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This dude has me pissed beyond my mind, but I am staying cool and not screaming...he keep having me waiting until he finishes work...which might I add have given amble space weeks and months at a time...when he needed I have been there, but I label his ass selfish. I have been told by so many different psychics that he is where I am supposed to be...he is my soul mate and I have to have patients with him, because he is slow...This industry dude got me messed up like I have tried different approaches with him but his ego and his attitude got him thinking he runs this...I am confused and I am trying to figure out away to set his ass straight...Feelings, Emotions and Money is rapped up in all of this.
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Permalink Reply by RedPopsicle on -
Yes, some of my money is rapped up in this relationship and there maybe more in the future? But future is sketchy and I am out of my element this aint like no hood relationship like before with other guys.
Collete said:is some of your own money involved...
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Permalink Reply by Collete on -
Do you love, respect and trust dude that he is making decisions and considering you before he makes them? if so i'll tell you to stay, if not cut your losses and jet
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Permalink Reply by RedPopsicle on
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Yup
Collete said:is some of your own money involved...
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Permalink Reply by Love is a Losing Game on
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You gotta step away to make a point. That's they only thing they can hear. A week, stop answering, and waiting, he will catch on.
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Permalink Reply by l8dy-c on -
You sound very upset and frustrated, I hope you understand that you deserve more than this. I know you probably have strong feelings for him but I guarentee he will probably act like nothing and probably blame you. Most guys like this do that. I myself know this and when my baller starts to act like that I have to remember
that other people can be our mirrors, reflecting our better and worse qualities. I say cheat on your man and you might get ahead.
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Permalink Reply by Bonita on -
I can't give any advice on this because your judgement when it comes to this guy is completly impaired due to the fact that you believe he is your soulmate.
All the best!
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Permalink Reply by Collete on
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Like....
Bonita said:I can't give any advice on this because your judgement when it comes to this guy is completly impaired due to the fact that you believe he is your soulmate.
All the best!
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Permalink Reply by LaMonet on -
A psychic told you all that? Tsk tsk... How much are you emotionally invested are you in this?
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Permalink Reply by l8dy-c on
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Funny this psychic didn't predict any of this time for a new one or just live and learn. Trust me Boo boo everyone has promblems with their soulmates. Some how tho, I dint know exactly what kind of advice to give because I don't think he is like this all the time, I know he has good qualities. You need either a therapist or someone like me. I love to give advice, if you have self esteem issues or anything you haven't mentioned it would me help you.
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Permalink Reply by RedPopsicle on
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I don't have self-esteem issues when it is our time yes he treats like a lady...The various psychics told me he is my soul mate,but that we would have issues in our relationship, but we will get through it. I dont really have anyone to talk to because no one has ever been with a man in the industry. My mom and I are not on speaking turns and she dated my dad who was big on our local music scene back home. As far as this man i dont know how to handle this I am angry but I know if I blow up at him only thing will happen is we will fight and get nothing resolved. We both have tempers and he knows I can bark back at him, but when it comes to work it is all work and nothing else. I have been neglected and I have not had sex with anyone since the last time we spent time together. I gave up my plans to make way for him recently and he was a no show after he told me he was coming to see me (I did not ask for him to come he made that decision). I do love him but I am not against advice to make things work in my favor. I have never been patient and waited for any man but him. I have not put all my eggs in a basket but with him. I have only talked to a pshychic regarding him never about any other man and I talked to other pshychic to verify if the info was correct.
He has been selfish with his time and whoever said it he does blame me for something recently and I know I did nothing wrong. I cant keep talking to my friends because if we do move forward like it was said I dont want them to hate him and it cause friction between those I love.
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Permalink Reply by l8dy-c on
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Ok, that's a good first step in asking for help. Like, I said I have/ still in the same situation. Please yourself self b4 him. It does sound he is your soulmate, so yes you will get through this.
RedPopsicle said:I don't have self-esteem issues when it is our time yes he treats like a lady...The various psychics told me he is my soul mate,but that we would have issues in our relationship, but we will get through it. I dont really have anyone to talk to because no one has ever been with a man in the industry. My mom and I are not on speaking turns and she dated my dad who was big on our local music scene back home. As far as this man i dont know how to handle this I am angry but I know if I blow up at him only thing will happen is we will fight and get nothing resolved. We both have tempers and he knows I can bark back at him, but when it comes to work it is all work and nothing else. I have been neglected and I have not had sex with anyone since the last time we spent time together. I gave up my plans to make way for him recently and he was a no show after he told me he was coming to see me (I did not ask for him to come he made that decision). I do love him but I am not against advice to make things work in my favor. I have never been patient and waited for any man but him. I have not put all my eggs in a basket but with him. I have only talked to a pshychic regarding him never about any other man and I talked to other pshychic to verify if the info was correct.
He has been selfish with his time and whoever said it he does blame me for something recently and I know I did nothing wrong. I cant keep talking to my friends because if we do move forward like it was said I dont want them to hate him and it cause friction between those I love.
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