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Permalink Reply by CCD is Workin on a baller 4 she on June 3, 2012 at 10:34am

Keep dating and doing you. Keep your options open. When a MAN really wants to be with a woman he makes time for her. You made the opening move, now he needs to make moves if he really wants to be with you. Otherwise, you just end up looking thirsty and getting used. Good luck!

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Permalink Reply by Tone © on June 3, 2012 at 12:47pm

if she likes him why does she not have to make any moves to get what she wants?
CCD is Workin on a baller 4 she said:

Keep dating and doing you. Keep your options open. When a MAN really wants to be with a woman he makes time for her. You made the opening move, now he needs to make moves if he really wants to be with you. Otherwise, you just end up looking thirsty and getting used. Good luck!

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Permalink Reply by Love is a Losing Game on June 3, 2012 at 1:16pm

+1 @CC

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Permalink Reply by CCD is Workin on a baller 4 she on June 3, 2012 at 2:40pm

She already made a move. It is time for him to make his. That way she knows he's serious.

Tone said:

if she likes him why does she not have to make any moves to get what she wants?
CCD is Workin on a baller 4 she said:

Keep dating and doing you. Keep your options open. When a MAN really wants to be with a woman he makes time for her. You made the opening move, now he needs to make moves if he really wants to be with you. Otherwise, you just end up looking thirsty and getting used. Good luck!

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Permalink Reply by Bonita on June 3, 2012 at 5:05pm

Agree with CCD..if he doesn't make a move be glad because he probably values your friendship and is not ready to commit to that level with you and won't start something he can't really follow thru with

CCD is Workin on a baller 4 she said:

She already made a move. It is time for him to make his. That way she knows he's serious.
Tone said:

if she likes him why does she not have to make any moves to get what she wants?
CCD is Workin on a baller 4 she said:

Keep dating and doing you. Keep your options open. When a MAN really wants to be with a woman he makes time for her. You made the opening move, now he needs to make moves if he really wants to be with you. Otherwise, you just end up looking thirsty and getting used. Good luck!

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Permalink Reply by Jae Nei on June 3, 2012 at 7:25pm

1st, thanks for the advice given thus far.

2nd....

Well, don't think I'm making excuses for him, but when I say we have busy lives, I mean B.U.S.Y. My job has me on a 6 month travelling schedule where I'm only home every other weekend (if that), and he's always on tour...ESPECIALLY on the weekends. Prior to me admitting my feelings, I would occasionally hang out with him at the studio or before/after a show. But that was as a friend, not only to him, but a majority of the other people there. It's still cool to do so, but we've both agreed that we'd rather not have to share our free time with his homeboys and the other artists. I understand and respect the work that goes into perfecting his craft so I'm not expecting him to neglect work, but dang, tell me something....

Right?

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