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I am awaken by my phone ringing this morning. It was 6:45am, and anybody who knows me knows not to be callin me that early. It was my ex's number. Yesterday after church, we decided to get ice cream and talk. We have been in "talks" to get back together, and honestly, I have been looking forward to seeing him and talking to him. I go to his church about twice a month and he always says I am welcome there. His ex goes there as well. During our relationship, I have never had a problem with her, and if I ever caught her eye, i'd smile, cuz I don't have a problem with her. She smiles back, and we keep it moving.
So, anyway, I answer, thinking he wanted to say some sweet good morning type ish, but this chick was like hello. LMAO, I immediately sat up and was like hello. She explained how he was in the bed sleep next to her, and she had seen messages we'd been sending and she was wondering what was up. I asked her if she was his girl and she was like no, but she said that they had been having sex. I was like oh, ok, we not having sex, so don't worry about that. She was like I wanna wake him so he can tell me what it is, cuz sweetie, I don't have a problem with you, I'm a lady. I was like ok, but, I would rather you wait til I get there, cuz I don't live too far away.
I wanted to hear what the fuc it was, and I wanted to see his face AND ask all the questions I had in mind. Since this chick was acting like she had some sense, I figured this would be a way to make sure everything was clear and out in the open, since I see her at church often.
So when I get there, I knocks on the door and after like five mins, she lets me in. I said thanks, and followed her over to his room. He was putting on some clothes. She was like what is this? He was like what?
Her: I thought u said u didnt see a future with her.
Him: I didnt say that
Me: Are you pregnant? (lol, last week, I noticed the bish was gettin fat, and I was OMG, what if she pregnant?? I can't do s*** wit him if he got a baby on the way. Since we were together, I wanted CLEAR answers, so all my heavy questions was about to start firing.)
Her: SO you are going to insult me?
Me: Nah, I was just wondering, and since we all here, I can get a clear answer.
Him: nah she aint pregnant.
Me: oh, ok, is she ur girl?
Him: naw, she not my girl.
Me: You told her you don't see a future with me?
Her: yeah, he said that.
Me: is that the case?
Her: Don't you smoke weed??
Me: I do alot of stuff, what's the point tho? (She was sitting on the bed, and I sat next to her while he was looking out the window.)
Me: so do you see a future with me?
Him: yeah
Her: so you wanna be with him?
Me: He already know what the deal is.
Her: What is the deal?
Me: He knows that I don't really wanna be in a relationship right now, but if he is ready, we can go. Either way, I'm waiting on him to be ready for us again. Yall can figure this out and when yall get done ima be here for him, if he wanna try again.
I got up to go brush my hair and look in the mirror, she was like yea, u can leave. I said oh, I aint ready to go yet.
They went to the kitchen still talking, so I walked to the hallway, and stood there listening.
Her: Oh so u aint been coming to my house every other day? We aint been kickin it? I aint been sleeping with u?
Me: U going back over her house?
Him: nah.
The chick start gettin loud and puttin her hand in my face. Im like you need to get her.
Me: look, I aint here for the ghetto s***.
Her: oh u think im hood?? Im not from the hood.
Me: I can't tell. This look like some hood s*** to me.
Her: so what u wanna do?
Me: Not fight you over a man. Are u serious?
Him: maybe you should go.
Me: im not ready to go yet.
I go sit down on the couch. They still in there talking and this bish is heated.
So she comes in the front room(with a knife), and she was still on that ish lookin like she wanted to scrap, but I was just chillin on the couch. She get to talking ish and try to come at me. Him between her, AND THE B**** PICKED UP AN IRON, by this time I was behind him, and when I saw the iron, I snatched it out her hand and almost broke my fist tryna crack that b****** jaw.
Me: it's time for her to go. (Picking up her purse and directing them to the door.) She fighting him and he basically pushed her out the door.
The b**** go back around the corner and come bust his window. I was shocked, she cracked the whole windshield, and there is a h*** in it.
After he saw this, we were standing on the porch and I was like u wanna go eat? I'm hungry.
He looking for his keys and couldn't find them. He called her, She had them. She said she was gon come back and give them to him. I was back on the couch. She come back, and I went upstairs to listen from the window. She brought her girl back with her, and her girl was saying, look you know she in love with you and yada yada. They leave.
I go outside so I can drive to the restaurant. MUTHAFUCKIN BACK WINDOW BUSTED, BIG AZZ H***(the first thing I thought was 'how the hell am I gonna tell my baller this?? he paying for this car). Im ready to call the folks, so I ask for his phone, cuz mine was dead. He gave it to me, and the bish called. I answered.
ME: so u gon bust my window? I thought u was tryna be a woman??
Her: U got insurance right?
ME: That aint the question. Why would you call me if u tryna fight for him and he might not even want u? Why u goin through his phone if u still tryna talk to him and wanna be with him?? This that hood ish i was talking about.
Her: *some ish i wasnt listening to and hung up*
We go back in and he find a place to fix my s*** tomorrow, and he paid for it over the phone. Then we went to eat. He asked me if I still wanted to be with him after all this and I was like I guess, lol, but no sex til we married, and I don't know if u can handle that.
I know it's long yall, but WTF happened? Now, I'ma say I love him, and I wanna be with him, if he wanna do it the right way. I have refused to have casual sex with him cuz he seems like the marrying kind, and, giving free puss will get me no where. IMO that is where she went wrong.
What yall think?
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Permalink Reply by Skytz0100 on -
I think you did an EXCELLENT job with this! This should when you the BA Wall of Honor for this cause I know I would have reverted to some ghetto ish and how cool you were is phenomenal, lol, i think that is spelled right.
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Permalink Reply by Dragon Slayer Puss on
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I love you! I just needed ONE person to say continue! LOL j/k
Eleven8 said:Thing is, he's been truthful. I would say don't be with him if he was lying, but truth is, he didn't lie. He wasnt with the girl, she knew he wasn't . He told her right in front of you that he wants a future with YOU. Takes a man to at least do that. She was being a bird for trying to fight over something that wasn't even hers. Face it, every man has drama in his life. It's up to him to dead it properly. If he can do that, I say continue with him.
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Permalink Reply by University of Smitty on -
Really??? In that case, I'm glad I didnt give any relationship advice this time cause I dont remember that....lol He doesnt sound TOO bad this time around but I'm going to stick with my first(??) mind and say "you're not ready"
Love is a Losing Game said:Ok, Smitty, thanks for commenting cuz this the same dude u said I wasnt ready to be in a relationship with in a post along time ago. (a) how will I know when I am ready? I still wanna play a lil bit, but, i need to get my ish lined up soon. and (b) yea, lol I dont know why I went over there, I guess cuz her dumb ass called me tryna figure ish out, and I wanted answers too, I guess. They just f***** so imo, she should keep it movin on anything she find in his phone. Honestly, I thought we was gon talk, I didnt know he was gon start takin up for me and actin like he was interested in being wit me, which I think made her mad. I aint mad about the car, cuz he takin care of that.
University of Smitty said:Why did this remind me of Tasha/Pookie/Sheeda? lol I dont think I would have went over there. She told you they werent a couple, just f**king. If you're not f**king him, what was the big deal? He has to get some p***y from somewhere. I can see her being upset but I dont understand why you even took it there. And the refusing to leave part???? You heard what you wanted/needed to hear so you were just throwing fuel on the fire, right? I think you put yourself in a position that was basically asking the b**h to tear yo sh*t up
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Permalink Reply by Ms. Ashley Banks on -
Move on. If he allowed that much of a conversation between you two and allowed her to grab items to possibly harm you, he doesn't want you. I guarantee you he has someone else in line to take one of your places.
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Permalink Reply by blackfujones on -
this is why i heart you
University of Smitty said:Why did this remind me of Tasha/Pookie/Sheeda? lol I dont think I would have went over there. She told you they werent a couple, just f**king. If you're not f**king him, what was the big deal? He has to get some p***y from somewhere. I can see her being upset but I dont understand why you even took it there. And the refusing to leave part???? You heard what you wanted/needed to hear so you were just throwing fuel on the fire, right? I think you put yourself in a position that was basically asking the b**h to tear yo sh*t up
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ok, u never remember when u tell me to do ish! lol!! anyway, how will I know (in my whitney houston voice) when I am ready?
University of Smitty said:Really??? In that case, I'm glad I didnt give any relationship advice this time cause I dont remember that....lol He doesnt sound TOO bad this time around but I'm going to stick with my first(??) mind and say "you're not ready"
Love is a Losing Game said:Ok, Smitty, thanks for commenting cuz this the same dude u said I wasnt ready to be in a relationship with in a post along time ago. (a) how will I know when I am ready? I still wanna play a lil bit, but, i need to get my ish lined up soon. and (b) yea, lol I dont know why I went over there, I guess cuz her dumb ass called me tryna figure ish out, and I wanted answers too, I guess. They just f***** so imo, she should keep it movin on anything she find in his phone. Honestly, I thought we was gon talk, I didnt know he was gon start takin up for me and actin like he was interested in being wit me, which I think made her mad. I aint mad about the car, cuz he takin care of that.
University of Smitty said:Why did this remind me of Tasha/Pookie/Sheeda? lol I dont think I would have went over there. She told you they werent a couple, just f**king. If you're not f**king him, what was the big deal? He has to get some p***y from somewhere. I can see her being upset but I dont understand why you even took it there. And the refusing to leave part???? You heard what you wanted/needed to hear so you were just throwing fuel on the fire, right? I think you put yourself in a position that was basically asking the b**h to tear yo sh*t up
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Ashley u killin me girl! Does it matter that he was in between us when she got on the real crazy ish? When she was talkin reckless, he just kept sayin lil s*** like does that matter? and u need to chill.
Ms. Ashley Banks said:Move on. If he allowed that much of a conversation between you two and allowed her to grab items to possibly harm you, he doesn't want you. I guarantee you he has someone else in line to take one of your places.
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lol bish it WAS SURREAL! I was wondering why I wasnt tearing ish up lol. He was too. Im gettin my anger management under control and learning to communicate....BA taught me that from yall's posts lol
Skytz0100 said:I think you did an EXCELLENT job with this! This should when you the BA Wall of Honor for this cause I know I would have reverted to some ghetto ish and how cool you were is phenomenal, lol, i think that is spelled right.
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Permalink Reply by University of Smitty on
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awwww........I have that effect on the fellas around here lol j/k
blackfujones said:this is why i heart you
University of Smitty said:Why did this remind me of Tasha/Pookie/Sheeda? lol I dont think I would have went over there. She told you they werent a couple, just f**king. If you're not f**king him, what was the big deal? He has to get some p***y from somewhere. I can see her being upset but I dont understand why you even took it there. And the refusing to leave part???? You heard what you wanted/needed to hear so you were just throwing fuel on the fire, right? I think you put yourself in a position that was basically asking the b**h to tear yo sh*t up
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Thanks Black. U replied to that post too, I dont remember what u said, but u helped me out.
blackfujones said:first off..kudos to homeboi for being clean the whole way through the ordeal..Never got out of body.put the hoe in her specific area while keeping the one he wanted right where she was. He wasnt dishonest,wasnt a jerk was upfront with everyone it seems. I applaud fam
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Permalink Reply by University of Smitty on
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You're not ignorant enough for me to remember all your post.....lmao But ummm, without a total recap, only you will know when your ready
Love is a Losing Game said:ok, u never remember when u tell me to do ish! lol!! anyway, how will I know (in my whitney houston voice) when I am ready?
University of Smitty said:Really??? In that case, I'm glad I didnt give any relationship advice this time cause I dont remember that....lol He doesnt sound TOO bad this time around but I'm going to stick with my first(??) mind and say "you're not ready"
Love is a Losing Game said:Ok, Smitty, thanks for commenting cuz this the same dude u said I wasnt ready to be in a relationship with in a post along time ago. (a) how will I know when I am ready? I still wanna play a lil bit, but, i need to get my ish lined up soon. and (b) yea, lol I dont know why I went over there, I guess cuz her dumb ass called me tryna figure ish out, and I wanted answers too, I guess. They just f***** so imo, she should keep it movin on anything she find in his phone. Honestly, I thought we was gon talk, I didnt know he was gon start takin up for me and actin like he was interested in being wit me, which I think made her mad. I aint mad about the car, cuz he takin care of that. University of Smitty said:
Why did this remind me of Tasha/Pookie/Sheeda? lol I dont think I would have went over there. She told you they werent a couple, just f**king. If you're not f**king him, what was the big deal? He has to get some p***y from somewhere. I can see her being upset but I dont understand why you even took it there. And the refusing to leave part???? You heard what you wanted/needed to hear so you were just throwing fuel on the fire, right? I think you put yourself in a position that was basically asking the b**h to tear yo sh*t up
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Permalink Reply by Skytz0100 on
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LMAO, right! And good job!
Love is a Losing Game said:lol bish it WAS SURREAL! I was wondering why I wasnt tearing ish up lol. He was too. Im gettin my anger management under control and learning to communicate....BA taught me that from yall's posts lol
Skytz0100 said:I think you did an EXCELLENT job with this! This should when you the BA Wall of Honor for this cause I know I would have reverted to some ghetto ish and how cool you were is phenomenal, lol, i think that is spelled right.
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