Miss Stress

HOW CAN U TELL IF A GUY IS REALLY BALLING? CANT JUDGE A BOOK BY ITS COVER

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I MET A GUY ONE DAY @ A CLUB. I WAS GETTING A DRINK FROM THE BAR WHEN HE APPROACHED ME. I IMMEDIATELY TURNED MY NOSE UP BC HE LOOKED A LIL SCRUFFY!LOL... TO MAKE A LONG STORY SHORT I BRUSHED HIM OFF TO THE POINT WHERE I DIDNT EVEN ACCEPT A DRINK FROM HIM! HE OVERHEARD A FRIEND OF MINES CALL ME BY MY NAME ..SO HE WROTE HIS NUMBER ON A HUNDRED DOLLAR BILL AND GAVE IT TO MY FRIEND,THEN HE BEGGED HER TO PUT IN A GOOD WORD FOR HIM! OH PLEASE BELIEVE I TOOK HIS MONEY..LOL! WHY NOT! BUT I ACTUALLY WAITED A WEEK TO CALL HIM! LETS JUST SAY HE NEARLY DROPPED THE PHONE WHEN I FINALLY CALLED HIM. HE TOLD ME THAT HE WAS WAITING FOR ME TO CALL AND HE FELT LIKE A FOOL BC HE USUALLY DONT GO THROUGH ALL OF THAT TO GET TO KNOW ANY FEMALE! THEN HE TOLD ME THAT HE WAS @ THE ALLSTAR GAME IN CALI AND HE WANTED ME TO FLY OUT THERE TO BE BY HIS SIDE! IM GONNA ADMIT IT WAS TEMPTING BUT I DECLINED BC I DIDNT WANT HIM TO GET THE WRONG IMPRESSION! I LET HIM DOWN EZ BY EXPLAINING TO HIM THAT I WAS BZ WIT SCHOOL PLUS I HAD A TODDLER AT THE TIME AND THE TIMING WAS OFF! HE TOLD ME THAT HE RESPECTED THAT AND CAME HOME WITH ALL TONS OF GIFTS FOR ME AND MY SON! WOW... A MONTH LATER I HAD MY OWN CONDO, NEW CAR AND MY TUTION PAID! CANT JUDGE A BOOK BY ITS COVER.......



Wow.... I never imagined that this post would blow up! Im jus so use to surrounding myself with those who know me and respect me so....me sharing my story makes me flabergasted to know that
there are people who are out there that can actually judge u in such a way without even knowing you! I take none of this personal and personally like once said this is a hobby! I deeply apologize to those who may be affended by such bc u wouldnt kno or even have an idea! Those who have never been exposed cant relate and now I see that!


LMAO...... What is this follow the leader? One person diasagree's now here goes the neighborhood! As i said b4 everything said was authentic! Nothing was said to create drama, brag or offend the next chic! This story wasnt even meant to be blown out of porportion like it has been! Also as i once stated If u know me u will definately know that everything brought up is Real! Who is here trying to be somethin that they are not? Im sure that there are plenty of chics that are on here for that! Basically Im here for friends and not enemies! All i did is post a damn discussion and now iam the bad guy! I am constantly judged by those who do know me so it just sucks to know that those that i try to share my story with can judge me so quiclky! I have a long history with this person and clearly i posted my real photo to prove that everything is Positive! I never kiss and tell so Im sure he wishes to remain anonymous. Wink Wnk! Everything can be proven but i feel like what is the need?! After hearing all of the negative responses i read the story over and over to see if it really sounds that impossible and came up with nothing! Not here to start up any discrepencies just tryna be me!

Besides....everyone assumed that was my house and my car and that he paid a four year tution! LOL! It was only a couple semesters, I never named a PARTICULAR car! I left it completely OPEN and every body just ran with it! Where did a PHD come into play?! I never said that! I have a Degree In Business! Who said DOCTORATE? LOL... Read the story and its entirety, and not someones elses comments b4 u respond!

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Hmmm, in only a month huh??
U know, I have to be honest with ya...Tell the truth, most of us on here are not teenagers or novices so sweetheart something's not right about this story as other BA ladies would say: "something in the milk aint right" ...I'm not saying your story/ dream is impossible. Alls I'm saying is that is way over the top.

But yeah, I agree. You can't judge a book by it's cover... I for one don't like flashy type men. I like the low key, secure, types. So the average flashy baller would not get my attention right away - unless he is super fine, and he is on my to do list LOL. j/k

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Damn Ishtar .... Lol !!!

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What did you do in that month to receive a condo, car and tuition paid? You gave him your address even though you didn't go on the trip he offered? He is a great man!

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*SSE*

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What is SSE?

**L0vieD0vie** said:
*SSE*

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*Sasha Side Eye* check BA's lexicon post for the definition

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When u r on top of your game and u got something that another person want! The sky is da limit! Plus when u r a baller it aint nothing for them to drop a couple! So in this case nothing is impossible! Besides im far from an imbellisher. Yet Of course there is a twist to the story but i chose to leave it out bc that would just be a bit much and there are ppl on the site that are familiar with the situation. To give a hint what baller you know that will just jump the jet to do those things if there wasnt a twist "Wink Wink"! Its called "Hush $"! Just to let u know sweetheart everything posted it is definetely "Authentic"! "GOOGLE ME BABY".....

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Miss Stress, just a word of advice: you cant leave out a key part of any story on BA, because the BA detectives will come for your ass! Someone will be quick to call bullshit...just keep that in mind for future "stories." Lol!!!

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Girl me either. I don't like flashy men...so I don't necessarily judge a book by it's cover...Flashy ballers tend to turn me off...You don't have to wear the cost of a house around your neck, coupled with other flashy jewelry. That won't make you look any better to me...If anything, it will attract some real skeezers...lol

Ishtar said:
Hmmm, in only a month huh??
U know, I have to be honest with ya...Tell the truth, most of us on here are not teenagers or novices so sweetheart something's not right about this story as other BA ladies would say: "something in the milk aint right" ...I'm not saying your story/ dream is impossible. Alls I'm saying is that is way over the top.

But yeah, I agree. You can't judge a book by it's cover... I for one don't like flashy type men. I like the low key, secure, types. So the average flashy baller would not get my attention right away - unless he is super fine, and he is on my to do list LOL. j/k

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LOL @"Google me baby" well if nothing else, you definitely been around ballers 'cause the young azz ballers love to say that ish...LOL.

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Flashy ballers f*ck up the game because the true ballers that I know do everything they possibly can to NOT let everybody know how hard they are Balling !!!!

Damnstraight said:
Girl me either. I don't like flashy men...so I don't necessarily judge a book by it's cover...Flashy ballers tend to turn me off...You don't have to wear the cost of a house around your neck, coupled with other flashy jewelry. That won't make you look any better to me...If anything, it will attract some real skeezers...lol

Ishtar said:
Hmmm, in only a month huh??
U know, I have to be honest with ya...Tell the truth, most of us on here are not teenagers or novices so sweetheart something's not right about this story as other BA ladies would say: "something in the milk aint right" ...I'm not saying your story/ dream is impossible. Alls I'm saying is that is way over the top.

But yeah, I agree. You can't judge a book by it's cover... I for one don't like flashy type men. I like the low key, secure, types. So the average flashy baller would not get my attention right away - unless he is super fine, and he is on my to do list LOL. j/k

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Wow...

Anywho, I'm looking for dude (a specific one) in Philly can you find him for me??????

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