I Don't Even Know What to Title This

I am awaken by my phone ringing this morning. It was 6:45am, and anybody who knows me knows not to be callin me that early. It was my ex's number. Yesterday after church, we decided to get ice cream and talk. We have been in "talks" to get back together, and honestly, I have been looking forward to seeing him and talking to him. I go to his church about twice a month and he always says I  am welcome there. His ex goes there as well. During our relationship, I have never had a problem with her, and if I ever caught her eye, i'd smile, cuz I don't have a problem with her. She smiles back, and we keep it moving. 

So, anyway, I answer, thinking he wanted to say some sweet good morning type ish, but this chick was like hello. LMAO, I immediately sat up and was like hello. She explained how he was in the bed sleep next to her, and she had seen messages we'd been sending and she was wondering what was up. I asked her if she was his girl and she was like no, but she said that they had been having sex. I was like oh, ok, we not having sex, so don't worry about that. She was like I wanna wake him so he can tell me what it is, cuz sweetie, I don't have a problem with you, I'm a lady. I was like ok, but, I would rather you wait til I get there, cuz I don't live too far away.

I wanted to hear what the fuc it was, and I wanted to see his face AND ask all the questions I had in mind. Since this chick was acting like she had some sense, I figured this would be a way to make sure everything was clear and out in the open, since I see her at church often. 

So when I get there, I knocks on the door and after like five mins, she lets me in. I said thanks, and followed her over to his room. He was putting on some clothes. She was like what is this? He was like what?

Her: I thought u said u didnt see a future with her.

Him: I didnt say that

Me: Are you pregnant? (lol, last week, I noticed the bish was gettin fat, and I was OMG, what if she pregnant?? I can't do s*** wit him if he got a baby on the way. Since we were together, I wanted CLEAR answers, so all my heavy questions was about to start firing.)

Her: SO you are going to insult me?

Me: Nah, I was just wondering, and since we all here, I can get a clear answer.

Him: nah she aint pregnant.

Me: oh, ok, is she ur girl?

Him: naw, she not my girl.

Me: You told her you don't see a future with me?

Her: yeah, he said that.

Me: is that the case?

Her: Don't you smoke weed??

Me: I do alot of stuff, what's the point tho? (She was sitting on the bed, and I sat next to her while he was looking out the window.)

Me: so do you see a future with me?

Him: yeah

Her: so you wanna be with him?

Me: He already know what the deal is.

Her: What is the deal?

Me: He knows that I don't really wanna be in a relationship right now, but if he is ready, we can go. Either way, I'm waiting on him to be ready for us again. Yall can figure this out and when yall get done ima be here for him, if he wanna try again.

I got up to go brush my hair and look in the mirror, she was like yea, u can leave. I said oh, I aint ready to go yet.

They went to the kitchen still talking, so I walked to the hallway, and stood there listening.

Her: Oh so u aint been coming to my house every other day? We aint been kickin it? I aint been sleeping with u?

Me: U going back over her house?

Him: nah.

The chick start gettin loud and puttin her hand in my face. Im like you need to get her.

Me: look, I aint here for the ghetto s***.

Her: oh u think im hood?? Im not from the hood.

Me: I can't tell. This look like some hood s*** to me.

Her: so what u wanna do?

Me: Not fight you over a man. Are u serious?

Him: maybe you should go.

Me: im not ready to go yet.

I go sit down on the couch. They still in there talking and this bish is heated.

So she comes in the front room(with a knife), and she was still on that ish lookin like she wanted to scrap, but I was just chillin on the couch. She get to talking ish and try to come at me. Him between her, AND THE B**** PICKED UP AN IRON, by this time I was behind him, and when I saw the iron, I snatched it out her hand and almost broke my fist tryna crack that b****** jaw.

Me: it's time for her to go. (Picking up her purse and directing them to the door.) She fighting him and he basically pushed her out the door. 

The b**** go back around the corner and come bust his window. I was shocked, she cracked the whole windshield, and there is a h*** in it.

After he saw this, we were standing on the porch and I was like u wanna go eat? I'm hungry.
He looking for his keys and couldn't find them. He called her, She had them. She said she was gon come back and give them to him. I was back on the couch. She come back, and I went upstairs to listen from the window. She brought her girl back with her, and her girl was saying, look you know she in love with you and yada yada. They leave.

I go outside so I can drive to the restaurant. MUTHAFUCKIN BACK WINDOW BUSTED, BIG AZZ H***(the first thing I thought was 'how the hell am I gonna tell my baller this?? he paying for this car). Im ready to call the folks, so I ask for his phone, cuz mine was dead. He gave it to me, and the bish called. I answered.

ME: so u gon bust my window? I thought u was tryna be a woman??

Her: U got insurance right?

ME: That aint the question. Why would you call me if u tryna fight for him and he might not even want u? Why u goin through his phone if u still tryna talk to him and wanna be with him?? This that hood ish i was talking about.

Her: *some ish i wasnt listening to and hung up*

We go back in and he find a place to fix my s*** tomorrow, and he paid for it over the phone. Then we went to eat. He asked me if I still wanted to be with him after all this and I was like I guess, lol, but no sex til we married, and I don't know if u can handle that.

I know it's long yall, but WTF happened? Now, I'ma say I love him, and I wanna be with him, if he wanna do it the right way. I have refused to have casual sex with him cuz he seems like the marrying kind, and, giving free puss will get me no where. IMO that is where she went wrong.

What yall think?

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Permalink Reply by Sheli on June 11, 2012 at 5:12pm

Lmbo! I'm action-less, so I zone in on all words relating to the male penis...smdh!

ReadytoSettleDown said:

lol @ Sheli! How'd I know you were gonna hear that?! @ Skytz0100 girl, we know you would've went ALL THE WAY LEFT on dat ass!

Sheli said:

LOL, nope she said he had a lil ding-a-ling and can't slang it, so he must be cool peoples.... probably.
ReadytoSettleDown said:

@Skytz0100...he probably GOT A LONG D***. lol...sorry, but you know how chicks be over some d*** or a man with money for that matter.

Skytz0100 said:

I am still trying to figure out why she went all loco seeing as technically she said she didn't want him and you know she called you!

I guess when she realized he really, really, really didn't give a damn about her; she wanted to act a fool. LOL, this is hilarious and it is definitely an eye opener for those who think that being messy in the future will get them somewhere cause all it will get you is your feelings hurt when you realize that you are the one that wasn't ish to him, LMAO!

I mean WTH, she was upset huh!

 

 

Permalink Reply by Dragon Slayer Puss on June 11, 2012 at 5:21pm
@ally, that is why I didn't wanna fight the bish, she prob a ole resilient hoe, and will keep coming back. I'd have to kill the hoe once 'violence' is introduced lol
@black, u know I'm slow sometimes, what does the lane thing mean??
@sheli, the sex was good, but I think it will be a lil better since these muscles are getting a chance to further tighten lol
Permalink Reply by blackfujones on June 11, 2012 at 5:38pm

lane? are u serious lol...lane=play your position that was discussed between you and said partner..so if he wants a f*** buddy and you agree youre the f*** buddy until told otherwise

Love is a Losing Game said:

@ally, that is why I didn't wanna fight the bish, she prob a ole resilient hoe, and will keep coming back. I'd have to kill the hoe once 'violence' is introduced lol
@black, u know I'm slow sometimes, what does the lane thing mean??
@sheli, the sex was good, but I think it will be a lil better since these muscles are getting a chance to further tighten lol
Permalink Reply by MS. UCAN NEVA GET ENUFF!! on June 11, 2012 at 6:42pm

I wouldn't have went over there.....let alone answer the damn phone that early.  Too much drama..I hate drama but some ppl love it.  Yeah, you aint heard the last of her...when you ask if she was his girl and she said no, but she was still calling you..that shoulda told you that bish was stoopid ignant

Permalink Reply by OLD $PICE PINE NEEDLE on June 11, 2012 at 9:24pm

#jerry #jerry, #jerry lol

When you answered the phone and she was on it, the conversation would have ended there. Your next convo would have been with him later on. You still want his crazy a$$ after all these red flags?

LOL @ you driving over there and you 'ain't ready to leave yet'.

See this shows, if he's not getting it from you he's getting it from someone else and he's feeding her 'lies' to keep the peace.

SN: I'm still SMH at you actually 'driving over there"

Permalink Reply by University of Smitty on June 11, 2012 at 9:33pm

You know how it is...lol  The ones that post like they have some sense you like, consider them friends and look forward to reading their opinions.   But it's that ol' ignorant azz post you remember word for word.  Ex: I remember the time LIALG got into it with SB.....that 'ruler of the world' comment was CLASSIC  LMAO  
 
Sheli said:

**falls out laughing @Smitty's ass***

I have no valuable advice, but I wouldn't have gone over, he wasn't your man so I don't see what the fuss was about. I do understand you being a lil hot at old girl for calling you at 6:45am, but other than that, I wouldn't have paid her any mind especially since all you two had were ice-cream & conversation *shrugs*. As for him, I commend him for keeping it real, any other dude would have said he ain't know either of you helfas and left you there to battle it out without him.

**post the link to the prior discussions about him**


University of Smitty said:

You're not ignorant enough for me to remember all your post.....lmao   But ummm, without a total recap, only you will know when your ready

Love is a Losing Game said:

ok, u never remember when u tell me to do ish! lol!! anyway, how will I know (in my whitney houston voice) when I am ready?
University of Smitty said:

Really???  In that case, I'm glad I didnt give any relationship advice this time cause I dont remember that....lol  He doesnt sound TOO bad this time around but I'm going to stick with my first(??) mind and say "you're not ready"
Love is a Losing Game said:

Ok, Smitty, thanks for commenting cuz this the same dude u said I wasnt ready to be in a relationship with in a post along time ago. (a) how will I know when I am ready? I still wanna play a lil bit, but, i need to get my ish lined up soon. and (b) yea, lol I dont know why I went over there, I guess cuz her dumb ass called me tryna figure ish out, and I wanted answers too, I guess. They just f***** so imo, she should keep it movin on anything she find in his phone. Honestly, I thought we was gon talk, I didnt know he was gon start takin up for me and actin like he was interested in being wit me, which I think made her mad. I aint mad about the car, cuz he takin care of that. University of Smitty said:

Why did this remind me of Tasha/Pookie/Sheeda?   lol   I dont think I would have went over there.  She told you they werent a couple, just f**king.  If you're not f**king him, what was the big deal?  He has to get some p***y from somewhere.  I can see her being upset but I dont understand why you even took it there.  And the refusing to leave part????  You heard what you wanted/needed to hear so you were just throwing fuel on the fire, right?  I think you put yourself in a position that was basically asking the b**h to tear yo sh*t up

Permalink Reply by Moving In Silence on June 11, 2012 at 9:54pm

I have no words. I don't understand any of your actions. Once she would have told me that she's not his girl the conversation would have ended. What more is there to know? This sounds like some 18 year old ish not somebody in their 30s.

Permalink Reply by Dragon Slayer Puss on June 11, 2012 at 11:23pm
Lol preciate yall for hitting me hard, BUT I'm bout to go SPEND THE NIGHT. Talk to yall tomorrow lmao
Permalink Reply by University of Smitty on June 12, 2012 at 1:09am

LOL  .....yeah, I imgaine it's pretty hard to pass that up right about now  lmao
 
Love is a Losing Game said:

Lol preciate yall for hitting me hard, BUT I'm bout to go SPEND THE NIGHT. Talk to yall tomorrow lmao
Permalink Reply by Bonita on June 12, 2012 at 2:05am

I can't..lol

University of Smitty said:

LOL  .....yeah, I imgaine it's pretty hard to pass that up right about now  lmao  
Love is a Losing Game said:

Lol preciate yall for hitting me hard, BUT I'm bout to go SPEND THE NIGHT. Talk to yall tomorrow lmao
Permalink Reply by MissMidwest on June 12, 2012 at 2:20am
I'm right there with you! Lol but I would've done way more than call the b**** on the phone if she smashed my window out! Believe that! Lol

Bonita said:

I can't..lol

University of Smitty said:

LOL  .....yeah, I imgaine it's pretty hard to pass that up right about now  lmao   Love is a Losing Game said:

Lol preciate yall for hitting me hard, BUT I'm bout to go SPEND THE NIGHT. Talk to yall tomorrow lmao
Permalink Reply by Savoir Faire on June 12, 2012 at 2:26am

This was too funny. Thanks for the laughs. I'm laughing with you Love.

Drugs are bad m'kay...I think you need to put that pipe down. You knew what you were getting into before you went over there (yeah I don't believe you went over there or even entertained a covo with this bish either). I think there was some truth to what o'girl said about him not seeing a future. I don't think she pulled that out of nowhere. Yes he was honest and he's not committed to either of you, however, he let the drama go on for a little too long. But then again, I think many people like the drama wether they admit it or not. Ultimately it's your call. I'm getting the sense that you may not just be ready, maybe a little fearful too?  Anyhoo, I hope that works out fo ya cuz it sounds like you've already made your mind up.

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