How open and honest about sex are you with someone you're ready to get down with?

First things first folks I believe in sex before marriage.  Sorry to say but I like to sample the goods before I purchase. With that said I believe sex is a HUGE part in a relationship (all pends on the relationship however).  And I'm a big believer in being as honest as freaking possible about your likes/dislikes in the bedroom.  One of my favorite questions is "how far are you willing to go", because lets face it.  Not all of us are sexually compatible (we just aren't).  Now I've been around some who'll say "they can suck a golfball through a garden hose) but when it comes down to it they'll say they only do that around xmas and easter (wtf)....And ladies I'm thinking about yall to. I have plenty of friends who say they have a damn "time limit" on how long they'll lick the kitty..(wheretheydothatat?)

 

So how open and honest are you.

 

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definitely no h***...maybe its me being with women who are bi or lesbians but that s*** dont excite me....been there done that.

Phoenix said:

I have a toy box. And I tell my (future) partner that normally my toys are for me and me only. 

However, there are a few instances where I will pull them out with a partner. And I expect him to understand.

 

 

Btw, no h***. lol

Lmao :D



Ms. Ashley Banks said:

Mostly one cheeseburger away fat, then one outright obese. I like big dudes, even in junior high and high school I was a chubby chaser. I have a thing for ex-football players and dudes with big necks.

 

blackfujones said:

fat ex-boyfriend? like super duper fat...chubby fat...or one cheeseburger away fat
Ms. Ashley Banks said:

My body is far from perfect, but I will cut some lights on in a heartbeat. If I'm going to let you in it, you might as well take a tour of grounds you're about to play on. I've yet to have a fat ex-boyfriend tell me to turn the lights off, so why should I be afraid of letting a man see me?

 

blackfujones said:

I actually didnt sex someone bc they were soo adamant about having the lights off. Me I'll get a****** naked at a drop of a dime. No problem for me...but her ass had to go to the bathroom and take off all of her "accessories" ...looked like a totally different person lol Siren said:

Lights on is a must!!!! blackfujones said:

lol...s*** gets different when you say hi to 30 lol.  I cant/wont bite my tongue for nothing.  I need to know upfront what you will and will not do.  And if you dont follow through with what you do when we get down....you prolly will get a 2nd chance, but if you f*** up that 2nd chance...LIGHTS OUT NINJA'S ....and im $uckin wit the lights on..gotta see what ya body on lol Siren said:

when i was younger I was a bit more repressed and shy... but err uhh 30 changed all that. I found my match in that dept. and whew Lawd thank GOD!

@black i cant properly reply because im now on my phone.

But by "no h***" i meant i wasnt chasing after his booty with a rotating, vibrating d****... :)

No strap ons.

YIKES!



Phoenix said:

@black i cant properly reply because im now on my phone.

But by "no h***" i meant i wasnt chasing after his booty with a rotating, vibrating d****... :)

No strap ons.

I'm real young so I am still shy. But I don't do anal sex.  I have two other holes that are perfectly fine. That's pretty much my only thing. 

lmaoooo just clarifying...i would not make him engage in homosexual activity...



blackfujones said:

YIKES!



Phoenix said:

@black i cant properly reply because im now on my phone.

But by "no h***" i meant i wasnt chasing after his booty with a rotating, vibrating d****... :)

No strap ons.

different strokes for different folks.  in my heyday i used to sex a woman who preferred anal sex over vaginal.  she could c** by having anal or vaginal sex, but then she would ONLY ORGASM by anal sex. wild as heck

PlaneJaneLane said:

I'm real young so I am still shy. But I don't do anal sex.  I have two other holes that are perfectly fine. That's pretty much my only thing. 

hell that just gave me the willies

Phoenix said:

lmaoooo just clarifying...i would not make him engage in homosexual activity...



blackfujones said:

YIKES!



Phoenix said:

@black i cant properly reply because im now on my phone.

But by "no h***" i meant i wasnt chasing after his booty with a rotating, vibrating d****... :)

No strap ons.

If you are grown there is no time limit! I can't lie, most of my dudes we got it on on day one and the relationship grew from there. Matter of fact the dude I am with now we did the same thing and 4.5 years later we are still together. This doesn't work for everybody though. I live in an area so small that we all know each other so it is pretty much the same for everyone else. I don't recommend this in areas so big that the next block over is a mile. But this is where I am from and around here we don't have places to go to date and all that, as long as both parties are single and are in like with each other anything can happen!

Now if you meet a dude in a club you already know what time it is!

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