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How do you get over your superstar ex-boyfriend?
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My ex-boyfriend is having a great season in the NFL...and it's taking every thing in me not to hate on him! We dated his last season of college ball. Everything was great...until the season started. He was completely disrespectful to me on more than one occasion. But all of my homegirls would say, "Just stick with him. He'll be in the league soon...Do you know how many girls wish they could be with him?!" But the disrespect became to much for me, so I broke up with him a few months before the draft. We didn't talk for months after that (we were both busy, me with school, and of course he had football). Well, he did go to the league...a second round draft pick! I knew he was a superstar, so I knew he was a guaranteed draft pick. I wasn't mad about it and I didn't regret breaking up with him. I swore I would never let him back in my life...A few months after he was drafted, he IM'd me, and we started back talking. Time had healed a lot of wounds, and we were slowly becoming friends again...But then he f**ked me over again (long story), and I knew I had to remove him from my life for good. But it seems like every time he f**ks me over, his life becomes even better! (The last time he f**ked me over, that same week he had the best game of his season and won some community service award!). How could so many ppl praise him when he is such a terrible person?!...I really just want to get over him! I've stopped watching his games and have cut off all lines of communication. But it feels like the more I hate him, the more the world rewards him! I don't care how much money he has, I just want to let him go! How do I get over him?!
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Permalink Reply by Siren on -
The best revenge is to find your own success and make yourself happy! You sound young and you have the rest of your life ahead of you! Put yourself and your happiness first.
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Permalink Reply by she-who-rocks on -
Let him go, just let him be. You have already begun with cuttin ghim off, and while right now it seems the worse he treats you the better his life is, you have no idea what is waiting down the road for him.
you know you deserve to be treated well and you are demanding it. Be the one that got away! It will catch him later, you may not know when it happens, you may not see it, but it will catch back up.
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Permalink Reply by Bru on -
I feel you girl,, the NFL baller I dated is loved by a lot of people and he really does seem like a great guy. he's done some terrible stuff but so do a lot of people. you've just gotta believe in karma, and if you guys are meant to come back together he'll come around and make things right. Im not over mine either though so there I cant help you. Just take comfort in the fact that what goes around always comes around.
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Permalink Reply by Ishtar on -
Although I sympathize with you, there is so much negative energy in your thoughts. We don't know specifics and really don't need to, however, while you're speaking about Karma coming back on him; & it may or maynot. LIfe is not always that black and white. Karma doesn't always go tick for tack as many believe, and it doesn't work at our command. If it is his destiny to be a "famous" then neither you nor anyone can stop that... I'm sorry you have a broken heart, but is not the end of the world. You may get a few more before your journey is over sweetie. Is part of life, living and loving... Don't wish him wrong because he did you wrong, we don't win it all- try to win most, can't win all... Chalk it us as a loss chica and keep it moving.
You should become more concern with your thoughts and the energy your are sending out.... It may not be easy to move on, but you have to. I'm sure that heavy energy is physically and psychologically draining you. You have to release it. Do it for you. Good luck.
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Permalink Reply by SPICE on -
Fame isn't always what it's cracked up to be. His carefully crafted public image is his job to maintain his status, it is the life he has chosen. Chalk it up to a learning experience (what doesn't kill you makes you stronger).
Don't be blinded by his super star status, nothing lasts for ever. Wish him well and move on. There are many good men out there, he will come when you least expect it.
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Permalink Reply by Bri83 on -
This is a familiar situation to me, I have learned to just wish people the best, and move on. Karma is a bitch, and trust me, all those terrible things he has done to you, will come back to him, maybe even worse. But, dont spend too much time dwelling on the past, and what could have been. Focus on something else, and that will take your mind off of him. Fame is good for the moment, but it dont last long, and just think about the fact that he is "frontin' for the cameras," you know who he really is!
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Permalink Reply by LaYlah on -
Ya'll still speak?
You stupid...gon let another groupie snatch em' up smh
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Permalink Reply by babydoll on -
LMAO!!!! WTF is wrong with you?!?!?!? AAAAAHHHHHH!!!!!
We trying to be uplifting and here YOU come!!!! LMFAO!!!!!
LaYlah said:Ya'll still speak?
You stupid...gon let another groupie snatch em' up smh
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Permalink Reply by Denise on -
You are so stupid...lol
LaYlah said:Ya'll still speak?
You stupid...gon let another groupie snatch em' up smh
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Permalink Reply by The real vixxen on -
Girl one day ull come to a point where u won't wish bad or good upon him u just won't care about him. Keep working on yourself and striving the best for you. And if he is a bad person he will b exposed . Prime ex Lerpes :)
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