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Permalink Reply by RedPopsicle on June 10, 2012 at 11:03pm

I am very invested emotionally I have not looked at another accept for him and he was the last person I had sex with months ago.

LaMonet said:

 A psychic told you all that? Tsk tsk... How much are you emotionally invested are you in this?

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Permalink Reply by LaMonet on June 10, 2012 at 11:15pm

You know this may be something you don't want, but might 'need'. If this guy is your soulmate than that means he's come into your life for a reason. There something to learn here that you may not yet be getting. I've been involved in and out of my soulmates life for years now so I know how you feel.

SQ: Isn't possible to have more than one soulmate?

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Permalink Reply by Bonita on June 10, 2012 at 11:31pm

I never get messy but have noticed you are always telling folks they have self esteem issues - are you trying to tell us something?

l8dy-c said:

Funny this psychic didn't predict any of this time for a new one or just live and learn. Trust me Boo boo everyone has promblems with their soulmates. Some how tho, I dint know exactly what kind of advice to give because I don't think he is like this all the time, I know he has good qualities. You need either a therapist or someone like me. I love to give advice, if you have self esteem issues or anything you haven't mentioned it would me help you.

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Permalink Reply by Bonita on June 10, 2012 at 11:35pm

Did I get this right? Ya'all are together and have not had sex in months?

RedPopsicle said:

I am very invested emotionally I have not looked at another accept for him and he was the last person I had sex with months ago.

LaMonet said:

 A psychic told you all that? Tsk tsk... How much are you emotionally invested are you in this?

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Permalink Reply by LaMonet on June 10, 2012 at 11:39pm

Mmmmm hmmmm.

Bonita said:

Did I get this right? Ya'all are together and have not had sex in months?

RedPopsicle said:

I am very invested emotionally I have not looked at another accept for him and he was the last person I had sex with months ago.

LaMonet said:

 A psychic told you all that? Tsk tsk... How much are you emotionally invested are you in this?

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Permalink Reply by l8dy-c on June 10, 2012 at 11:50pm

In this case it's seems like this guy is not gonna admit and she was getting blamed.He obviously has self esteem issues.I just don't want her to take that personally. I don't want her self worth to disappear.
You seem to be on defensive and anxious.Your reviewing my blogs you can't focus your attention on anything else? Maybe you need serenity in your life?
Maybe you should do something that could nuture your mind, body and spirit.When you treat yourself with love and tenderness, you'll be able to deal with challenges that life presents. 

Bonita said:

I never get messy but have noticed you are always telling folks they have self esteem issues - are you trying to tell us something?

l8dy-c said:

Funny this psychic didn't predict any of this time for a new one or just live and learn. Trust me Boo boo everyone has promblems with their soulmates. Some how tho, I dint know exactly what kind of advice to give because I don't think he is like this all the time, I know he has good qualities. You need either a therapist or someone like me. I love to give advice, if you have self esteem issues or anything you haven't mentioned it would me help you.

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Permalink Reply by Collete on June 10, 2012 at 11:50pm

lol...u silly Bonita

Bonita said:

I never get messy but have noticed you are always telling folks they have self esteem issues - are you trying to tell us something?

l8dy-c said:

Funny this psychic didn't predict any of this time for a new one or just live and learn. Trust me Boo boo everyone has promblems with their soulmates. Some how tho, I dint know exactly what kind of advice to give because I don't think he is like this all the time, I know he has good qualities. You need either a therapist or someone like me. I love to give advice, if you have self esteem issues or anything you haven't mentioned it would me help you.

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Permalink Reply by Collete on June 10, 2012 at 11:52pm

What could he possibly be dealing with that he wouldn't wanna have sex or are u the one not tryna have sex with him? because you dont always want it to be on his terms?

Bonita said:

Did I get this right? Ya'all are together and have not had sex in months?

RedPopsicle said:

I am very invested emotionally I have not looked at another accept for him and he was the last person I had sex with months ago.

LaMonet said:

 A psychic told you all that? Tsk tsk... How much are you emotionally invested are you in this?

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Permalink Reply by RedPopsicle on June 11, 2012 at 6:48am

We have not been able to spend anytime when we where last together he left the state to go out on business so he is just getting back.  Work takes everything and I am left giving him all the space he needs.  When we are apart I know we both want to have sex with each other he always makes me aware that I get him there.  I dont doubt that he does not miss me but when I tell him what he is doing he shuts down on me and I dont want him to shut down I want him to get it.  His way of dealing with things is to chastise me like a child and I can not speak.  He knows if I do I am going to tell him how I feel and what he is doing wrong. Now I need a new way to make him see he is doing wrong without saying it. 

Collete said:

What could he possibly be dealing with that he wouldn't wanna have sex or are u the one not tryna have sex with him? because you dont always want it to be on his terms?

Bonita said:

Did I get this right? Ya'all are together and have not had sex in months?

RedPopsicle said:

I am very invested emotionally I have not looked at another accept for him and he was the last person I had sex with months ago.

LaMonet said:

 A psychic told you all that? Tsk tsk... How much are you emotionally invested are you in this?

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Permalink Reply by MS. UCAN NEVA GET ENUFF!! on June 11, 2012 at 11:06am

 How are you going to get your point across if you can't speak.and what exactly do you mean by that?? 

Don't settle for anything because someone told you that was your soulmate..I saw a psychic/palm reader before and they told me that guy I was with would be my one, turned out that bastard was married.....don't believe all that, its for entertainment purposes (IMO).

 

If he knows you're desperate for a relationship, he will treat you just as he is now. Show him you don't want/need him.  How exactly is your money invested in all this. 

OAN:  Would you want this for a child right now??

 

RedPopsicle said:

We have not been able to spend anytime when we where last together he left the state to go out on business so he is just getting back.  Work takes everything and I am left giving him all the space he needs.  When we are apart I know we both want to have sex with each other he always makes me aware that I get him there.  I dont doubt that he does not miss me but when I tell him what he is doing he shuts down on me and I dont want him to shut down I want him to get it.  His way of dealing with things is to chastise me like a child and I can not speak.  He knows if I do I am going to tell him how I feel and what he is doing wrong. Now I need a new way to make him see he is doing wrong without saying it. 

Collete said:

What could he possibly be dealing with that he wouldn't wanna have sex or are u the one not tryna have sex with him? because you dont always want it to be on his terms?

Bonita said:

Did I get this right? Ya'all are together and have not had sex in months?

RedPopsicle said:

I am very invested emotionally I have not looked at another accept for him and he was the last person I had sex with months ago.

LaMonet said:

 A psychic told you all that? Tsk tsk... How much are you emotionally invested are you in this?

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Permalink Reply by BlackSnakeMoan on June 11, 2012 at 11:31am

you got patients with him? but he's slow. now that's funny

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Permalink Reply by MS. UCAN NEVA GET ENUFF!! on June 11, 2012 at 12:26pm

LMAO...I wish yall could hear me laugh at this!!! I wasn't going to say anything.  aannnd it wa smore than once.
 
BlackSnakeMoan said:

you got patients with him? but he's slow. now that's funny

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