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I found a Baller but...
I'm currently in a relationship with someone else.
Here's my dilemma. The Baller is the owner of the restaurant that I work at and the guy i'm dating is also an employee. It's just a part-time job for me nothing major, so me having to quit wouldn't be a big deal. I'm having the typical love vs. money fight. The guy I'm dating is leaving his girlfriend/baby momma to be with me. He doesn't have much but what he does have he spoils me with. He looks out for me and wants to help me eventually pay off my student loans and is talking marriage after only 2 months. The baller has a main chick who has been in his life for 3 years but she recently moved and doesn't live in state anymore, he is footing the bill. The baller knows that I have someone in my life and he knows I know about ol' girl. He told me they don't have an exclusive relationship and he has bought other women to the restaurant before he told me he was interested in me.
The crazy thing is that with the baller I feel I know my shelf life and can work it to my advantage to get what I want/need. With the other guy I don't. He is a cheater and I don't know if I would be the rule and not the exception in his life if that makes sense. The baller wants to take me on vacay as soon as my finals are over and I'm thinking about taking him up on his offer but don't know what to do about ol' dude.
I feel foolish.. I know. But if you have any advice or opinions.
Thanks
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Permalink Reply by Phoenix on -
So are they sleeping in the same bed and ya'll sleeping together too?
Just asking, no judgement.
So everybody is platonic at this point still?
DallasBadYella said:@Phoenix they live together, he wanted to just walk out a month ago but I asked him not because I didn't want to be the reason he left. Their lease is over in May and he already told her that after it's up he's moving solo and signed a new lease for another apt. *Side Note* Thank you because you made me think about the fact that he told her he needed time for himself and didn't completely end it...So I suppose that leaves his door open to come back...
@OldSpice it def. is. I was going to quit in May, aside from my little situation Everyone is f****** in the restaurant. I forgot how messy it could be. One manager has done three guys in a 2 month span....sooo it's time for me to leave
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Permalink Reply by Maya Wilkes on
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Co-signing Tone. Dude is cheating on his BM and about to leave her and thier child. Child Support will probably take ALL of his lil min wage money if/when she finds out he has a new gf
Tone said:He has no charter and no money don't waste your time with him.
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Permalink Reply by DdoubleD on -
Ladies yall really tell it like it is hahaha
I think you should find another job and talk to both of them. Don’t make either of them a priority. “Keep a pair and a spare” BA
I have recently suggested this blog to someone else, but this will basically sum it up what you should!
http://www.balleralert.com/profiles/blog/show?id=2015113%3ABlogPost...
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Permalink Reply by Honeycoated on
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I totally agree with BabyBallerCheeks!
Plus, even if he did leave his BM for you, I would never be with a man that is about to have a child with someone else, or currently has any kids that are under 4years old, it's just too messy
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