For Women Who Want The Ballerific Life!
HAPPY BIRTHDAY TRACY!!!! Congrats on the baby (I'm going to claim it for you). I understand those who have said children need both parents, but sometimes the other parent can do more harm than good (*speaking form experience*) especially when he (or she) doesn't WANT to be there. I pray that everything goes wonderfully during the entire process, you "sound" so calm right now, I would be freaking the HELL OUT (but don't you do that, LOL) Again CONGRATS!!!!
Happy B-day and Good Luck!!!!!!!
and FTR I just want to add that everyone I know thinks their parent/parents screwed them up in some way, shape or form. There is no such thing as a perfect parent or family. Even if you are the perfect mother, trust and believe your kid will find something to complain about...lol Just put your best foot forward and hopefully, one day your precious little ingrate will appreciate it
Goodluck Sweety and Happy Bday! You said you were bloated because of the egg(s)...How many do u have? Did they have u take hormones so u can have more than one egg this month? What if you have multiple babies, would you still be as happy?
Tracy, if insemination doesn't work for you and you still want to be a parent, please do not rule out adoption. There are so many beautiful babies and children who need a loving, permanent home.
Why not? If you are a black woman there's a 72% chance your kid is bring born out if wedlock anyways!
I think it's great you are starting your own family or better yet recreating your own family!
At least there will be no baby daddy drama and it will be easier to explain to a kid "mommy wanted you really bad" vs trying to explain why the father isn't present. Less hassle! I hope you have a girl.
Just don't be like this lady I know who spent well over 30k to get her child and now she suffers from all types of issues! She had mental issues and passed them right on to the kid. She use to tell me she couldn't be a full time parent & I would hit her with the blank stare look. Like bish you paid some ppl's yearly salary to get this kid, you better hush! Lol
Candy said:I don't see why anyone would willing want to be a single parent? But it is your decision and yours alone so we can do nothing but respect it. Good luck to you. Wish you the best.
The shots they give you are to stimulate follicle growth. Normally, one follicle matures and drops each month, the hormones stimulate multiple follicles to grow and once they reach a nice size you take another shot to simulate ovulation and the retrieval is timed for an hour or so before said ovulation would take place. Yesterday's count was 7-9 sizable follicles on each side.
As I'm 40 (WHOOOO HOOOOOOO) they will probably recommend 2-3 eggs to be transferred back.
Twins, I would welcome - I never wanted an only child and especially under the circumstances. Triplets or higher - I can't even FATHOM.
Hate my Ex said:Goodluck Sweety and Happy Bday! You said you were bloated because of the egg(s)...How many do u have? Did they have u take hormones so u can have more than one egg this month? What if you have multiple babies, would you still be as happy?