Do you ladies really want honesty all the time every time. Or do sometimes you prefer to be lied to so your feelings can be spared

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all women say they want the truth...however at times everyone needs to be lied to

Everyone says they want honesty but very few can handle the truth. I'm the type of person that would prefer being upset for an hour or two because you told me the truth over being upset/distrusting for the rest of our relationship/friendship because you lied to me... Now, I do believe there are some things I'd rather not know but if I ask you about it or it comes up, tell me the truth.

Sometimes things should just be left in the dark. With me i don't want to know a woman past as long as i know she is Std free i rather not know what she did.

DB said:

Everyone says they want honesty but very few can handle the truth. I'm the type of person that would prefer being upset for an hour or two because you told me the truth over being upset/distrusting for the rest of our relationship/friendship because you lied to me... Now, I do believe there are some things I'd rather not know but if I ask you about it or it comes up, tell me the truth.

I agree! There are times when you need to hear that lie to spare your feeling like "hey do u think I fat in that dress?" Please don't say yes say something like try this other dress think it will be better for where we are going. 

I can't stand people who tell silly small lies..those can really not be trusted because they can't help it and don't know when its okay to say the truth

blackfujones said:

all women say they want the truth...however at times everyone needs to be lied to

Usually men tell the truth when they are mad or drunk or just straight up dont'give 2 s**** about you. Once you women with low self esteem (LSE)hear the truth you either deny it or act like IRS not really being said. Basically just hearing what you wanna hear.

Well said! :)

DdoubleD said:

I like to be told the truth, but I like to hear someone tell me nicely.  It's not what you say, it's how you say! 

Tone said:

women love to be told lies that is why most of them don't like me because i tell the truth.

I cant stand liars be they male/female/friend/family/foe

Always be honest with me. Lying will probably get you shot depending on what you are lying about. IJS

+1

DB said:

Everyone says they want honesty but very few can handle the truth. I'm the type of person that would prefer being upset for an hour or two because you told me the truth over being upset/distrusting for the rest of our relationship/friendship because you lied to me... Now, I do believe there are some things I'd rather not know but if I ask you about it or it comes up, tell me the truth.
Lmao at Cc Haha uh idk if I ask you a question I wanna know the truth period.

I wanna know the truth too. Once I hear that lil lie, I'm like damn......wtf else is gon be a "lil" surprise? By that time, i'm on my way out the door.

I would have to say it depends on the situation. I lie to men to spare their feelings. Example I was out on a date last weekend and a guy that I know likes me called. I told him I was out with a few friends. It wasn't a lie more of an admission. So minor things like that but if you got a chick preggers or something that will affect our future together tell me. GIve me the option to decide if I want to continue dealing with whatever it is.   

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