I was a virgin when I got married, so I have no one to compare my husband to. For the past 6 years, I have believed his excuses about his stamina. He says a man's penis is just like a muscle and when u don't have sex often enough, you can't last long. That made sense and seeing how we only had sex once a week, I believed him. Ok, now that I'm 30, I think I'm really started to reach peak and I want sex more frequently. I swear it takes him 2 minutes to come. This isnt normal, right? He still tells me we're not having sex enough and says he doesn't have a problem. Thankfully, his head game and finger game is on point or I think I might lose it.  What's the average time it should take for a man to come?

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*correction - I was a virgin when I met my husband. We had sex 4 or 5 times before we were married.
It really depends on how good the p**** is. Great p**** you can make a brother come in 2 min. Good p**** 7-8 min ok p**** 14- 18.

My recommendation watch 7days of sex on Lifetime- last week's episode had a couple with this exact problem and I think it will help you. On the show they said avg was 7-10 mins as well.

 

If you have ON DEMAND watch all 6 episodes

2 minutes is about right......that's why women invented foreplay  lol

So, you're saying a man can't last longer than 5-6 mins. if the pu*** is great?  Hmmm...after 2 kids, I think it's still good, but I don't know about great. lol


Tone said:
It really depends on how good the p**** is. Great p**** you can make a brother come in 2 min. Good p**** 7-8 min ok p**** 14- 18.
Thanks for the recommendation. I actually recorded a few episodes, but I haven't had a chance to watch them yet.

Bonita said:

My recommendation watch 7days of sex on Lifetime- last week's episode had a couple with this exact problem and I think it will help you. On the show they said avg was 7-10 mins as well.

 

If you have ON DEMAND watch all 6 episodes

Seriously??? Then, what makes a man good in bed? I've been hoping for so much more, but I suppose my expectations are a bit unrealistic. Has 2 mins. really been your experience?

University of Smitty said:

2 minutes is about right......that's why women invented foreplay  lol

Pretty much.   Every once in a while when they're under the influence (alcohol, viagra) it's longer but then I get tired of it after 15 minutes.  I pretty much get mine first, during forepaly.  That takes about 12-13 minutes and then he gets his 2 minutes.  Give it another 3 minutes and we're both out cold ...lol 
 
BallerMom said:

Seriously??? Then, what makes a man good in bed? I've been hoping for so much more, but I suppose my expectations are a bit unrealistic. Has 2 mins. really been your experience?

University of Smitty said:

2 minutes is about right......that's why women invented foreplay  lol

No I'm saying it not strange if that happens. You're 30 you are reaching your sexual peak you are going to want to f*** all day. A man at 30 still likes to f*** but not like we did at 18

BallerMom said:

So, you're saying a man can't last longer than 5-6 mins. if the pu*** is great?  Hmmm...after 2 kids, I think it's still good, but I don't know about great. lol


Tone said:
It really depends on how good the p**** is. Great p**** you can make a brother come in 2 min. Good p**** 7-8 min ok p**** 14- 18.

Do you have orgasms?  Cause that's the bottom line.........regardless of how long it takes to get there

He doesnt know what he's talking about    ....at 30, women learn where the point is and how to get straight to it.   
 
Tone said:

No I'm saying it not strange if that happens. You're 30 you are reaching your sexual peak you are going to want to f*** all day. A man at 30 still likes to f*** but not like we did at 18

BallerMom said:

So, you're saying a man can't last longer than 5-6 mins. if the pu*** is great?  Hmmm...after 2 kids, I think it's still good, but I don't know about great. lol


Tone said:
It really depends on how good the p**** is. Great p**** you can make a brother come in 2 min. Good p**** 7-8 min ok p**** 14- 18.

 Smitty you are my fav poster


University of Smitty said:

He doesnt know what he's talking about    ....at 30, women learn where the point is and how to get straight to it.   
 
Tone said:

No I'm saying it not strange if that happens. You're 30 you are reaching your sexual peak you are going to want to f*** all day. A man at 30 still likes to f*** but not like we did at 18

BallerMom said:

So, you're saying a man can't last longer than 5-6 mins. if the pu*** is great?  Hmmm...after 2 kids, I think it's still good, but I don't know about great. lol


Tone said:
It really depends on how good the p**** is. Great p**** you can make a brother come in 2 min. Good p**** 7-8 min ok p**** 14- 18.

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