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Permalink Reply by Goldie F***'n Fish on July 8, 2012 at 5:48pm

If it was 10k and up I might consider...

No, I would not do it for that amount. Babies aren't cheap. That 3k would get sopped up like a biscuit in gravy. Then you'd just have a baby for free. That's never good.

Bonita said:

Gurl don't agree to have a child with someone without any real commitment. If he is really serious get something in writing i.e. a legal document because there is no telling if down the road he changes his mind about him or the child. 

$3k is not enough

BabyBallerCheeks said:

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LADIES! I have an issue. I did not want to start my own thread because, again, this site is public and my old baller suspects I am on here. Anyway, my old baller just asked me to have his baby. He said he will make sure the baby is well taken care of and I will never have to work again. However, he DOESN'T want to commit to me. Not sure if I want to let him knock me up. If I sued him, I would get, AT BEST, $3,000 a month (he's not Drake status). What would you do?

 

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Permalink Reply by DallasBadYella on July 18, 2012 at 11:26pm

Has anyone else had a bad experience with Black Men on the site? I've had two contact me and we ended up bumping heads. They seemed like they didn't want to meet or come out of pocket, just for me to send sexy pics to their email... One even called me a Gold-Digger O_o like No S*** Sherlock. Just curious about any of you ladies experiences, maybe  I'm going in with a bias.

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Permalink Reply by mavsbabe41 on July 18, 2012 at 11:56pm

Lol, the ones I have talked to on there come off as cheap and want sex only. Not my cup of tea.

DallasBadYella said:

Has anyone else had a bad experience with Black Men on the site? I've had two contact me and we ended up bumping heads. They seemed like they didn't want to meet or come out of pocket, just for me to send sexy pics to their email... One even called me a Gold-Digger O_o like No S*** Sherlock. Just curious about any of you ladies experiences, maybe  I'm going in with a bias.

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Permalink Reply by BeautyandBrains on July 19, 2012 at 1:55am

@mavs is correct...I met up with 1 & even though my profile clearly says 5-10,000 this man offered me "1500 for 5 visits"& said "you need to be realistic".had me at grand lux and he was rocking house slippers talking about shopping at Vickie's.The white men have always treated me like a queen...minus one.lol.

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Permalink Reply by DallasBadYella on July 19, 2012 at 11:38am

@B&B are you s******* me?! House Slippers.. Poor thing!!

but yeah, I asked one dude, about getting checked for STD's and he asked me where could he do that and how much!! Like dude you are 48 and never had an STD check? *Red Flag* The white men that i've talked to about it, are always like o I got one last physical or "No problem, I'll go to my Doctor's Office".

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Permalink Reply by CCD is Workin on a baller 4 she on July 19, 2012 at 1:31pm

I wouldn't do it. He just wants to be a BD. That's fine if that is all he wants but $3,000/month is laughable to me. He wants you to stretch out your body for the next 9 months with no rings (engagement and wedding band or no baby) or commitment or even legal agreement about the arrangement? Yeah. Right. Good luck with that.

BabyBallerCheeks said:

***BUMP***

LADIES! I have an issue. I did not want to start my own thread because, again, this site is public and my old baller suspects I am on here. Anyway, my old baller just asked me to have his baby. He said he will make sure the baby is well taken care of and I will never have to work again. However, he DOESN'T want to commit to me. Not sure if I want to let him knock me up. If I sued him, I would get, AT BEST, $3,000 a month (he's not Drake status). What would you do?

 

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Permalink Reply by Tone © on July 19, 2012 at 1:54pm

White men use money as a tool to control a woman. It's not about treating you like a queen it is about having power over you. If I give a woman money every week then I cut her off she is going to be willing to do anything to get back what she was getting.

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Permalink Reply by DallasBadYella on July 19, 2012 at 3:17pm

Spoken like a Poor Black Man,

The white men that I met have done nothing but of the sort. They give me free range, are never over bearing. And in the instance that I did lose a man who was giving me money I was not willing to do anything to get him back, at all times I have a level of esteem and respect that I do not believe in losing over money!! I left the man alone, and moved on.

Black men on the other hand I have witness try to control by verbal assault and calling women gold-diggers and hoes when they do not get what they want. This I have witness firsthand  and very similar to your approach on this site.

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Permalink Reply by Chocolate Dream on July 20, 2012 at 6:53pm

Different men have different tastes,you never know, you should try Sexy Jay said:

i was looking into the site, but being a BBW i know being a BBW will be even harder for me go get a nibble on that site. so I will not even try!

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Permalink Reply by CrownRoyal on July 25, 2012 at 10:06pm

Ditto i could use the coaching!

SoLuscious said:

Include me in this as well, private of course!

Quita said:

Yesss Phoenix!!! I'd like to know more please....in private, of course! :)

 

I was reading a sb blog the other day and read a post on having a sbbff...and i can SO agree. my friends don't really "KNOW" about this lifestyle i'm trying to get into, so it would be nice to have a sb bff who knows whats up, that i can talk to, chill with, have a shopping spree with...all that good stuff!

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Permalink Reply by mavsbabe41 on July 25, 2012 at 10:29pm

Crown royal are you in Dallas? :)

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Permalink Reply by CrownRoyal on July 25, 2012 at 11:33pm

No I'm in Houston :-/...Dallas is my hometown tho! I go home every 2 months

mavsbabe41 said:

Crown royal are you in Dallas? :)

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