HIS THINGY is BIG & SMALL??

So I've been dating this cool ass brotha for about a month now and this past weekend I'm over at his place and its time for us to get to doin the do for the first time, you know - SEX! So we're in his bedroom and begin undressing and I notice that his package is rather small to say the least, like 3 inches! It was flaccid though so I though maybe his erected dick would be better. and YES IT WAS! After a lil kissing and touching i made my way down there and grabbed a now larger dick to my delight! about a 7 incher! Now some of y'all might say that's only an average dick but it was much better than what I initially saw. you feel me? The sex was great also I might add! But that visual when he's soft is still stuck in my mind. Have y'all encountered this type of dick often? Are you cool with it as long as his pipe game is good? Now I know most men have a bigger erect penis than a softy but have you experienced this drastic difference with the men you've been with ?? He's the third man I've ever been with.