look so shady.
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Lol TONE. I agree with him tho. Stick with the one that likes u. He will be way more likely to go out of his way to keep you interested. I asked the question of what you wanted because if you want to have fun, chill, maybe do restaurants or lite gifts then just tell bob that u want simon. Of course sex will be somewhere in the mix, but at least u were honest and when bob starts hatin a callin u a hoe, u will have expected it. Im with bonita that if u want anything serious and outside of casual sex, you'd be better to hang it up with simon and just meet a new baller. U meet them often so there is no need to mess up your rep over friends/roomates. The fact that u laid with bob, imo, will not allow simon to ever take u seriously and pursuing that will appear sort of skanky. Even if u send ur friend on bob, it still seems like the perfect set up for casual sex and plaything arrangements, but that's just my opinion. I say be friends with the both of them and catch a new one. Also, even tho u are not actually f*****, don't be laid up in random beds. When men get to talking, it never looks good for the girl and will seldom produce a quality outcome.
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