Hi Ladies!

I haven't been on in a while but I have a bit of a dilemma. I met a young "baller" entrepreneur type whose business affords him a VERY nice living. He has a nouveau riche type mentality, very flashy. I kind of appreciate the 'balling in silence' type ... But at any rate we been keeping in touch and he finally flies me out to go visit him (we live in the same state just hours away). The arrangement was for me to stay with him and I had a whole plan to "dodge the d*ck" worked up in my head. As soon as I touched down it was like "Whatever you want you got it" it was a nice little day. I was to leave in the morning and we got in the bed ready to call it a night, and I breathed a sigh of relief like "Yes!! He didn't try anything Im GOOD!!"

I spoke toooo soon ....

As I'm dozing off I feel him kissing on my neck so I tense up and things sort of got a little out of hand .... Needless to say I gave it up WITHOUT cashing in!!!! ..... He still communicates with like before nothing got funny. I'm just so disappointed in myself that I let my pu$$y run me LOL.

Do y'all think all is lost? What should my new course of action be?? 

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Hmmmm... 
Wow... that is all u gotta say... Wow... You all write whole paragraphs on my post...

JustMe said:
Hmmmm... 

Why didn't you 'ask' to stay in a hotel?

If he's still in contact all is not lost. How did you plan on cashing in b4 giving up the cookie? Will this stop you from cashing in?  Has anything changed or just you feeling bad?

She knows this was some dumb ish. Anytime u can't control the cooch, u lose the game immediately.


I honestly didn't think of it. I thought I would be able to handle myself  ...

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OLD $PICE PINE NEEDLE said:

Why didn't you 'ask' to stay in a hotel?

Yeah, I know it was dumb .... But is there no way to comeback?? Thats it? Game Over?

Love is a Losing Game said:

She knows this was some dumb ish. Anytime u can't control the cooch, u lose the game immediately.

I mean what's done is done.. I would take this one as an  "L " & move on . If he keeps in contact cool, just don't peruse it like you were before.

You do know that you're acting like a baby right now, right???  
 
Student Beauty said:

Wow... that is all u gotta say... Wow... You all write whole paragraphs on my post...

JustMe said:
Hmmmm... 
Idk.....the cooch is highly coveted, so men will go far to get it. However, if a man likes something in you, early sex has no barrier on if he wants to continue to pursue something with you. I would back up a bit and give him room to come to me. It also depends how old he is. Most 35+ men do not like a woman that is all about sex. They want relationships. Younger ones usually bounce around and once they get u the thrill is gone
Yes... Hmmm... Means I'm thinking... Get out your lil young ass feelings and grow up. If you want to rant & rave, go back to your own post... 

Student Beauty said:
Wow... that is all u gotta say... Wow... You all write whole paragraphs on my post...

JustMe said:
Hmmmm... 
I had to read it again & think about what I wanted to say/ask...

You say he had a "whatever you like" attitude & the day was nice; what made the day nice?  And clarify what you mean by cashing in... Did you get anything at all???? Oh, and how old is he? 

Y'all make good points ... I'll fall back. I haven't contacted him first since ... he's been initiating the texting/calls. He mentioned another trip, but I'm not holding my breath on that one. If there is a next time does it make sense to hold out and blame the time before on the alcohol? 

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