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I FINALLY DID IT!
If you guys recall, I posted this a few months ago.....
I'm in a situation right now where my boyfriend has been unfaithful......he claims he has changed, and that it wasn't what it seemed then he did something else, and something else, and something else....what are the somethings else you ask? Let's see extra cell phone, online chatting, using his brothers' phone, rolled up on him at a local restaurant standing outside with a female.......the only thing I haven't "caught" him doing was having sex with someone. He lies constantly, so much so that I can’t believe him with something as simple as telling me he is at his friend’s house when he is really at his mother’s although I checked it out and he actually wasn’t doing anything wrong at the time. I wake up every morning with this heavy weight on my heart not knowing what to do. What in the world am I waiting on? If I saw this post by someone else I would advise them they deserve better. He moved out to give me space to heal. Yeah, right. That only makes me wonder even more. Is it strong to hang in there or stupid to stay? I cannot get the thoughts out of my head of the hurt that he has caused me. Yet he claims he can’t live without me and that he has changed-but he has promised that before. He even says he wants to marry me-however, there is no way I could marry him at this point. Can he really be that messed up in the head? My brother says get the hell out of there, that he is a dog. I have never been unfaithful to him, although I easily could and he knows it. Ladies please help me out with this one!
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Permalink Reply by OLD $PICE PINE NEEDLE on -
Congrats on 'surviving' this experience, there is more to come but you will be 'prepared'.
We can share our advice based on our own experiences, but you have to 'go through it, feel it, and survive it' with your own emotions to understand it.
"Never regret. If it's good, it's wonderful. If it's bad, it's experience."
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Permalink Reply by University of Smitty on -
Good for you. We've all had our share of azzholes and I'm glad you got past yours
OT: I love that pic of Barack and Michelle, Ms. Pine Needle. I got a keychain at the inauguration with that same pic and it said "We love Michelle" He does look like her could sop her up with a biscuit.. Black love is beautiful
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Permalink Reply by Lonelygirl on -
Good for you. Sometimes we need that last kick in our front teeth to leave!! It's hard to leave the a$$holes..
No one could have made you leave until you were ready too, now you will be able to move on without dwelling on the past. Enjoy life!
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Permalink Reply by RoyaleT on -
Good for you....feels like a heavy weight lifted off your heart doesn't it?
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Permalink Reply by OLD $PICE PINE NEEDLE on
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Tks, it's that 'ole fashioned luvin' *sigh*
University of Smitty said:
Good for you. We've all had our share of azzholes and I'm glad you got past yours
OT: I love that pic of Barack and Michelle, Ms. Pine Needle. I got a keychain at the inauguration with that same pic and it said "We love Michelle" He does look like her could sop her up with a biscuit.. Black love is beautiful
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Permalink Reply by MissBling on -
Now I bet you things will fall into place for the better. These type of relationships have a way of blocking your blessings.
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Permalink Reply by University of Smitty on
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They shole do, dont they
@covergyrl You're about to blow up now......lol
MissBling said:Now I bet you things will fall into place for the better. These type of relationships have a way of blocking your blessings.
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Permalink Reply by Covergyrl on -
Thank you to all my girlfriends: Old Spice, US Smitty x2, Lonleygirl, Royale T, Ms. Bling and all the responses to come, You know, I really appreciated the advice when I initially opened up about what was going on in my life with my boyfriend, BUT YOU HAVE NO IDEA of how much this support means now that I have stepped out of it. It really helps to let me know I made the right decision and to keep me strong and reminds me of why I must remain that way whenever the pain tries to sneak up on me. Thanks again for the support and encouragement!
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Permalink Reply by Covergyrl on
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@RoyaleT, yes girl I feel like I am floating....I have peace for a change.
RoyaleT said:
Good for you....feels like a heavy weight lifted off your heart doesn't it?
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Permalink Reply by Covergyrl on
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@University of Smitty lol yes I am.....and I am too ready, gotta figure out a way to celebrate....suggestions anyone?
University of Smitty said:
They shole do, dont they
@covergyrl You're about to blow up now......lol
MissBling said:Now I bet you things will fall into place for the better. These type of relationships have a way of blocking your blessings.
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Permalink Reply by Covergyrl on
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@lonelygirl .....you are so right about that last kick but while he thought he was getting over he was doing me a favor!
Lonelygirl said:
Good for you. Sometimes we need that last kick in our front teeth to leave!! It's hard to leave the a$$holes..
No one could have made you leave until you were ready too, now you will be able to move on without dwelling on the past. Enjoy life!
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