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Permalink Reply by MS. UCAN NEVA GET ENUFF!! on April 15, 2012 at 9:19pm

I say go on vacation with the owner.  If you know these things about both of them and still considering dating them then you already know neither one of these relationships are built to last.  (but thats not what you're here for).  The owner know you and ole boy are together so he wouldn't mess up your relationship or put it out there.  See what he working with and get what you can get. 

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Permalink Reply by Tone © on April 15, 2012 at 9:20pm

He has no charter and no money don't waste your time with him. 

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Permalink Reply by BabyBallerCheeks on April 15, 2012 at 9:23pm

Do you live in Philly? I know a girl in the same predicament. Assuming you are not her, don't bank on the baller doing much. The girl from Philly is the long time girlfriend of a wealthy restauranter and a waitress at one of his establishments. She is miserable. He does just enough to keep her ass waitressing. My baller and I went to one of his spot to eat and saw him on a date with another woman. And guess who was our waitress? You've guessed right! His longtime girlfriend. She continued to serve us while her man ate with another woman a couple feet away. 

Ask yourself these questions:

1) Has the baller given you money/gifts before? Would he be willing to give you a pay raise? 

If the answer to both questions is 'no', I wouldn't bank on that baller giving you much.

2) Can you see yourself marrying a cheater who makes minimum wage working at a restaurant? 

Oh.

*If you do date your boss, see how long you can dangle the carrot before opening your legs. I wouldn't give him SH*T.

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Permalink Reply by MS. UCAN NEVA GET ENUFF!! on April 15, 2012 at 9:42pm

Well s***, he must not be doing to much.

BabyBallerCheeks said:

Do you live in Philly? I know a girl in the same predicament. Assuming you are not her, don't bank on the baller doing much. The girl from Philly is the long time girlfriend of a wealthy restauranter and a waitress at one of his establishments. She is miserable. He does just enough to keep her ass waitressing. My baller and I went to one of his spot to eat and saw him on a date with another woman. And guess who was our waitress? You've guessed right! His longtime girlfriend. She continued to serve us while her man ate with another woman a couple feet away. 

Ask yourself these questions:

1) Has the baller given you money/gifts before? Would he be willing to give you a pay raise? 

If the answer to both questions is 'no', I wouldn't bank on that baller giving you much.

2) Can you see yourself marrying a cheater who makes minimum wage working at a restaurant? 

Oh.

*If you do date your boss, see how long you can dangle the carrot before opening your legs. I wouldn't give him SH*T.

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Permalink Reply by Dragon Slayer Puss on April 15, 2012 at 10:22pm

You know both of these relationships are not for the long term, so I would just secretly get with the boss and juice him. Make sure you make a pre list of your goals and stick to the plan. Remember to be setting up your next job or sources of income for when you are ready to drop the boss. Dont get emotionally attached to the worker and don't get greedy with the boss. 

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Permalink Reply by Bonita on April 16, 2012 at 12:32am

I can't better be broke and unemployed!

BabyBallerCheeks said:

Do you live in Philly? I know a girl in the same predicament. Assuming you are not her, don't bank on the baller doing much. The girl from Philly is the long time girlfriend of a wealthy restauranter and a waitress at one of his establishments. She is miserable. He does just enough to keep her ass waitressing. My baller and I went to one of his spot to eat and saw him on a date with another woman. And guess who was our waitress? You've guessed right! His longtime girlfriend. She continued to serve us while her man ate with another woman a couple feet away. 

Ask yourself these questions:

1) Has the baller given you money/gifts before? Would he be willing to give you a pay raise? 

If the answer to both questions is 'no', I wouldn't bank on that baller giving you much.

2) Can you see yourself marrying a cheater who makes minimum wage working at a restaurant? 

Oh.

*If you do date your boss, see how long you can dangle the carrot before opening your legs. I wouldn't give him SH*T.

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Permalink Reply by Bonita on April 16, 2012 at 12:34am

To your question..neither thats if you want more..if you are in it for the money both but doubt your soon to be main guy will go for it especially since he is leaving his baby mother for you.

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Permalink Reply by DallasBadYella on April 16, 2012 at 1:31am

Thanks ladies!!

@BabyBallerCheeks  No, not in Philly. Have you introduced her to Baller Alert? I'm wondering if she really is the main chick in that situation. My Baller's main used to bartend, now she is living it up in LA on his dime because she wants to be an "Actress".

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Permalink Reply by BabyBallerCheeks on April 16, 2012 at 8:05am

LMAO @ "Actress". No, I don't know her well enough to introduce her to the site. I only know her through my ex baller . He said her and the guy have been together for years. Maybe they broke up and he brought that other chick in to piss her off. Not sure. Don't know either one well enough.

See how far you can get with the boss though without giving him the panties. The problem is he knows you know he has a girlfriend. Once they realize you are willing to play side hoe for free, you will never have a chance at getting anything. Your mentality needs to be, I will be the side hoe but only for a price. Make him believe that if you were his main girl you wouldn't be asking for anything but since you're not, he'll have to help you out.

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Permalink Reply by Phoenix on April 16, 2012 at 9:34am

How long does it take to leave a girlfriend??? 

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Permalink Reply by OLD $PICE PINE NEEDLE on April 16, 2012 at 10:02am

All I see here is '$hitting where you eat', both are at the same place where you earn your dollas$$$??? I can't mess with my money this way.

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Permalink Reply by DallasBadYella on April 16, 2012 at 12:10pm

@Phoenix they live together, he wanted to just walk out a month ago but I asked him not because I didn't want to be the reason he left. Their lease is over in May and he already told her that after it's up he's moving solo and signed a new lease for another apt.     *Side Note* Thank you because you made me think about the fact that he told her he needed time for himself and didn't completely end it...So I suppose that leaves his door open to come back...

@OldSpice it def. is. I was going to quit in May, aside from my little situation Everyone is f****** in the restaurant. I forgot how messy it could be. One manager has done three guys in a 2 month span....sooo it's time for me to leave

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